If there is a push for older women to be seen as more attractive then there should be a push for younger men to be seen as more attractive

Zabadoodude · 2023-08-08T09:31:53+00:00

There's this push I see online of men trying to adopt women's strategies. Women try to get sympathy for their problems, so men should too! Women talk about how they're all beautiful queens so men should too! This just won't work.

Women don't have sympathy for unsuccessful men, and other men don't either, so there's no market that will humor undesirable men by calling them "kings"

ksmigrod · 2023-08-08T09:21:30+00:00

So...when are we pushing for young men (18-25) to be perceived as more attractive?

As soon as it will become profitable.

There is huge business in making women look younger, the longer they are perceived as attractive, the longer they are willing pay for cosmetics and surgeries.

Sugar daddy does not save his money, but instead pushes them back into market (indirectly with help of sugar babies). Industry profits.

But who would profit from changing perception of young man?

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-08-08T10:41:49+00:00

There already is a push for younger men to be attractive, where are you seeing people say "Men, stay the way you are, don't improve yourself."

Young men are constantly told (and rightfully so) to go to the gym, make good money, take care of their style etc.

Soloandthewookiee · 2023-08-08T12:35:20+00:00

I have seen people complaining that female actresses seem to age out of certain roles more often than their male counterparts.

The argument, as always, is not "you must find older women attractive." This specific argument is that both men and women lose their looks as they age, but women are far more likely to lose their careers when they pass a fuckability threshold.

terry-dactl · 2023-08-08T10:08:14+00:00

Young men are already considered the most attractive and desirable.

Glass_Bucket · 2023-08-08T15:14:16+00:00

20 year old men have to jump through hoops in order to get laid and are mostly invisible.

Do you guys think men just flip a switch when they hit 30 and suddenly become sexually desirable?
If you were getting in laid in your early 20s, you'll continue to get laid, and on the flip side, if you weren't getting laid in your early 20s, you're not going to magically become a chad once you hit 30

And also, most college aged women are interested in college aged men. A 20 year old will, in most cases, be more interested in the captain of her college football team than some 30 year old dude who might have a bit more money

TheRedPillRipper · 2023-08-08T09:28:30+00:00

when are we pushing for young men (18-25) To be perceived as more attractive

What do you think TRP advocates for? It’s core tenets are to lift. Make bank. Hone social skills. Build a strong frame and boundaries. All simple. All common sense.

Men don’t need a society wide push. They just need to take ownership.

Godspeed and good luck!

ICtruthcity · 2023-08-08T14:37:41+00:00

It's a push coming from a bunch of imbeciles.

operation-spot · 2023-08-08T11:16:29+00:00

Men want attention because it’s a human desire but there aren’t a lot of women who will give it. I hear men say that they are invisible and I don’t dispute that but there’s no societal factor that can change that because women just don’t want men as much as men want women.

Customer service jobs prefer women because having women in those roles attracts customers. If men could get customers they could do the same but as I said, women are not going out of their way to be served by a man. Women in these roles are often propositioned because their kindness or basic customer service is interpreted as interest which can be deadly when men won’t take no for an answer.

Men jerk off to women existing so I’m not sure why you think women can control what a man does after they post a photo. I can only speak for myself but it literally never crossed my mind that a man would jerk off to a picture because I’ve never seen a photo of a man and been like I need to masturbate. It’s interesting that men think women are thinking about them as they go through life because in my experience women post pictures of themselves to show of their body, wealth, and beauty for other women and men just so happen to be interested in those photos.

In terms of women getting attention, it only sounds enjoyable to you because you’re starved for it. If you were constantly accosted for features you developed as a child you would have a different perspective.

KeyAcan · 2023-08-08T09:54:52+00:00

Uh, if you want older women to find you more attractive. Good for you

I dont

wtknight · 2023-08-08T12:03:02+00:00

There are some young men getting a ton of sexual attention in college campuses across the US. The issue is not about young men not being considered attractive but the large disparity between attractive men and less attractive ones. The average young man is having sex at l ast somewhat consistently, but many men out there are late bloomers who either don’t figure out how to attract women until they are older, or they only attract women once their female attractiveness matches decide to settle down as they get older.

FourthHarbinger · 2023-08-08T12:24:09+00:00

There should, yes, but sympathy and compassion are only for women now. Society believes that men who aren't naturally successful should just curl up and die. There is no help for men. This is gynocentrism.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-08-08T13:20:39+00:00

Couple things: older women has been a thing since forever. I remember hearing milf in American Pie waaay back in the day. I think that was a 90s movie. And sex and the city was very late 90s- 2000s.

Second: when has 18-25 NOT been considered an appealing age for men? That’s literally the age when you are usually having sex with women your age or getting pounced on by a cougar.

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kkkan2020 · 2023-08-08T13:56:00+00:00

What were seeing now now from a historical standpoint is a new phenomenon. Middle aged divorces. People delaying marriage later and later or not marrying at all at these levels. As our population is aging than it would kind of make sense that older women that are not married would still want any kind of edge. But younger men will never get that kind of boost as you guys all know for men it's not just looks. You have to bring multiple things to the jambaree to qualify

Salt_Mathematician24 · 2023-08-08T14:16:00+00:00

Beauty industry for men is lagging miles behind women because this wasn't something that was thought to be valued in men; they were supposed to work, go to war and provide for family and women were supposed to secure their security in that system by appealing to men sexually and visually. Since all of this is obviously changing, I am completely unopposed to men improving their looks, I just wish they wouldn't always go for the male-centric alpha male aesthetic all the time personally. Yeah some women like it but it is primarily valued in men. Women often prefer the more prince charming kinda of masculine aesthetic.

Safinated · 2023-08-08T16:30:58+00:00

They are more attractive, physically

And not at all emotionally or mentally

WilliamWyattD · 2023-08-08T18:14:25+00:00

There is a push for younger men to be considered more attractive. But this is for already hot younger guys to be acceptable fucktoys for older successful women.

Nobody cares about men who can't make themselves attractive to women their own age.

CloudsTasteGeometric · 2023-08-12T06:33:48+00:00

Younger men literally have nothing to offer. They're losers by virtue of their age:

No career (no being "in college" doesn't count, you need to have a career before dating)
No car
Doesn't have his own place (lives with roommates: juvenile, or worse with his parents)
No savings (and lots of student loans, or no degree - and you'd better have a degree if you want to date.)

What kind of girl would want to date a guy like that? Women have nothing against young men. They have plenty against losers.

Title	If there is a push for older women to be seen as more attractive then there should be a push for younger men to be seen as more attractive
Author	Novel-Tip-7570
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Date	August 8, 2023 9:02 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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