Jonah Hill’s ex accuses him of ‘emotional abuse,’ gaslighting when they were together: ‘Misogynist narcissist’

Robbythedee · 2023-07-09T19:02:41+00:00

Man, the amount of women who say this after every relationship while being manipulative and conniving durring the relationship, too high to count.

whatafoolishsquid · 2023-07-09T18:12:07+00:00

TL;DR Jonah Hill's ex is now blasting him on social media because he respectfully told her he couldn't be in a relationship with her if she posted bathing suit photos on social media. This was all apparently emotional abuse and gaslighting stemming from his insecurities.

plumberack · 2023-07-09T18:12:13+00:00

Rich men should adapt themselves to live single. They have too much to loose.

imperator285 · 2023-07-09T19:46:48+00:00

Good on him for not marrying her.

WV8VW · 2023-07-09T19:44:09+00:00

Women previously criticized, made fun of how he looks.

Is this "lookism"?

For example many women can get away with physically assaulting people.

Face_Puzzleheaded · 2023-07-09T20:53:59+00:00

Apparently, setting your own boundaries in a relationship is abusive.

DoctorStorm · 2023-07-09T22:24:16+00:00

Summation:

Jonah: "If you're going to be a 304, then I respect your decision and wish to go separate ways."

Really, that's it. That is the fucking entirety of it.

Fucking clown world.

A_Ghoul_Account · 2023-07-10T00:50:50+00:00

I had scratches on my arms face red from slapping, and the cops believed my wife when she said our dog scratched me not her, and I hit myself. I showed cops of a video of her threatening me and then herself with a gun. Pictures of bruises and cuts from abuse episodes past.

The cops said to me “It seems like you just want to get her in trouble” she was sent on her way and I was described in the police reports as “putting on a show”

Emotional abuse is a favorite phrase for women when people believe them. Physical abuse against a man is laughable

asdf333aza · 2023-07-10T04:04:09+00:00

Jonah hill is a prime of example of what happens when you take women's advice and actually tell them what you're thinking and how you feel. And look how he is being criticized for it.

The best thing would have been to say nothing. Dump her. And leave her to wollow in her own self pity as to why the relationship failed.

If you give them a reason. ANY REASON AT ALL, they will twist it in their mind and make YOU the bad guy of their story. So better to just leave them guessing with nothing at all for them to cling to and make up lies about.

DismalParticular4799 · 2023-07-09T19:47:24+00:00

Someone isn't happy After the relationship is Over? Shocker

Embarrassed-Tune9038 · 2023-07-09T19:49:55+00:00

And the BS of it is, switch the genders and the woman who asked her man not to look at pictures of scantily clad women and audit his list of friends and all that will be hailed at heroic.

SN9292 · 2023-07-09T19:15:14+00:00

All of this yet she still stayed with him….?

Moving on.

HeJind · 2023-07-10T01:44:57+00:00

I really hate where this shit is headed. Men can't have opinion on anything involving their wife anymore. How she looks, how she dresses, what she posts, whether or not you two have a baby.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with Jonah setting his boundaries and saying what made him uncomfortable. If she thought that was too controlling of him, she is free to tell him that and leave the relationship.

The reason there are so many shitty relationships is because the two don't communicate and hold shit that is bothering them in, which is only going to build resentment.

What's even funnier is that all the women on twitter called our Keke Palmer's boyfriend because he posted how he felt on Twitter instead of texting her privately, which was correct. But now they're criticizing a guy who did text his SO privately because she chose to share those private texts.

I don't even get the point of being in a relationship these days if as the man you aren't allowed to have an opinion on anything your wife does

Current_Finding_4066 · 2023-07-09T20:57:01+00:00

Ex-GFs are the most unbiased source of info.

FourthHarbinger · 2023-07-09T19:53:46+00:00

Just watched the Better Bachelor video on this

She clearly just wants attention and to feel like a victim. Most likely her female friends have been gassing her up about these texts since they were sent. Something probably pushed her over the edge, like getting pumped and dumped by a top 10% guy who she felt entitled to a relationship with

After all, there was a study that found women who are rejected by attractive guys tend to take out their anger on less attractive guys

AnnaBanana1129 · 2023-07-10T01:21:41+00:00

And no one is going to question why an EX is coming forward NOW to share her one sided version of their relationship??

tizzle79 · 2023-07-10T00:05:11+00:00

Men who have preferences are not abusers.

Men are not insecure for wanting accountability from women

2xChromasomes having a field day. So much misandry and gaslighting in that sub.

AnnaBanana1129 · 2023-07-10T01:20:42+00:00

To me, it’s as simple as this: if I don’t want to have kids, am I controlling my partner, or have I established a non-negotiable boundary? If I don’t want my partner to cheat on me or I’ll leave, I’m keeping them from being who they are? Huh?

I’ve read his texts and unless I missed some, it’s AMAZING to see the interpretations of what he “meant”.

So many advice subs say step 1 is therapy and step 2 is divorce. So Jonah Hill gets guidance from a therapist, and the mob screams he went to therapy to get some weaponized terms?

This is the craziest story I’ve seen in a while.

MastermindX · 2023-07-09T21:26:21+00:00

She knows full well that even if the accusations are bullshit and easily disproved, they will ruin his career nonetheless.

That's how it is to be a men nowadays. If you dump a girl, she can ruin your life as a revenge, or just for fun. And not face any consequence for doing it even if proven a liar. On the contrary, in this case she'll be praised and paraded in the media.

EsqueStudios · 2023-07-09T23:25:54+00:00

Boundaries are only for women apparently

IEATASSETS · 2023-07-09T23:08:31+00:00

Kinda sounds like she's gaslighting the public in to thinking she was gaslit so she can verbally abuse him on the internet without any fallout

deconstruct2012 · 2023-07-10T02:59:57+00:00

This just screams "IM A BITTER EX-GIRLFRIEND!!"

Dunkman83 · 2023-07-09T19:25:16+00:00

why even bother if u always end up being the "villain" anyway?.

SuspiciousGrievances · 2023-07-09T23:01:25+00:00

He has money, so of course she does

Mozilla_Rawr · 2023-07-10T00:38:14+00:00

The only reason this should make the news is to show how manipulative this woman is and how she is gaslighting the public about it. He respectfully advised her of what he was comfortable with and left it up to her if she could work within that, at no point did he try and enforce anything on her. What he said is exactly how boundaries work. There's not even one thing he wrote that could be misconstrued as something nefarious. Typical attack on men (and male celebrities).

Fierisss · 2023-07-10T08:12:56+00:00

All I read is she is used to posting her ass pics on internet and he said I don't like that, which leads to toxic controlling misogyny i guess?

changuitar · 2023-07-09T21:04:47+00:00

lol he had bounderies

Aware188 · 2023-07-09T22:06:41+00:00

He was the bread winner in their relationship, he's extremely famous and he has "the homie" kind of personality. I'm sure she was jealous of the same thing she loved him for.

"idols turn into rivals." I'll always side with Seth no matter what lol

blackfiji · 2023-07-09T23:50:55+00:00

Wtf does that even mean “emotional abuse” these new generation females are so done for

chiboulevards · 2023-07-09T22:25:13+00:00

Stunning and brave

OCDbeaver · 2023-07-09T22:37:26+00:00

A person trash talks their ex. Thats a first. No idea how that is news.

I've witnessed this kind of thing so often I started breaking up with partners before it got too bad because I didnt want to be the ex being complained about. I got really paranoid about it and worrying with the internet what it is that a relationship ending badly could haunt you.

asdf333aza · 2023-07-10T04:01:53+00:00

They dated for an entire year and all she could find was 6 screenshots of him basically saying

"If you're going to post half naked pictures and hang around dudes all day, than I don't think we will be a good fit".

It's literally just a guy having standards. And they call him controlling? Do we get to call women controlling when they tell us not to hang out at strip clubs? They don't like their men being surrounded by tons of women and watching pornography. Is that controlling? But God forbid a man not like his gal showing as much, if not MORE skin than a stripper online and hanging out with dudes ALL OF THE TIME!.

franzschneider · 2023-07-10T04:46:26+00:00

Will it be another Johnny Depp? I would love to see him sue her ass for defamation.

Wasteofoxyg3n · 2023-07-10T05:18:13+00:00

Abusive? Check. Gaslighting? Check. Misogynist? Check. Narcissist? Check. All that's missing is "toxic" and "incel" and she would have used every single buzzword in the feminist playbook.

The fact that she's trying to turn people against him after their breakup is proof that she's projecting. He set a boundary that you didn't like? Fine, you don't have to stay with him. But at the same time, he also didn't do anything wrong. Leave the man alone.

smooth-move-ferguson · 2023-07-10T05:41:19+00:00

"Men not communicating in a relationship is toxic masculinity"

(Calmly and respectfully lays out values and boundaries)

"NOT LIKE THAT!"

tylerden · 2023-07-10T01:14:14+00:00

Emotional abuse because she got upset.

JCgamerX · 2023-07-10T04:49:41+00:00

I saw this on twitter. majority of the comments agreed with jonah rather than his ex kind of funny

LIGHTDX · 2023-07-10T06:55:54+00:00

So, he didn't hit her, but not everything worked so they fought. but now she find she can claim it was some kind of abuse in order to get more money from him or just get support from the social media, so she do this. I wonder what if he accuse her of something similar with proofs.

Led-Rain · 2023-07-10T10:09:13+00:00

I was in public and said out loud i wasnt buying my gf what she wanted. A lady came up to me and said "good luck with that, she isn't gonna give the nookie, if she don't get a cookie!"

I told her. "She already took sex off the table after the 2nd date; i have no reason to do what she wants, if all she does is take, take, take. This is her 3rd week on probation to give something back. It doesn't even have to be sex; i just want to see if she gives anything to our relationship at all."

" you're so smart" the lady said. In that condescending way I'm noticing a lot of older women do when they cant argue back.

BurnAfterEating420 · 2023-07-11T16:14:46+00:00

I was just reading the "controlling" texts he sent her. He clearly stated his boundaries and said that if they didn't work for her then they weren't a good fit. In a woman's mind that is "controlling" because men aren't allowed to have boundaries apparently.

Now she's posted more screenshots of their private texts that show exactly zero aggression or or even animosity on his part, right up until she started sending him screencaps of their conversations and he said it was a breach of trust to screencap private conversations.

She defended herself saying it was their conversation...and then she shared them with literally the entire world.

this whole thing makes Hill look like a really upfront and patient dude, and this woman is vindictive, petty, and frankly guilty of everything she's accusing him of.

Nippaloe · 2023-07-10T00:27:50+00:00

Gotta agree with the guy. But I guess his exgf had no other skills, talents or other ideas to generate likes on social media and loved the attention she got from it. Honestly I wouldn't be surprised if one of her main motivations for her dating Jonah was to use him and his fame and popularity as an accomplished actor to boost her own follower count. Stay away from women like this gents.

m8uwantcocoa · 2023-07-10T01:20:04+00:00

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real_tore · 2023-07-10T10:53:31+00:00

Sounds like a jilted ex to me.

YouCouldBeBetter · 2023-07-10T11:27:21+00:00

*Man has healthy communication and boundaries - lists fair expectations, if partner is not willing to meet, they are free to leave with no hard feelings. ThAtS MaNiPuLaTiOn!! Women's lib means women have no expectations put upon them, no obligations and no consequences. To try and apply any of the sort is is harmful. Women's lib has gone too far.

Futureman999 · 2023-07-10T04:29:01+00:00

She's only 26 so maybe hasn't developed any sense yet, but it's FUCKING STUPID AND MEAN to air all your disappointments (and private texts) from a failed relationship just because that person was famous.

One of the texts says something about her "wild recent past" and she's pretty, so might be kind of dumb and slutty, e.g. drunk all the time and hooking up with randoms until she met Jonah.

sidharthez · 2023-07-10T07:15:00+00:00

he should just sue for defamation. this is cringey BPD attention selling all over again

baby_budda · 2023-07-09T19:22:48+00:00

I wonder what Dr. Phil Stutz has to say about this?

Lolaindisguise · 2023-07-10T13:07:00+00:00

Pretty much every comedian has a history of mental health issues, male and female. To quote friends "I wouldn't want to be there when the laughter stopped."

-Soggy-Potato- · 2023-07-10T10:57:26+00:00

Not sure why Jonah Hill is being defended here

a boundary is a healthy limit a person sets for themselves to protect their well-being and integrity

it’s a guideline for what an individual seems as acceptable behaviour towards them and how they’ll respond if those limits are pushed

A boundary, is not telling your professional surfer girlfriend that she is not permitted to do her job in the vicinity of any men or dictating who she can and cannot be friends with

This is controlling behaviour, not a boundary. If Jonah wanted to express these ideas healthily he should express to her how certain scenarios make him feel and discuss some sort of compromise, rather than throwing out a outwardly restrictive ultimatum

LazerDaighzer · 2023-07-10T07:33:26+00:00

I knew someone who worked directly with him, he’s a piece of sh@t to crew membersI

Be_My_Enemy · 2023-07-10T15:46:59+00:00

To be fair, Hill sounds like a cunt here.

ContributionExtra735 · 2023-07-10T01:00:06+00:00

Any man who needs to say these things out loud has gone wrong somewhere, and whilst i detest there dispectful, selfish, nasty attitudes. They are like handicapped children with MASSIVE INSECURITIES. there gone. Fuck them. Move on. Im out. Cant stand it.

MezzaCorux · 2023-07-10T01:52:46+00:00

I hope she has some proof for those bold claims.

AzebanSkelmir · 2023-07-11T02:26:52+00:00

Women: "These are my boundaries" Society: claps Men: "These are my boundaries" Society: "You misogynistic entitled pig!"

Title	Jonah Hill’s ex accuses him of ‘emotional abuse,’ gaslighting when they were together: ‘Misogynist narcissist’
Author	whatafoolishsquid
Upvotes	590
Comments	184
Date	July 9, 2023 6:08 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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