Sometimes a woman is single BECAUSE she settled not because she was too picky.

When can a woman talk about how bad it feels to get dumped by a man she lowered her standards for?🥶

Are women too picky? Or are they discerning about incompatibilities but talked out of their instincts because being single is stigmatized and weaponized as a measurement of a woman’s desirability?

Women that date need to understand that it’s not that “a man will waste your time if you let him” but that “a man will waste your time by being covertly and overtly deceptive” and that society will simultaneously scare you about being single AND shame you for “choosing the wrong man” or “allowing him to waste your time”.

Discern between accountability and OVER responsibility.