Even in the bizarre world of man hating at r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic, this one feels simply too crazy. In an Guardian article titled "Feminists don't hate men. But it wouldn't matter if we did", decorated feminist author Jessica Valenti writes that "feminists absolutely, without a doubt, do not hate men", proceeds to defend hating men:

But so what if we did?

It’s not that I recommend hating men or think it a particularly wise use of one’s time, but to each her own. Straight white men still hold the majority of political, economic and social power in the world, and everyone else struggles to make their lives work with less. So if the worst thing that happens to a man is that a woman doesn’t like him ...well, he has it pretty damn good. It’s not as if we’re living in some sort of Wicker Man-inspired dystopia, after all.

Besides, when women hate men, we hurt their feelings. When men hate women, they kill us: mass shootings have been attributed to misogyny, and sexual and domestic violence against women is often fuelled by a hatred for women.

That’s why it’s so hard to take seriously any claims that “misandry” is a tremendous problem – they’re based on the idea that merely insulting men is similar to the life-threatening misogyny women face worldwide. (Most recently, Newsday writer Cathy Young argued that men being called “mansplainers” or rape apologists is akin to the rape and death threats that women get online.)

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And so on, and so on.

I have documented the case at https://www.reddit.com/r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic/comments/12wb6g2/decorated_feminist_author_jessica_valenti_writes/