What is the most ''flawed'' archetype of a person you'd date?

pinktuliplover · 2022-09-01T21:30:49+00:00

I date guys that a bit more traditional so there are lots of flaws to look out for.

Super ego, misogynistic, weaponizing gender roles, lazy when it comes to domestic work, violence, “That’s how I was raised” attitude.

Essentially, if I’m looking for a more masculine man, I’m likely to notice at least a few toxic masculinity traits. I can put up with a certain degree of some of these things, but nothing extreme.

ashpr0ulx · 2022-09-01T21:08:04+00:00

i definitely am the girl who dates asshole bad boys.

it just depends how much of an asshole. rough around the edges? a little blunt or brash? rowdy? all good.

the line is crossed at genuinely cruel, uncaring, and behavior that i find egregiously dangerous or irresponsible

houstongradengineer · 2022-09-02T02:40:33+00:00

I’m conservative virgin Muslim dude (hopefully will be engaged by the end of the year 🥳). Every ultra leftist chick on my campus tried to date me at some point. Even after I told them I don’t date.

I will never understand my appeal to them.

I’m not the only one either. I think the issue is that many people have this “I can change him” complex.

So they go after polar opposites.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-09-02T00:03:32+00:00

I'd date a criminal if their crime was nonviolent. Especially drug offenses or something stupid like peeing on the street or like a DUI when a cop is a cunt and nabs you while sleeping in your car a la Marshawn lynch (in a non functional car in a junk yard, still got a DUI)

Barely-moral · 2022-09-01T23:21:52+00:00

As long as I am getting what I want from the relationship I don't care about anything else. She could have a shrine to Hitler and sacrifice puppies and children to eldritch gods and I would not give a single fuck.

MrCamel0 · 2022-09-02T08:11:12+00:00

Dated a doctor once that was a little crazy. I called it quits when she was trying to get me to fill narcotic prescriptions for her.

monettegia · 2022-09-01T22:01:47+00:00

Tbh anything is better than a single mom. Like id rather date a drug addict instead of a single mom who has her shit together.

So single mom is the biggest flaw where i draw the line, that and ugly/fat

2022-09-01T21:08:16+00:00

I don’t really know how to answer this, because it seems to me as if flaws aren’t quantifiable. I don’t sit down and count them or make a list. Everybody has many flaws. It’s just part of their character. The question isn’t “how flawed can a person be,” but rather does their particular combination of strengths and flaws work with mine. And that’s not something that’s easily pinned down, you learn it by experience as you get to know someone.

TheRedPillRipper · 2022-09-01T21:04:58+00:00

”flawed” archetype

Crazy.

No 1: A stripper who hit me up via fb. We lasted a few months. It was wild.

No 2: Nurse/beauty pageant contestant. We met at uni. Had daddy issues. We too lasted a few months.

No 3: Another nurse. She saw me in the library; found my fb, and added me. Didn’t tell me about it until a few weeks in. Lasted roughly a month.

I notch those up to life experience, and a solid life lesson.

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kevkaneki · 2022-09-02T15:30:39+00:00

I’d “date” anyone I thought was hot, but craziness is where I draw the line. And I’m talking craziness like lying about being on birth control, getting physical, breaking or destroying my stuff, causing a scene at my work, slashing my tires, that sort of thing… I have a zero tolerance policy for crazy, and once you show me you have the capacity to do wild shit I will disappear from your life forever lmao.

bardy1972 · 2022-09-02T17:17:49+00:00

I think the acceptable flaws are conditional, like "but" statements.

He doesn't make a lot of money, but...e.g. he's responsible with money, or he's very handy with car/home repairs, etc.

He's not a looker, but...e.g. he's healthy/fit, or happy, or a great communicator, etc.

As long as the flaw is not a deal breaker, I'd be willing to consider and weigh other factors.

Gaycunt453 · 2022-09-02T20:40:20+00:00

Someone who is kinda dumb or socially inept as long as they have a genuinely kind soul

Easteuroblondie · 2022-09-03T04:02:28+00:00

I can handle jealous guys because I’m not very flirty naturally, even though I do attract attention. I’ve dated people who had been cheated on and had trust issues and I honestly think I helped them recover from that particular pain because I never upset that dynamic.

But then we get caught up on other, unrelated issues so still not great. Just in this way, I can handle it

Although, sometimes I find jealous guys can be jealous over your attention — from anyone — not just romantic competition (theoretically). Like over your time and shit too, whether that be with family or friends or whatever. That shit gets annoying for sure

Title	What is the most ''flawed'' archetype of a person you'd date?
Author	SantarpiosPizza
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Comments	44
Date	September 1, 2022 8:55 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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