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Therocksays2020 · 2022-06-29T22:55:21+00:00

People have differently views of success. Every guy has to deal with rejection, flaked and dry spells if they say they don’t. They are a liar.

However for some people the dry spell goes so long it gets to their head and they have one of those “dry spells” in which they begin to question themselves.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2022-06-29T23:55:45+00:00

99% of guys that say that are lying, but there still exist the other 1%.There literally are dudes who never had trouble. Getting a member of the opposite sex is the most natural thing there is,, so it should be the easiest thing to do.. These are naturals (amogs) that never unlearned their natural biological wiring due to the state of our society or their upbringing, and getting women is an involuntary reflex for them, like breathing or blinking. They ain't even all chads, they simply dont know how to fail with women, which gives them a giga chad aura regardless of variables.

Squeeky211 · 2022-06-29T22:50:15+00:00

It means i always have a woman around .. i don’t rely on one woman to satisfy my needs because ive got like 5 of them .. im never going through a dry spell simply because “i never had trouble getting women”

JLifts780 · 2022-06-30T01:07:04+00:00

They’re typically very social and outgoing and don’t let the people who dislike them get under their skin

ozzzy83 · 2022-06-30T00:43:52+00:00

Some men are just born naturals with chicks, who aren't, they can learn from the right source how to be one. Some people claim that they never experienced rejection, but I think that it is BS.

No-Veterinarian4627 · 2022-06-30T00:19:56+00:00

“Want to hear me lie?”

Outrageous-Deer539 · 2022-06-30T01:20:41+00:00

Success or never had trouble doesn’t mean there was no rejection. Just that they experienced enough success.

Neo-Rio · 2022-06-30T03:03:29+00:00

I've met uber-chad alpha-male rugby players who have seen be rejected by women right off the bat!

It happens. I've seen it.

When they say that they don't have problems, it's possibly because they're not holding their ability to meet women to a high standard - as in, they're not making a deliberate effort to have sex with as many women as possible. So from their point of view - one or a few good woman was enough and they didn't have any problems there. Therefore, they've never really had problems with women.

That's probably despite the fact that they've been rejected before BUT IT DIDN'T BOTHER THEM.

And it shouldn't bother you either.

Renshato · 2022-06-30T01:12:02+00:00

"Getting women" here usually just means that they rarely are in a dry spell. It's not that they don't have trouble with any individual woman, or they don't get rejected. It's less "I could get any woman I want", and more "I can reliably get laid, somehow". And personally as long as I'm successful enough to be getting laid consistently, I don't really care how often I'm getting rejected.

It usually has more to do with figuring out what sort of women you do best with and where to find them, than just a straight numbers game. I personally know of a few bars in my town where I can reliably pull someone most of the time. But in other bars or just out on the street I don't necessarily do so well. If I stick to only going to those types of places, I'm more likely to find girls who are more receptive to my advances, and I'll be successful often.

Plenty of dudes find a groove like that and just stick to it. In that case it's not that they're just so good with women in general that they never have trouble. It's more like they just stick to what works for them.

shawnml9 · 2022-06-30T02:11:40+00:00

Make her laugh, be yourself and you will be fine

bandsupjay · 2022-06-29T23:50:09+00:00

Because they are attractive to girls. Figure out the spell

adaptor1 · 2022-06-30T00:24:05+00:00

Why don't you ask them?

Could it be they kinda know what girl likes them, and approach the girls that find him attractive to begin with?

I know this is a radical idea. /s

koolex · 2022-06-30T00:49:16+00:00

You should have asked those dudes.

I would guess it's usually because they are attractive and social, so they have big social circles and a lot of girls have eyes on them. They probably succeed most of the time because all their approaches are with women they know are warm. Dating isn't hard when you just pick from a pool of girls who you know already like you, dating is hard when you do it cold and you have to persist through rejection.

But it could also be that they just don't care about dating and wait 3 years for a girl to show high interest and make her his gf, depends on the dude.

pretty_dead_grrl · 2022-06-30T01:05:23+00:00

It’s absolutely not true, first of all. “You can be the juiciest peach in the world and there’ll be someone out there who don’t like peaches”. Everyone, at some point, for some reason gets rejected.

If they “don’t have a problem getting chicks”, they either A) let rejection roll off them or B) don’t see no as a complete sentence and have likely done something wrong.

Pretend_Tadpole8833 · 2022-06-30T01:37:55+00:00

What they mean is that THEY ARE LYING!

Kronuk · 2022-06-30T01:43:39+00:00

There’s always trouble but they are just projecting positive thoughts and self-confidence by saying that. Sometimes with communication, and with women especially, you need to understand the deeper meaning behind why people say things instead of taking the words literally

Comfortable-Unit-897 · 2022-06-30T02:05:04+00:00

Salesmen! You either have that sales panache, or you dont.

RashaudDawkins · 2022-06-30T02:07:13+00:00

It means we lead with our sex appeal so yea getting sex isnt really hard … when girls see us they know wassup.. getting a relationship might be a little harder tho unless you know how to relate to a girl

notarealpersondw · 2022-06-30T02:27:53+00:00

I think you’re really over thinking this. I know plenty of ugly guys who pull, you don’t need to look amazing just be social and as somebody else said it’s an indirect numbers game

robml · 2022-06-30T02:35:54+00:00

It means they always have options.

Traditional_Map_9206 · 2022-06-30T02:40:44+00:00

Probably means they always got someone’s number anytime they asked

ThatRollingStone · 2022-06-30T03:07:36+00:00

I'm one of those guys, I never had a problem.

Getting into and maintaining relationship is a whole other issue ENTIRELY. But finding a girl to date, there's just always been someone looking my way. I live in LA so I think that plays into it also.

bestmenrmenatbest · 2022-06-30T03:14:00+00:00

It means they can get most women, under the right circumstances and with the enough effort

myevilalt · 2022-06-30T04:48:22+00:00

That they figured it out long enough ago that they have a harder time relating to guys who struggle than to guys who don’t

FireandIcejkjk · 2022-06-30T05:32:49+00:00

They are probably saying that they never had a issue chasing women into a relationship or bed, depending on what they are shooting for.

recyclablebanthas · 2022-07-01T06:39:01+00:00

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What do you guys mean by : I never had trouble getting women?

This is like asking, what do women mean when they say, "I have to go?"

There are so many possible answers that the question becomes meaningless and not instructive of anything.

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But I’ve heard several guys use that very sentence, do they mean they never got rejected? Flaked on ? Went through a dry spell ?

Who knows?

And what does this have to do with anything related to this subreddit?

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