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“Staring at another person - crude and insensitive, but not cheating”

“Masturbating at sexy videos of another person - no big deal, in moderation”

Um, isn’t masturbating at sexy videos of another person STARING AT ANOTHER PERSON?! 🤣🤣

So it’s only disrespectful if you stare in-front of your partner but not if it’s done in secret, on a screen, staring at them. Got it. I feel the mental gymnastics for her.

I can’t fucking stand advise like this because it minimized and invalidated OP’s feelings. This woman has demonstrated beautiful character through the ability to utilize self-control for the benefit of a healthy relationship. This “relationship-guru” didn’t even acknowledge that if she can control herself why can’t he? He only addressed that we all find other people attractive which, yup, we do, duh. Now what about the part where his self-control comes in?

Good ol’ brainwashing. Gotta follow the sheep so we can collectively say that a habit proven to detrimental is completely normal.

Honey, he ain’t as devoted to you as you are to him.