• women are human beings and they have all had diarrhea at some point in their life. approach women as a conversation partner and not as a pile of meat to put your penis in. they often have a very different perspective on life than men. become friends with many women and you will be able to understand both the masculine and feminine perspectives. coincidentally, this will also help you find friends or lovers or whatever you're into.
  • this whole game isn't about just you. you are sharing your time with each other, which should be a pretty big deal for both of you.
  • what women (and men) look for is confidence. and not the external confidence of manly manliness that can take a truck to the pecs to shield a town of maidens (although that is a plus for many women). no, it's the self-confidence of knowing who you are and what makes you happy. you can be nontalkative and be confident, and you can be a social butterfly and be confident.
  • you can't please the whole world. sometimes your face or the shoes you are wearing might piss someone off for no reason at all. oh well, whatevs. they're probably having a terrible day. hopefully tomorrow will be kinder to them!
  • everyone wants to be loooovvveedddd. smile at strangers as you walk by them. if you smile at a less-than-perfect-looking person it might make their day, and they probably won't stalk you. when you see little siblings wrestling on the ground and laughing, or when you see an old man and his wife chortle to themselves it makes your heart squeeze with tenderness. make everyone's heart squeeze and laugh in public with friends.
  • you aren't better than anybody. we are all just as "good" as each other, because we are products of our environments. if you were brought up in a home with abusive parents and your childhood friends were killed in front of you, you'd be fucked up, too. Stop acting so pretentious ya fools. but if we didn't as a society disapprove of being a dick, or spoiled, or arrogant, then the problems would never be solved. THEREFORE, BE A GOOD PERSON. make people around you be happy that they know you, and make the world a better place.
  • laugh a lot. find the bright side to life! it's usually the little things. I like the smell of rain, and I like seeing a leaf all crumpled up on the ground.
  • be honest with yourself. often, you will dislike people for personality traits that you can find in yourself. there's a part of us that will always hate part of us, and that is the part of us that keeps us self-improving. recognize your flaws and work on fixing them.
  • when you smile, smile with your whole body :) and smile often!