Tell me you have internalized misogyny without telling me you have internalized misogyny.

Typical_Candle_5627 · 2021-10-04T16:49:22+00:00

the comments section on this is such a fucking dumpster fire i wanted to comment but didn’t want to bring on a scrotey hellfire wrath. A few quick things i noticed

1) Notice the scrotes start comparing “men” to “FEMALES,” thus debasing them to their sex alone and stripping them of their humanity

2) the top commenter assumes men are always “logical” and women are always “emotional.” Fucking plz. The whole comment section is proof to the counter of this. Also being “logical” isn’t the flex that these sociopaths think it is.

3) This woman’s head is so far up her own ass she’s tearing other women back down in the comments.

4) I REFUSE to own any more shame, guilt, or reproach for a man refusing to listen when he’s spoken to. That’s on HIM sis.

sewingmachinesavior · 2021-10-04T17:30:30+00:00

I bought this lie so hard in my marriage. But guess what? I didn’t have trouble communicating with my friends, or at work, or with the repair guy.

Sooo, guess what? I’m not a bad communicator. They just don’t care or don’t like what the communication is about. And THAT is no longer my problem. Happy to show myself out. Bye!

Painfulmenstruation · 2021-10-04T14:52:54+00:00

She’s been gaslit.

ASeaOfQuotes · 2021-10-04T14:37:35+00:00

Based on her username alone, you can tell her entire channel (and probably her personality) revolves around being a wife. Yikes.

shelballama · 2021-10-04T15:15:11+00:00

Yes ladies, WE are the poor communicators. We just need a new and softer way to ask men to pull their weight, treat us like people. Clearly it's all the responsibility on us all the time

oneheadlight312 · 2021-10-04T16:42:16+00:00

Omg I ran across her video last night on tik tok and I thought to myself lady where have you been all your life? You can communicate any way you want to to a man but if he's a dick and doesn't want to hear it, he will always use your communication style or whatever other excuse to wiggle out of the responsibility of hearing you. They eithet wanna hear you or they don't. And alot of the time they just dont want to.. You don't have to tip toe, it doesn't do any good. I hope somebody has picked her.

catlady4u · 2021-10-04T14:52:02+00:00

She is saying women need to cOmMuNiCaTe the 'right way'. 🙄 Seems straightforward enough.. but you can plainly state your needs over and over and over again, in different ways. Too bad it just doesn't work.

Why do this to yourself? Men truly understand what we have been saying, only when we walk away.

seadragon6 · 2021-10-04T19:36:36+00:00

She looks exhausted. And now I am too, having listened to this.

Confidence_Relative · 2021-10-04T19:40:43+00:00

Hilarious how men aren’t always shitting on themselves and their fucking poor Communication skills! Where are the guys on Tik Tok yakking about what they can do better?? No it’s all on us to make them be civil adults.

Sage_Planter · 2021-10-04T20:11:23+00:00

My last relationship was with a NVM.

At the time, my job was negotiating complex contracts on behalf of a Fortune 500 company. All I did was communicate. Somehow I seemed to excel at in the workplace.

Yet, for whatever reason, it just didn't seem to work. You know why? Because he wasn't listening, and he didn't care. My business contacts were more keen to listen to my needs and accommodate me than my partner was.

MsWriteNow07 · 2021-10-04T15:37:17+00:00

She looks like some narcissist has worn her out. She looks exhausted and now she’s trying to convince herself this is normal. Sad

RufusLaButte · 2021-10-04T14:44:00+00:00

Her stupid condescending smile through all of it (that she actually knows is bullshit but “sounds reasonable” to other hardcore pickmes). Miss me with this bullshit.

Platipus6 · 2021-10-04T22:28:50+00:00

Holy fucking gaslighting victim batman.

She's correct in the first half, and she's parroting the abusive retorts her husband has jammed down her throat.

Yes, we come with an accurate observation. And then a gaslighter abuses us a second time and convinces us wE'rE maKiNg aN aSsumPtioN.

Yes, we want to feel heard, because gaslighters stonewall us and pretend to not understand to fuck with us.

Yes, when we're talking about how his behaviour affects us, why the fuck would we have empathy for him? Why would we put ourselves in the shoes of the abuser? Unless it's to rationalize his rEaSoNs for abuse? There are no excuses for abuse fuck outta here.

FuckSakez · 2021-10-04T15:06:57+00:00

I thought this was satire and was waiting for the punchline. Glad I’ve levelled up from excusing low value interactions with men.

xfelugirlx · 2021-10-04T22:15:24+00:00

Sure because showing emotions when they hurt you is bad bad, crying, anger, all of these are a reaction to something worse. Just think about it, these girl trying to blame women when men do the dirty part of the discussion. I don’t want a man to tell my point 68 times like a toddler

ashcantcatchabreak · 2021-10-05T09:51:29+00:00

She hates herself and other women

idiosyncraticg1 · 2021-10-05T01:16:46+00:00

Is this satire? Somehow I’m able to communicate well with my friends and coworkers, but not men. Sounds like the problem isn’t me.

eveloe · 2021-10-05T16:51:21+00:00

Today I learned that women, the social group responsible for the education and speech of ALL HUMANITY, is now not good at communicating.

Make it make sense

CuntWaffe · 2021-10-05T01:54:28+00:00

Girl, if your communication skills are so good, where's your wedding ring?

Biracial_tooth_fairy · 2021-10-04T17:30:52+00:00

Steps 2 better communication with the scrotes: 1. Gaslight yourself 2. Suppress any emotions you have towards literally anything 3. Recognize that you are still self-absorbed🤷‍♀️

Title	Tell me you have internalized misogyny without telling me you have internalized misogyny.
Author	the-worst-
Upvotes	141
Comments	36
Date	October 4, 2021 2:27 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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