I guarantee the girlfriend is leagues more attractive than him. Remember, a lot of men see us as objects. A lot of men only see value in your appearance and they compare you to retouched images of models.

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howdoilogoutt · 2021-03-05T16:08:53+00:00

I really hope he dumps this woman so she can find better. I can’t stand it when I see these posts where some guy says the most hurtful, disrespectful things about his girlfriend and then proceeds to stay in a relationship with her and she has no idea that he’s even said those things. I would be devastated if I were her and read this post.

Mcccy · 2021-03-05T16:29:19+00:00

He's still mad about Tiffany rejecting his ass at 4th grade.

He sabotages every change he has a healthy relationship and he knows it. Instead of going to therapy to get over his low self confidence issues, he whines on the internet about it.

Nextt

Apprehensive_Ad_7917 · 2021-03-05T15:59:27+00:00

The thing that always jumps out to me is that these men are fully aware of the problem and say stupid shit like, “I’d have it surgically removed if I could”, like okay? OR you could go to THERAPY and WORK ON IT instead of dating people and being like, this.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-03-05T16:29:43+00:00

There is a couple serious problems here. First he doesn’t even like her as a person she is just a disposable object. He doesn’t think of her as a human being. That’s why he referred to her as 27f at the end. Listen to this part,

“I have enough experience in my life to know that it’s someone LIKE HER I need in my life not some Instagram girl”.

The qualities he likes about her is how she is open minded sexually, she gives him attention, all things she does for him. She thinks she is in a relationship with a future, maybe with marriage and kids someday. She is a sex doll that walks and talks but he is disappointed that she doesn’t look like a photoshopped Instagram model.

Guys like this don’t deserve girlfriends, they should buy some plastic sex doll so women don’t get emotionally ruined while these assholes “find themselves”.

Second, Instagram girls don’t even look like Instagram girls. Their images are photoshopped and face tuned to create a fantasy for porn sick men like this. These guys might as well be comparing their girlfriends to anime cartoons.

NoneOfYourBusinessPS · 2021-03-05T15:56:28+00:00

So he didn't bother to improve himself personality-wise, he only gave a shit about his appearance and when he became fit, he was still the asshole he always was and now he expects his girlfriend to cater to HIS needs about her appearance, which are a consequence of not improving his personality?

Get the fuck out of here, waste of oxygen. FFS.

Throwawayrightaway28 · 2021-03-05T16:24:47+00:00

What’s great is realizing that these men lose either way. All they care about is sex and looks and they get caught up in this eternal matrix of nothing ever being enough for them once porn rots their stupid brains. This guy is on the eternal hamster wheel, much like Tantalus. He got with the girls for just their looks, that didn’t work. Now he found someone whose personality who he likes (translation: someone who he wants to use to make himself feel good), and now she’s not pretty enough for him even though she’s probably stunning. He’s making himself miserable and nothing can ever make him happy. And there’s a poetic justice in that. I hope his girlfriend realizes what a dick he is and leaves.

a_room_of_my_own3 · 2021-03-05T17:16:30+00:00

He has also posted an update:

I think the explaination that I am obsessed with my own apperance and that I project my insecurities on my girlfriend rings very true to me. I know you shouldn't "google doctor" yourself but I can admit that I fit the description on many criterias for being a narcissist.

Well, do color me surprised :)

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volcanic_equation · 2021-03-05T16:29:11+00:00

Oh ffs 😒

Go to fucking therapy

howdoilogoutt · 2021-03-05T17:07:58+00:00

'She is open-minded, and wants to try new things.' Translated: She lets me do anal and strangle her in bed.

yomommahouse · 2021-03-05T18:10:55+00:00

Sounds like another pornsick scrote to me. I betcha anything his girl outweighs him in the looks department, but his porn-fried brain convinces him he actually has really had all those girls he's been jerking to while they are being trafficked and raped, and he thinks he's way better looking than he actually is. Girls, I'm so thankful to all of you in this sub and for posts like this, it really confirms my decision to remain single, I see no point in men at all anymore.

nostradamusapologist · 2021-03-06T00:00:30+00:00

So many posts where men say that girls didn't like them when they were younger, so they had to "work on themselves" and "go to the gym" and "become somebody that women would be interested in." And once they did that, they started dating one woman exclusively and didn't casually date or have friends with benefits. for some reason men think this is unusual and disappointing and not a completely ordinary and even common method of coming of age.

I'm like ... why do men think it's so crazy to have few sexual partners in their lives? Doesn't that fit into their like, African savannah / mesopotamian farmer / 1950's nuclear family fantasy, the expectation of no casual sex? I mean, the sexual revolution was only like 60 years ago. literally within living memory. The gains of feminism are presented by red pill, mgtow types as being like, absurdly modern and yet men seemed to internalize and cease questioning their expectation of having sex with multiple women consistently throughout their whole adult lives ... why?

akashyaboa · 2021-03-05T17:23:07+00:00

He literally just described a trophy, and then complained about seeing better trophies but not wanting to feel bad about seeing better trophies as he already has one and it would be bothersome to get another good trophy.

2021-03-05T16:53:59+00:00

His girlfriend deserves better than his immature ass. This is just sad af. And not only is he fucking up himself, he’s also fucking her up now. He’s going to slowly destroy and chip away at her self-confidence and self-worth :(

penelopekitty · 2021-03-05T18:40:09+00:00

I don't think these guys own mirrors.

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2021-03-05T22:37:45+00:00

His type of fantasy, nonsensical, shallow thinking is what makes me wonder how in the world men make money than women? Tell me there’s no patriarchy. Say it to my face.

2021-03-05T18:25:42+00:00

I just saw the UPDATE today. He admits it's all projection. I wish she would dump him.

MulticoloredCatMug · 2021-03-05T17:57:47+00:00

I wonder why girls didn't want to date him?

Dexaroo5716 · 2021-03-05T19:57:39+00:00

Then whhhhyyyyyy is he dating her?

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2021-03-05T16:10:20+00:00

The audacity!!! 🗣

GoldandGlowing · 2021-03-05T23:06:55+00:00

It’s the amount of men that agree for me 😒

shockingupdate · 2021-03-05T18:12:00+00:00

That comment really thought he was saying something deep huh.

superderpina_ · 2021-03-05T18:51:15+00:00

This clown should start comparing himself to Rege-Jean Page. Learn some fckn humility.

Sewud · 2021-03-06T13:27:29+00:00

A cautionary tale about dating the ugly duckling. They seriously see women as objects. "She wants to try new things and I really like that." Most humans like to try new things, why does he have to talk like he taught his dog a trick?

all_or_nothing_bet · 2021-03-05T20:20:23+00:00

It dies sound like a mental illness. At least he is self aware enough to realize that. Hopefully he gets help for this.

bathwizard · 2021-03-06T06:10:46+00:00

Why do they think the perfect, ideal women is out there at all? I don't understand this belief. Men like this seem unable to perceive the women they are with.

flowers4u · 2021-03-05T20:59:41+00:00

Ugh he updated and said things are fine lol

Kuanzhaixiangzi · 2021-03-06T09:03:29+00:00

GiRls DidnT lIkE ME GroWInG up. Fuck off, you're not entitled to a girlfriend. If you can't get over your childhood, what you need is not a girlfriend, but a therapist
ShEs Open MiNdEd. Poor girl I feel sorry for the stuff she's probably had to go through to please this scrote.
My BrAiN is SiCK fROm soCIAL MeDiA. This dumbass literally knows he ruined his own brain with porn and Instagram girls. Will he stop looking at it though? Probably not. I hope she dumps him.

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Go to fucking therapy