I find this extremely irritating. I was talking to a pretty washed up looking 37 year old woman (I was 26 at the time) at a bar once and could tell she was visibly attracted to me. I was a little hot on the trigger and tried to close after only talking to her for a few minutes and she responded “well you just go right in there huh?” as if I had broken some sacred rule or violated some mandatory 30 minute screening period she was entitled to. Never mind that she was a hard 6.5-7 with TONS of makeup, a divorced single mother with baggage and hanging out at a fucking bar well past her prime.

Another example was a girl I met online, again very unremarkable but a bit younger, 27 and very plain looking. Cute enough to fuck but not to work for. I again attempted to close without doing the whole song and dance I do for someone I’m genuinely attracted to and got a similar response.

Women respond to this with “that’s because they know guys are just trying to use them for sex so they’re weeding those types out.” What happened to the hookup culture and girls dick hopping? I’m not a “Chad” but I’m well above average looking. Which is it, they want casual sex or don’t they?

I think this is just another example of supply and demand, men want and need women way more than the reverse because they are hornier, and this allows even the most average women to think they can afford to be this selective even though these guys just want to fuck them.

TLDR; the highly selective nature and entitlement of women of all levels of attractiveness is proof that men have it significantly worse in dating, and that women hold most if not all of the power.

The fact that average looking girls and women well into their late 20s, 30s and even 40s are as picky and stuck up as hot 21 year olds, expecting you to put in the same amount of effort and work for them as you would a much more attractive girl, is proof that men have almost all of the power in dating