If you (m/f) don't have an well-established job or if you didn't finish your studies yet, most relationships are a waste of time, money, focus, energy and patience. And, most of the time, these relationships tend to end quickly, and some in the court. People are immature. Then, after breaking the relationship, you even get the classic depression/trauma stage, that can last many years. A good relationship is hard to make and requires many variables that people never consider. Being single today is a smart choice for many people and a good way to avoid problems while you're working on yourself, until you're finally ready to a true relationship. I think many people know this (at least in a subconscious level), but today, idk why, society see single persons with a bad connotation. Society pressures people to date, just to achieve social acceptance. Change my mind