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If I have to earn all the money, pay all the bills, and do all the housework...WHY the fuck would I keep her around?

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December 12, 2022

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Title	If I have to earn all the money, pay all the bills, and do all the housework...WHY the fuck would I keep her around?
Author	ThrowAway29307845034
Upvotes	559
Comments	128
Date	December 12, 2022 3:03 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/zk1gqw/if_i_have_to_earn_all_the_money_pay_all_the_bills/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/if-i-have-to-earn-all-the-money-pay-all-the-bills.1144143 https://theredarchive.com/post/1144143

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While he phrased it horribly, the point he was making was it’s a better give take relationship to have a maid than what modern day romance is.

If he has a girlfriend/wife/whatever, he (the man) has to give them money, give them love, do all the work, and earn the woman’s love. Whereas the woman really doesn’t need to do Jack shit. The other comment even said so. The woman he was dating had a part time job and lived rent free with him. She got all of it and gave nothing back. No cleaning, no rent, no cooking, no nothing.

Compare that to a maid and while he pays for the service. At least they do the job of cleaning his house. In a solely give, take relationship the maid gives more than the girlfriend does.

Of course this isn’t every relationship, but it’s happening a lot and to many people.

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[–]toss88111 points 3 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link

Like, you literally just implied it's better to have a maid/slave who does whatever you want and does all the housework instead of a normal loving relationship where you both put work in.

Where did Slave come from? From your crazy interpretation you are associating someone paying for a service as making them a slave? Being a bit over dramatic you think?

Also, how is expecting someone to do 2-4 hours of work a week (what he paid a maid) unreasonable when he is paying 100% of the rent. Hell I'll take this dude up on his offer, rent most places is $2K/mo, so for my share of $1K/mo or $250/wk, that is over $50/hr for doing some cleaning.

a normal loving relationship where you both put work in

How was she putting work in? She was only working part time, only paying for groceries and not doing any housework. Seems he was the slave doing all the work and paying all the bills.

Oh and if you want to bring up emotional/physical support, than she was a Ho.

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To expand on my observations, the guy is an asian male (30) living in a small town. So dating is WAY harder even if he is a doctor. He is also younger, fresh out of med school so likely hasn't had that much life experience towards these things except that he's probably happy that a woman finally is giving him attention. I've personally also spent time working in the middle of nowhere small town as an asian early in my career so I can sympathsize on the feeling of loneliness.

She's not bad looking, but at 35 with a kid that would be an instant disqualifier to me. Not to mention that I've lost track on how many partners she's been with as she spent her 20's dating bad boys/drug dealers. But when a dude falls in love, it's easy to throw logic out the door despite the red flags. So we will just have to see how this relationship goes

In asian culture, it's a huge taboo to bring home a single mom to introduce to your parents. If I were to have worked hard to get to where I'm at, then tell me parents I'm going to wife up some chick with a kid in tow (whose college I'd be on the hook for in a few years), I'd be disowned! "But mom, she loves me!"

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Stay at home homemaker? she'll complain about doing all the housework. working partner, and split household chores equally...she'll complain that she has to do ALL of 'her' chores. Pay for a housekeeper, she'll complain that she still has to cook.

Apparently emotional labour is a thing, according to these modern women.

It's called leadership. In a traditional relationship, men are leaders when it comes to the overall relationship matters AND matters outside the house, and women are the leaders when it comes to household matters (i.e. they're in charge).

Being in charge comes with the responsibilities of making sure whatever they're in charge of play out as intended. It's just called being a leader. Men do this too for whatever they're in charge of, and yet women seem to be making a big fuss about this whole emotional labour issue... it's like they've either never taken charge of anything enough to understand this or they don't actually want to be in charge of anything.

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I am from an EU country and from what I read here, some things in the USA are way worse than in my country.

Nowadays both the wife and the husband work outside the home but there is a tendency for women to do the majority of housework - especially cooking. (Many couples get a maid once a week for a good cleaning of the house.)

There is a huge difference between my parents' generation and mine. My mother always did all the housework as did most women of her time. They did not work outside the home and they took great pride in their housekeeping and cooking. They will even refuse any help offered by men. Men, on the other hand were the providers and this system has worked for thousands of years.

The 'study' linked in the title is based on a questionnaire and worse still it was an opt-in questionnaire. I studied the hard sciences and it is difficult to play with data in physics or chemistry but when it comes to the so called social sciences you can get whatever results you desire by the way you word your questions, by the way the sample is selected, by the way the data is massaged and by statistical techniques.

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Really simple solution.

Both of you work full time and then you hire a maid service to come in twice a week while you're at work and then you split the cost. Don't want to stay at home and watch toddlers? Daycare.

The problem is that most stay at home parents want it both ways. They want to spend their day half-assing it around the house and playing with the kids and then have their spouse come home and put in an extra couple hours of work to get everything in order while they put their feet up and sigh about how they had such a difficult day sitting there on the couch with their laptop and a cup of coffee while they kids watched Paw Patrol reruns.

That half hour whipping together a sandwich for the kids? Pure torture!

That 20 minutes it took to throw in a load of laundry and move it to the drier? Sheer agony!

People need to stop being dishonest about the amount of time they actually spend working during the day at home. I've been a stay at home spouse before and was bored out of my fucking mind because it took less than two hours a day to do everything except for the meals, which we often shared the preparation of. Eventually when I found fulltime work again, we just hired in a maid who spent less than four hours a week doing an even better job than I did and handling messes nobody wants to do like kitty litter duty.

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The study collected data from over 700 women partnered with men who also had children. The new findings indicate that the decline in sexual desire may be related to two factors: 1) the perception that the labor division is unfair and 2) perceiving their partner as dependent on them.

The audacity to live in someone's house, eat their food, enjoy their heating, internet, water, gas, electric, etc .... and you think THEY are dependant on YOU o.O

"I do most of the housework" , YES !

that's the deal, I do work outside the house, and guess what? YOU do none of THAT work !

funny how you don't hear me complaining "I do most of the non-housework" eh ?

So yes, if you're going to be completely fucking stupid and look at YOUR side of the equation and notice only YOU are doing that kind of work, that's because it's the entire fucking POINT of YOUR work.

It's as asinine as going to the shop to buy groceries and when you hand over the money to the cashier complaining "I notice i did most of the work to earn this money to pay for the items..."

Yes, and THEY did "most of the work" to MAKE those items available to you,.

THEIR role is : MAKING shit you need

YOUR role is : work to earn money to pay for items someone else makes.

Jesus fucking christ it's like talking to 3 year old o.O

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Women can vote for warmongers while immune to the draft, but somehow we're the sexists in your willfully ignorant, delusional mind.

Women are almost zero percent of military fatalities, but somehow we're the sexists in your willfully ignorant, delusional mind.

Women can create debt their husbands are responsible for, but somehow we're the sexists in your willfully ignorant, delusional mind.

Women demand equal pay but won't do equal work in professions of excessive difficulty, discomfort, and DEATH, but somehow we're the sexists in your willfully ignorant, delusional mind.

Women have made laws such that if men lie about birth control that's rape while if a woman lies about birth control he should have just kept it in his pants, but somehow we're the sexists in your willfully ignorant, delusional mind.

Women can incriminate any man upon any accusation without due process but never pay a price when they lie, but somehow we're the sexists in your willfully ignorant, delusional mind.

Women have special laws protecting only them from violence in violation of the 14th Amendment protections of equality before the law, but somehow we're the sexists in your willfully ignorant, delusional mind.

Women can choose whether or not to be a parent after sex and even after birth because of their sex but men should just keep it in their pants over reasons of sex (sexism), but somehow we're the sexists in your willfully ignorant, delusional mind.

Women almost exclusively refuse to marry men of lower financial station thus ensuring that if they initiate a divorce, they will get alimony, but somehow we're the sexists in your willfully ignorant, delusional mind.

Women can take a child away from the father during a separation and that’s called physical custody, but when a man does the same it’s kidnapping, but somehow we're the sexists in your willfully ignorant, delusional mind.

Women can be violent towards men with impunity, but if a man even so much as defends himself he’s seen as a woman beater and is all too often convicted of such, but somehow we're the sexists in your willfully ignorant, delusional mind.

Women are automatically presumed to get custody of children because of sexist assumptions about only mothers being necessary, but somehow we're the sexists in your willfully ignorant, delusional mind.

Women are immune to genital cutting while almost all boys have their penises mutilated at birth, but somehow we're the sexists in your willfully ignorant, delusional mind.

But none of this undeniable, objectively true evidence will convince you you're wrong because you're an irretrievable, dishonest bigot.

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This is one of those things that doesn't have an enforceable solution. Fuck boys exist and they will do anything to get pussy. It used to be that overweight women or women with kids were considered undesirable. A woman with 2 baby daddys was a big no no, wouldn't touch it with a 10ft pole back in the day. Now there's a fuck boy ready to take over and give her baby numbers 3. These women show zero appreciation for a guy that a single with no kids. No concept of baggage or sacrifice exist. There are no fat chicks anymore, just "thick" with the same set of demands and thin women. It use to be that if you were a fat chick you were nice, cause you had to be, otherwise no one would want to be around you. There is no solution to fix this. Im realizing the only thing you can do is date a foreign women while they are still out there. Those prospects are diminishing as these countries become more developed and western.

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No, you're wrong. Overweight men and overweight women can be nice or they can be dicks and it doesn't matter because people's preferences aren't exclusively perfectly fit and muscled bodies. I've known overweight men who have girlfriends and wives and they're complete assholes. I've known overweight men who were super nice and were alone. Same thing with women. It literally doesn't matter. Thing is though, you're not taking that into account. You're going based off your preferences, which you assumed are universal, that you like skinny women and you don't like larger women, so larger women should make up for their largeness by debasing themselves and lowering themselves before you. Skinny women don't have to do that because they're pretty and you like them better. And overweight men? Oh, they don't even need to bother doing anything cause they're just poor creatures that nobody wants anyway so their behavior won't change anything. It's an interesting and roundabout way to say "there are things expected of women that aren't expected of men," but it's still what you're saying.

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I have never stated that overweight ugly men can't make themselves at least slightly attractive by buliding up some muscles and lowering body fat (I am taking normal fit level of muscles and bf no some ripped steroid greek god level) but topic which all of you pursued was that fat (not slightly overweight) women have/had to (debatable) be nicer and lower their standards to get laid/get into relationship with a man while fat men don't. And your ad persona comment towards my preferences for was weak and shows how that you don't have any more valid claims against my opinion hence you decided to take the "fight" to the ground. For your information i prefer taller well build women (not fat). They do not need to be skinny, aome muscles and body fat is desirable in the right places ofc. However i do not know how my preferences affect what i have said above (I am 6'3 so i do not need to hate women because they prefer taller men)

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Overweight men need to be nicer too or make up for it some otherway. Men have more options, they can bring money, talent, sense of humor to the equation. Women have less options. Im fine with womens rights and the right for women to choose. I am however highly disappointed in the choice's the majority of women make. Just because you are free, doesn't mean you should make poor choices. It reminds me of that female journalist from gawker who decided to date a famous chess player for the sole purpose of documenting the date to write an article talking trash, only to have it backfire. There was a meme going around with picture of her with some text that read, "they said i could be anything, so i became a cunt". Women can do whatever they want, but dont think you can make poor choices and not be criticized. 90% percent of womens grievances with men could have been avoided by making better personal choices and also choosing better men. Womens priorities today are completely messed up and devoid of logic. You have freedom of choice but what did you do with it? Are you happier than a woman from the 50's? I don't think so. The family unit is broken but if you ask women they have no idea why or just blame it on men yet men are the same as they were 100 years ago, they didn't change. Women changed.

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LOL. What a dumpster fire.

The new findings indicate that the decline in sexual desire may be related to two factors: 1) the perception that the labor division is unfair and 2) perceiving their partner as dependent on them.

COPE much? Anybody who has ever tasted the red pill knows that decline in sexual attraction is WHOLLY #2. Your girlfriend can be your lover or your mother, not both. They're mutually exclusive.

Prior research has found that biology is not always the cause of a woman’s struggle with sexual desire

Disingenuous much? Prior research has found that women's sexual desire issues are almost wholly psychological. Not biological.

Emily Harris and colleagues recognized that little research had been done on the origin of these causal factors.

Because they do not want the truth. It goes counter to feminist agenda that bossbabes are awesome and you can have it all.

When household chores are not shared equally, there is a significant decrease in sexual desire. However, their second hypothesis suggested that sexual desire declines due to the perceived unfairness of the division of labor; the data only weakly support this. Finally, there was a significant correlation between lack of desire, household chore responsibilities, and perceived dependence of the male partner.

CALLED IT. It isn't the labor, it's the dependence.

These findings support the heteronormativity theory, which states that inequities in household labor can lead to a blurring of mother and partner roles, and that feeling like a partner’s mother is not conducive to desire.”

Wow. They admitted it? I'm shocked. Also validated.

EDIT: And then the dishonest throwaway poster deletes themselves after insulting honest respondents because, I suspect, they have no rational, coherent, intelligent response to counter with. Typical.

EDIT 2 - article link is here because OP cowardly self-deleted LINK

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Did you read this or just like the clock bait title? Most families are two income households now. You missed the point of the article. It is a problem when a man is not the sole earner and also not contributing to house work. If your wife wasn't working much and also not cooking or cleaning you also would not be satisfied with her

I just like clock bait, lol. Also, keep pretending that almost all women don't demand men pay the bills. That just makes you dishonest, and makes you look stupid. We both know damn well you're ignoring what the reality is. Women spend ~80% of the money in the US. GTFO with your bigoted lens.

u/breemakin I reject your implication that it's solely on virtuous things when I see what women actually spend money on in economic reports. GTFO with that dishonest shit.

Stop pretending that most women don't demand men pay the bills as is. Just shut it, misandrist. It's also telling that you had to preemtively block me because you knew how badly I was going to make you look stupid for saying all that stupid shit.

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My wife buys my clothes, but I wish she didn't. She buys what she thinks will look good on me, like someone buying a fleece or a collar for a dog. If I wasn't working when the shops were open I'd go myself and buy my own things, I think biannually I get a chance to do this, and spend £££ restocking my clothing in things I actually want to be seen in. She only works 2 days a week speaking to people on the phone in our warm house, I work 5-6 days 12 hours a day in the street in areas that feature a lot of drug and gun crime (the money is worth it though believe me), I'd swap instantly if the choice was there, I only need to miss my step on a telephone pole and I may be paralysed for life (happened to some poor fella last month), or some person to be playing on his phone while driving and run me over whilst half way in a manhole, worst she can do is fall down the stairs on the way to make a coffee.

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