What’s the best date you’ve been on?

AdEffective7894s · 2023-11-17T18:10:46+00:00

Had a virtual date with an ai girlfriend.

It was cathartic

Hoopy223 · 2023-11-17T16:44:05+00:00

We went to the movies and saw Despicable Me. The theater was sold out and it was 90% little kids bouncing off the walls. Completely hilarious.

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-11-17T16:40:09+00:00

My first date with my now-husband was over cheap greasy chicken while we laughed about a bingo card someone made for the Brother Jed-type guy on our college campus.

He wasn’t a 7’ tall trillionaire with the Guinness world record for penis length, but knowing that I was a pre-post-wall hag who would need to find a beta bux some time in the next 15 years, I decided to settle. We lived happily ever after.

harmonica2 · 2023-11-17T16:27:15+00:00

My second date with my girlfriend was the best we just had a lot of laughs and a lot of fun and conversation while touring the city.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-17T16:36:11+00:00

My best date happened in my dreams. Her name was Tiffany and we held hands at the roller rink until we went to the concession stand to get ourselves a slushie to share together. 🥰

mackenzie013_02 · 2023-11-17T17:34:28+00:00

Went skiing! ☺️

It was a huge snow storm and 1/2 of the mountain was closed, but the open areas were covered with sooo much powder and everything was so soft ..we stopped at some point and just rolled in the snow 😄 then we got beers & pizza and it was the best day ever.

MikeArrow · 2023-11-17T18:59:30+00:00

I've only been on four. The second date I ever went on was with the girl who became my first and only girlfriend. It was so wholesome. I took her to an Italian restaurant, we had a nice meal, then went back to my place and sat on my bed watching YouTube. The only sour note during the night was when my mother knocked on the door and made us come out of my room. I was 23 at the time so this felt like a real boundary overstep, I was long past being a teenager who needed to be told not to knock someone up willy nilly.

The best part of the night was on the drive home. She looked over to me and said "are we?" and I said "yes, we are". And that's how I started my first relationship.

throwaway164_3 · 2023-11-17T16:38:55+00:00

It was in my late twenties.

Matched with this stunningly hot athletic blonde chick on coffee meets bagel. We met up for the first date at a bar in Cambridge MA.

Good vibes, great drinks and easy convo. She was into books so we clicked on that. She even bought me the second round of drinks, never happened before or since.

We ended up walking over to my place cause I wanted to show her my books collection. Sex was fucking incredible. There’s something magical about fucking an enthusiastic, petite, vocal and attractive woman. I felt so wanted, desired, validated to be openly sexually lusted after like that, such a high. Will never forget that night.

Best date ever.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-11-17T16:36:34+00:00

I only have hazy memories of my teens/early 20's because of how much I partied and drank. After high school I don't recall ever going on formal dates, a lot of my courtship was centered around hanging out (drinking and smoking at somebody's house).

However I fell in love with my husband when we'd do dangerous and stupid shit together. I do have a clear memory of a wild night with him that started with B&E/property theft, and ended with an out of control house party, cocaine, fighting, and semi-public kitchen sex.

Waking up the next day with him, not arrested or dead, really cemented that he was the man for me.

baiser_vole · 2023-11-17T16:57:49+00:00

The first date with my boyfriend in our adulthood.

I flew over to his city without seeing each other's recent pics, cause I didn't want this to be about each other's looks. We went to a botanical garden together, heard a string quartet play for a wedding, I critiqued their music which he agreed with. We then went to a restaurant with live piano where again I critiqued his music which he agreed with. That pianist was real bad though. We then went to a bar and drank. He found me drinking scotch hot. Then we observed people at the bar together. I loved the company. It was a very special reunion.

neinhaltchad · 2023-11-17T17:57:43+00:00

There was this girl in my neighborhood that I had my eye on, and one night while moving a couch,she helped me get it in my van because my right arm was in a cast at the time.

We ended up back at my place, she met my dog precious and we listened to 80’s music and danced a bit.

Later things got a little more intense and I brought out some sensual lotions.

I still remember how nice her skin was.

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MistyMaisel · 2023-11-17T16:49:00+00:00

Current man, he took me off-roading (I'd never been) and then hiking to see a majestic ass water-fall. I'm not a fan of heights (put mildly), and he pretty much coached me through and properly distracted me for the whole climbing expedition and helped me up when my short ass couldn't do it myself. So much fun, so much chatter and laughs, I barely remember being afraid (although, I know I was). After that, the date was sort of meant to end, but I remember asking if he was hungry and wanted to stop at McDonalds. So we just went there and ate food and just talked for like 3 hours. Spent the whole day together without really noticing, it just was so natural and the fun and chemistry was there.

penndelnj · 2023-11-17T16:57:11+00:00

Going to the ballet and getting dinner beforehand. Dinner was great and I appreciated that he went to the ballet when I knew that he wasn’t into the arts at all. The sacrifice was appreciated.

Zabadoodude · 2023-11-17T16:59:27+00:00

It the fourth or fifth date with my current girlfriend. We had dinner and a few drinks and chatted. She wss so funny and engaged. Definitely not the type that just waited to be entertained. Then we went to a bar/small music venue. The band was surprisingly good and we had some more drinks and danced until closing time. It was dark, and she has very dark skin, so in my drunk state I just remember her bright smile floating in front of me in a blurr of shadows. Then we went back to my place, had drunk sex, and passed out.

SecondEldenLord · 2023-11-17T17:38:05+00:00

We went to look at the lake at night. It was the first inhale fallen in love with, and that is where I confessed to her. Biggest mistake I made cause what came after that was just a lot of manipulation from her part.

Novadina · 2023-11-17T18:07:56+00:00

My first date with my husband was pretty great. We went to a city in a nearby state, went to the zoo, went to lunch, got ice cream, went to the bookstore and bought a bunch of sci fi books. Just being activities I like to do even though they were his idea, and seeing we enjoy similar things, it was very nice. Also he held my hand while we were walking and it felt so nice, I could feel the sparks going through basically. It was like 17 years ago and I still get a giddy feeling when thinking about it.

TheRedPillRipper · 2023-11-17T21:50:46+00:00

The activity

Best one was an impromptu ‘date’ during a team training session. We were doing team exercises, and one girl just kept wanting to pair up with me. Every single time. I’m not the brightest, so didn’t cue in. After the session she suggested we grab a coffee. Together. Alone. I was not smart.

abaxeron · 2023-11-17T22:20:31+00:00

...Okay, after shuffling through all the memories. I was allowed to leave the military base near nature reserve for... like, 7 hours. She came to visit. WITH A TENT.

cheemspurpletreats · 2023-11-18T01:23:52+00:00

Once I was walking through a park where I spotted a girl celebrating her birthday with friends on a blanket decorated with string lights. I made a note to myself that I should organize something similar because my introverted friends hardly get together and my extroverted friends rarely organize anything that isn’t a house party.

6 months later I matched with the same girl on tinder. Her first photo was from her birthday party so I recognized it. We went to a nice artsy bar and had a few cocktails. The conversation went super smoothly, and she eventually opened up about her autism and ADHD. I instantly felt way more comfortable since I also have ADHD and am awkward and socializing with new people. We shared some laughs as the night went on and I jokingly asked her if she wanted to explore an abandoned building. She was really into the idea so we paid our bills, got in my car, and I took her to a place I had seen recently. We managed to get in after about 10 minutes and spent about an hour in there. Urban exploring on a date was always on my bucket list so I was ecstatic to finally do it.

I dropped her off at home after that, and although we didn’t kiss or anything, I was certain I would see her again. We agreed to coffee the next weekend, but she cancelled on me and I didn’t hear from her for a few weeks. Eventually, she texted me to tell me she started seeing someone else which was why I stopped hearing from her.

Even though things didn’t turn out as I’d hoped, the date itself was easily the best I’d ever been on and I’m just glad to have experienced it.

TheRealMichaelBluth · 2023-11-18T06:53:00+00:00

We went and got drinks at a brewery I introduced my ex too. I know this is a pretty standard date, but the chemistry was amazing. Unfortunately, things didn’t work out as we were both at different stages of life

MagicPigeonToes · 2023-11-25T02:05:48+00:00

The four hours I spent with a guy in Tokyo who really just wanted to discuss culture and walk around. He was short, had crooked teeth, but took good care of himself. I felt no pressure, no creepy vibes, he was just a genuine guy with an interesting personality. But I had to leave Japan, so bye bye Takumi :( I still think about him sometimes, even though it was years ago.

Title	What’s the best date you’ve been on?
Author	Several_Pressure7765
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Date	November 17, 2023 4:10 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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