How can we get lots of casual sex?

seduction-ModTeam · 2022-09-05T10:45:50+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

ricebucket1 · 2022-09-04T13:13:48+00:00

Lower your standards considerably

treyprankz · 2022-09-04T13:12:43+00:00

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froze_gold · 2022-09-04T13:46:35+00:00

Go out and talk to many girls. Get a rejected a lot, but get a few hits too.

Set up a date. Don't tell them your intentions but show that you're looking for something intimate. Touch, tease, push and pull. Cards are close to your chest, your implying desire, but you're not fully disclosing.

Change venue. Get them alone - sounds creepy but it isn't if the date is going great. Kiss them. Be cute, be a little coy, be fun.

Invite them over. Always have a good reasons. Drinks and music are a good reason. That's plausible deniability. "We just talked and had some drinks" she'll say.

Kiss her again. Make out with her. Push, pull, touch, tease. Don't go full tilt and try to stick it in, make her want it but keeping your clothes on. Undressing her is easier than making her want to undress you, seriously. She needs to begging a bit.

And then repeat, and calibrate when necessary. Not every interaction is the same. Be logical, always logical, in the background and rarely the foreground.

And the final touch is not texting her until the next date.

Do this for all of the girls you date and have sex with.

punkman01 · 2022-09-04T18:06:59+00:00

Be aware that lots of casual sex won't make you a happier person in the long run.

real_mort · 2022-09-04T13:02:54+00:00

Men: be good looking

Women: Exist

AlbanischerBauer_ · 2022-09-04T21:06:07+00:00

Scary answer: Stop using reddit, and start approaching

Any-Advertising-1410 · 2022-09-04T13:06:21+00:00

It's all about the words you use. Women want casual sex just as much(if not more) than men do. However, they dont want to be seen as a slut.

So, it seems counterintuitive but you get lots of casual sex by not talking about sex with her. Be confident and let her be the first one to mention sex. She will at some point make a sexual reference if you have hooked and attracted her. When this happens, don't take the bait.

Wait until the second or third sexual reference to engage.

GhilbiShi · 2022-09-04T16:18:42+00:00

Being a bisexual girl here, I'd suggest just be confident, convey your intentions, don't be a creep.

Don't give us friendly vibes and when we put you in friendzone, don't cry about it.

Just make a move, communicate.

I can sense the vibe from a mile away,if it's comfy, and there's attraction, I wouldn't mind having sex with that person.

Think_History_5682 · 2022-09-04T20:26:33+00:00

In America, escorts

herendzer · 2022-09-04T13:07:10+00:00

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OkNefariousness9758 · 2022-09-05T00:35:04+00:00

Make sure your body is fit

Make sure you're not judgmental when a girl gives you a hoe story or a crazy story

Make sure you're calm cool chill and collective at all times. No woman likes a nervous man. When a man is nervous while talking to her, she will end up nervous as well and if you're calm while talking to her, she will be calm as well. Women always remember you mostly by how you made them feel. Not what you said

Make sure you have a low, seductive tone for most occasions

And try to understand that you and your self-respect is more important than anyone in the world. A girl will try to test you and try to trick you and play games with you, that is when you fall back until she crawls back. when you fall back, you have to damn near cut her off and ghost her. Her crawling back is when she is apologizing for what she's done, or actually wanting to see you cuz she's interested.

Always be honest about your intentions with them. If she asks what your intentions with her are, say that you're not looking for anything too serious and that your only intentions are to hook up and have a great time with her

Download dating apps and take pictures of you in suits and in adventurous, and spontaneous places. You should also look up videos on how to take male model-like pictures

Hook up with women who are interested in you. It's not common that you get rejected when you're hanging with a woman that likes you

Talk to women that you aren't that attracted to. This helps eliminate your nervousness and anxiety and helps boost your confidence, and also helps you practice your bedroom skills

Make sure you value your time while by yourself. If you aren't elevating physically, mentally, spiritually, and financially, then you are wasting your time

stay far away from drama and learn how to not give a flying F##K. If it isn't helping you elevate, it is wasting your time

Understand the difference of being funny and goofy. It always helps to be funny, but don't stick your neck out to try to be funny. She notices little things like that

Don't chase, replace

Guigzi · 2022-09-04T14:33:01+00:00

make yourself (seem) more valuable to women. i 'm sure women secretly want that, it could be social value, charisma, looks, status...

Sawt0othGrin · 2022-09-04T16:00:06+00:00

You'll need to be out a lot going to social locations to meet women. Women who have to see you frequently will be less likely to have casual sex with you but if you meet a woman a couple of cities over at a bar or club or what have you she'll be more likely to be cool with it.

Amalasian · 2022-09-04T18:14:34+00:00

hookers

lefthandedaf · 2022-09-04T18:37:28+00:00

Hit the gym every other day. Yes, I’m serious. It’s the #1 thing that will help. Also learn game.

SociallyCluelessHELP · 2022-09-04T21:58:04+00:00

Either be very good looking or become a celebrity

V-Future · 2022-09-04T16:02:54+00:00

Step 1: Make a lot of money Step 2: Show yourself to the world

The older a woman gets, the more status she will require from you. 18-24 years olds are women looking for fun. 25+ years old they become more interested in your role as provider so make sure to have money. Without money you can't go to nice places and meet women. They need a reason to be with you, to respect you. Make money. Learn about sells and marketing. That's the secret. A great salesman will never be poor.

herendzer · 2022-09-04T16:18:31+00:00

Be very rich.

zapadz · 2022-09-04T18:47:51+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BIQqrmcHU8w

2022-09-04T15:01:34+00:00

Its called being attractive to a woman that has a heavy crush on you .. to a point it makes her actually wanna pursue you, chase you and make a move on you .. its better to be the chosen one instead of the one out there chasing. ..

MentalCelOmega · 2022-09-05T04:02:32+00:00

- Be over six feet minimum.

- Have a minimum of six pack abs.

- Have at least a six figure income.

- Make sure that your dick is at least over eight inches long.

- Last at least thirty minutes in bed before cooming.

- Make sure your face is at least a 9/10 in objective lookisms.

If you have all of those, then maybe you will be able to obtain sex. Maybe.

ElijahSprintz · 2022-09-04T18:20:00+00:00

Click on the ads on pornhub

isaacnewtonx40 · 2022-09-04T20:10:52+00:00

It’s all a numbers game. Just work through a lot of women.

freespirit1963TJ · 2022-09-04T20:40:08+00:00

Having a lot of money will always get casual sex.

Keithlct · 2022-09-05T03:39:02+00:00

Tinder..

tudor3325 · 2022-09-04T18:51:45+00:00

You got 3 ways.First youu can increase your income by a lot and that ought to solve it. Second you can get hot af and good at game and get any woman you like. Last, you can artificially create a reputation for being very good at sex. I suggest the second and the first one.

Sheeva_00001 · 2022-09-04T21:19:47+00:00

generates a lot of traction, that is, a lot of value, and only takes advantage of the windows of opportunity and moments to climb

SirFoxtrotAlpha · 2022-09-04T21:32:14+00:00

Get awesome tips from r/ihavesex. 99% of tips there work.

jgesch · 2022-09-04T23:41:57+00:00

Without paying I presume? Lol

Lonewolf_087 · 2022-09-05T00:15:30+00:00

Sidebar I think it's crazy how different people's experiences are and like there are a million different factors. How good looking are you? How often do you engage? How often do you go out? What things do you talk about? Availability of women who want to hook up? I'm definitely not ever going to the hookup level but I'm amazed at how some have it fairly easy and others strike out hardcore. I think dating, relationships, hook ups, etc there is a lot of shit you can't control. Just how it is. Nobody is guaranteed anything really. I guess you just try and learn right? But no promises. It's super complex. I feel like the best answer is there is no magic potion. Try, fail, learn, fail, go through mood swings and dark places, reset and try more. Kind of how it has been for me. You do that then see others having better luck and you kinda shrug, adjust and keep at it. Lots and lots of factors.

truthbomb999 · 2022-09-05T01:23:29+00:00

Or just get a passport and travel

Cascadiana88 · 2022-09-05T02:50:07+00:00

Go to swingers’ parties and/or join a swingers club.

Mr_Throwaway2834 · 2022-09-05T05:48:32+00:00

Read mode one

Bingo_is_the_man · 2022-09-05T08:18:46+00:00

Work on your fitness, style, and charisma. Finances don’t really matter unless you’re broke or older.

Optimal_Butterfly_97 · 2022-09-05T08:34:48+00:00

This is some weak ass shit

Title	How can we get lots of casual sex?
Author	ComfortableCupcake42
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Date	September 4, 2022 1:01 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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