Globalization and the internet makes everything more accessible and certain aspects of life easier. You can easily get cheap goods delivered to your door and can find potential mates on dating apps. However there is no reason to support your local business if amazon got the same goods for cheaper and no reason to commit to an average dude if you got a ton of better options online. This natural inequality created by accessiblity eventually leads to increased polorization. This can be seen in r/antiwork members complaining about the billionares and incels complaining about the Chads.