She is an attractive brunette girl (8/10). I met her through my friend and chatted her up a little, found out she does not smoke, which i find attractive in a women. Exchanged instagrams and that was it. I texted her couple of times, joking around, sending her pics of what i am doing (examples: Making lunch, playing with a dog, eating a huge pizza, going out) then stopped since i was busy with college. After a week she sends me a picture of her drinking coffee at some place. I reply “is this your way of calling me out on a coffee date?”. She replies something and i text her exact location, date and time. She just texts “okay”.

The day comes i send her simple message “Looking forward to get to know you better”. We meet and i kiss her on a cheek. Ask her how she is and lead to the bar. We sit and start talking. We were just talking, sharing our views with eachother, joking around. There were silences of course, you cant talk all the time. I was being okay with silences, since they are okay :). Little shoulder popping to songs or looking her in the eyes, it build tension. Silences are very powerful. We connected some more while drinking our tea. Once we finished i said lets go for a walk. I tried to kiss her while walking but she turned her cheek, i said “okay” smiled and continued talking, walking.

We sat on a bench and i, without asking, raised her legs on mine. She complied. I am always sexual in conversation but here i said “i didnt see your butt, that is bad, i dont know if you have a nice ass”. She smiled . While we were talking normal conversation I was going up and down her leg up until her butt. I dont want to grab her ass i was just going up and down whike talking, petting her leg. She was playing with her hair the whole time and was looking away. I started talking less and looking her in the eyes more. Soon she started blushing and had puppy eyes. She even said “dont look me in the eyes so intensly”, covering mine with her hands. I talked a bit more, something about my grandfather, and again tried to go for a kiss. Nope. Cheek again. I just smiled and acted like it didnt happen. She started huging me, tickling me with her hair, complimenting my hairstyle. So i saw what was going on and said “i need to go see my friend in half an hour, let me walk you to your car”. While walking back i stopped and pulled her in for a kiss. All i got was a quick smooch. After 10-15 minutes we were in fromt of a car and i was waiting for her to say “theres my car”. She said it. And i stopped, so did she. I wanted to see if she will go to the car or not. She didnt, that was my go to sign that it was finally time to kiss her (She did not go to the car but turned to say goodbye). I said “come here” and kissed her for 10 seconds, leaving her with a little peck and a slap on her ass. I said goodbye. That was it.

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Could write this out in detail but i think i got the jist. What i wanted to showcase here is how women are sometimes. She was head over heals on the bench but rejected my advances to kiss her 3 times in a row so she doesnt feel bad about it. I guess she watched a lot of movies so she wanted to end it with a kiss haha. Also for the date i didnt plan anything special, no techniques or things i will do, i just go with the flow but in the back of my head i know what i need and want to acomplish, first date is for meeting someone, geting to know them better. Just talking and sharing your opinion and cool stories about your life. While still remaining physical and showing that seductive side from time to time. Also, always look to kiss close the date. Today it is a must in my opinion.

Hope it was a good read. Wish you all the best out there :).