Height and seducing women?

LadyNerd · 2012-09-10T03:08:42+00:00

I'm 6'7" and have a friend who is 5'6" and Asian, he gets more girls (all races) than anyone in our friend circle, because he is so positive, funny, confident and EVERYBODY in town knows him.

maddermonkey · 2012-09-10T03:25:57+00:00

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2012-09-10T04:49:00+00:00

I wish I was little bit taller, I wish I was a baller, I wish I had a girl who looked good, I would call her, I wish I had a rabbit in a hat with a bat, and a '64 Impala...?

5'8" here bro. Sometimes I wish I was Mario so I could bop their heads and squish them down to my height. Also, chicks dig Italian accents.

Live4theDrop · 2012-09-10T04:53:03+00:00

I love when guys complain about being small at 5'6" I am 5'2". When I walk into a bar girls immediately pay attention to me because I walk, talk and act like I'm towering over everyone in the room. Height is simply an advantage not a game changer. In fact most of the time I never get shit from girls its guys who give me shit about my height because they can't handle the fact their girl is into me and I am a foot shorter. If you want a snappy comeback to help with your confidence issue one I used first starting out was "oh that's okay you don't have to feel insecure because I am shorter then you" works on both genders.

nemoTheKid · 2012-09-10T02:54:48+00:00

plus none of them pay any attention to me due to my height.

Honestly this is an excuse. I only wish you were 3 inches taller for a day so you could realize that they still probably wouldn't pay attention to you.

hitlersasshair · 2012-09-10T02:41:46+00:00

6'5" so im sorry but dont let what you cant control hold you back

redfrojoe · 2012-09-10T03:20:47+00:00

If you're insecure with your height then women will sense your insecurity. Insecurity is not attractive. You cannot change your height. If you come to terms with it, you will stop broadcasting insecurity and become more attractive as a result. Or you could move to an Asian country where the average height is lower. Side note, Fuck DAE posts.

HenSica · 2012-09-10T03:44:55+00:00

Owen Cook, or Tyler Durden, founder of RSD Nation is only 5'8. He had 10+ years of going out constantly and practicing his skills to lead him to where he is today. He went from a short fat slob to a short healthy fit monster of a pua.

Here's a (fairly dated) partial review of him from one of the mods here: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/qzr3n/my_review_of_the_simple_pickup_guys_and_tyler/

GatorWills · 2012-09-10T03:51:42+00:00

Neil Strauss is a tiny guy.

2012-09-10T09:52:16+00:00

Don't let your height bother you, women can sense it! Work on making yourself better, I'm 5'5 and have a pretty good success rate with girls. I also workout 6 days a week and I'm stronger than alot of people much bigger than me. The gym is a small man's best friend. If you accept the things you cannot control and turn the daily bullshit life throws at you into motivation, your life will drastically change for the better. Keep you're head up man, you're awesome!

DrDeath666 · 2012-09-10T05:29:25+00:00

We're all the same height laying down.

meester123 · 2012-09-10T06:47:27+00:00

Love heels. Love the way they dress. Approach them, be friendly, don't look to get laid, just start a conversation. If you're feeling wild, say a stupid pick up line and feel okay with laughing at yourself.

5'6, and like Barney Stinson, I fail 99% of the time at the bars, but I'm okay with it.

2012-09-10T08:00:27+00:00

Have you seen what Neil Strauss looks like? Dude's a short, skinny, bald, white guy.

Jaricho · 2012-09-10T09:17:30+00:00

The point is, you are insecure about your height, so you send out an aura that says, My height is not good enough for you.

If you are confident about your height, your attitude will subconciously change accordingly and your aura will also change for the better.

It is not easy, but just train it. tell yourself that you are "Tall enough to date a women" "Good enough to date a women that is taller then me" "Height does not matter I got other qualities"

Keep telling yourself that, just into yourself, or into a mirror.

No buts, just do it. if you can think of something els that works for you, just use that, whatever works for you is the best solution.

throw4seddit · 2012-09-10T13:57:23+00:00

Seth Green married a gorgeous freaking model, and she's way taller than him.

2012-09-10T14:33:54+00:00

Height is a factor, that is true. It is far less important that about a million other factors.

For example, not caring about what height you are is a much more important factor than what height you are.

blitzik · 2012-09-10T17:50:13+00:00

After reading your replies, it doesn't really sound to me like you came here looking for success - only to reinforce that your failures are insurmountable.

Get on board, or be a lonely loser. I don't have patience for people like you who make excuses and won't listen to what people are trying to tell you.

Watcher13 · 2012-09-10T03:28:16+00:00

I'm with you every step of the way, I'm 5'7 and it stops my game short so much of the time (no pun intended.) I have the biggest AA ever because of this. The worst thing I've learned through my years is that most women would rather be with someone uglier, heavier, or stupider than themselves, but not someone shorter. We don't even register.

The best thing I've learned is that if you can know all that, and still walk right up to a girl like it's nothing, that wins you major points. The shit-testing for a short guy is intense (and painful), and women, especially your target's "wing-girls" will be VICIOUS. Shake it off, play it cool, and you can still get in if you sell yourself right.

JavaMummy · 2012-09-10T02:07:56+00:00

Tom Cruise - 5'7'' Sammy Davis Jr. - 5'5''

Those are just two examples of short dudes off the top of my head that were pretty popular with women. My roommate in college was 5'3'' and hooked up a staggering number of HB8, HB9, and HB10 girls. Don't let height bother you.

2012-09-10T02:41:17+00:00

its all about your confidence, if they see thats bigger than 5'6" you're set

pbatoon · 2012-09-10T05:31:57+00:00

You're 5'7 and complaining about height? I'm 5'4 and have found other ways personality-wise to compensate for my height.

Just be calm, funny, confident, and stay cool if you get blown out.

Music_Saves · 2012-09-10T06:13:32+00:00

Start a band, that's how the Rolling Stones, The Beatles, Peter Frampton, Genesis, The Who, The Faces, Rod Stewart and every other British rock band (with the exception of Sir Roger Waters) did it

machinations · 2012-09-10T09:06:25+00:00

I'm 5'9" and my height has bothered me at some level my whole life. Recently I started going out and realized that it was just another physical thing I could do nothing about. As long as you're confident and you're not thinking "god I'm so short, I'm so short" all the time at the club, then most women wont care.

2012-09-10T09:15:08+00:00

plus none of them pay any attention to me due to my height and lack of confidence.

Of course it's a disadvantage, man up, wear it like a badge and it will become an advantage. humans are designed to need some kind of excuse to not live up to some weird expectation. fuck that excuse, fuck being insecure, own the place.

2012-09-10T12:55:42+00:00

Height is a huge plus, but then so is a chiseled jawline, or a perfect hairline. You are not going to pick up every single girl but you will pick up no girls at all if you continue to believe your at some disadvantage.

If something is out with your control why is it even an issue?

RangersFan243 · 2012-09-10T13:03:06+00:00

You're at a small disadvantage, but far from an insurmountable one. Read the posts in the rest of this thread.

I will tell you, however, to STAND UP STRAIGHT (not military. Imagine a string is tied to the middle and top of your head that's pulling you up and be relaxed). None of this hunched over, forward-head syndrome bullshit afflicting 90% of the guys I see on campus. Having good posture both literally makes you taller and makes you seem taller via confident body language. People routinely guess my height to be in the low to mid sixes (6'1" -> 6'5") despite my being 5'11".

blackout517 · 2012-09-10T15:46:42+00:00

Ok I'm 6"6 and no lie sometimes wish I was shorter because most girls I see are around 5"5-6 Height has nothing to do with anything. Yes I'm seen first but what does that buy me? An extra 30 seconds during approach? Doesn't matter. Core confidence. Napoleon was a little ass mother fucker that ran shit. Excuses.

puntingbaxter · 2012-09-10T16:21:49+00:00

Although I am 6' tall I always approach the taller woman. Most of the time they find that they are rarely approached, and almost always blame it on their height. I say I find taller women sexy, and it instantly brings their guard down, and at the same time lets your intentions be known. Most tall women are insecure for whatever reason about their height even though it gives them long sexy legs. I don't get it.

2012-09-10T17:32:32+00:00

man its all about confidence, when you give off the impression that you dont care about how tall they are or how short you are compared to them and just be yourself. Not too long ago i was on a date with this beautiful black girl and shes 5'11 and im a 5'8 ginger, we went to the beach at night and by the end of it she was so into me she gave me head on the beach. You can win, just play the game the right way

blitzik · 2012-09-10T17:42:41+00:00

5'7? I wish I had your problems dude. At least you're still taller than most of the girls you see!

You're making excuses. The only problem here is your own lack of self confidence. The height thing is a non-issue.

Stop being a pussy about it.

sillymallard · 2012-09-10T18:17:56+00:00

I'm around 5'5 and while height definitely helps, it's not essential. What I've learned is that women are more likely to talk to you if you're shorter. That's all you need! If you're conversations skills are honed, you shouldn't have any problem gaming them. Guys who are bigger/taller have an advantage when doing kino openers. Also, it's a stereotype that super short girls want super tall guys. A lot of short girls want guys who are just a little taller than them, not up in the clouds.

type-A · 2012-09-10T18:43:01+00:00

Although everyone here will try to blow glitter up your ass the reality is that a subset of women only like taller men and will not even give you a chance despite how good your game is. However this does not mean that you can't have uber sexual abundance with all the other women who don't care.

magicroot75 · 2012-09-10T20:32:24+00:00

You have a cock. Use this one simple endowment to not give a flying fuck about your height. They want cock.

Luminaire · 2012-09-10T04:06:59+00:00

I'm 5'10, but I've dated/dating girls much taller than me. Here is the truth, for most girls height doesn't matter.

What matters is your confidence, body language, and whether you make it an issue.

lizzylizard · 2012-09-10T06:26:31+00:00

Guys seem to worry about their height more than women care about it. If you charm us, we'll like you. And the women who won't look at a guy shorter than a certain height are bitches not worth your time.

My boyfriend is 5'6. I'm 5'4 but LOVE wearing heels. He doesn't care, he thinks they look sexy and according to him it makes no difference because "we're the same height once I get you in bed."

DevilMirage · 2012-09-10T03:11:04+00:00

I'm 5'6" and have dated girls as tall as 5"9 without heels. When we went out the was easily 6'0" feet tall. I don't give a fuck. Who gives a fuck? This is all in your mind.

In fact, I use this as an opener. "Damn! You're kinda tall... how's the view from up there?" or... "hey... how's the temperature up there?"... they always laugh and it begins a good conversation with rapport.

DownvotedByCunts · 2012-09-10T03:03:25+00:00

I'm 6'3" and wish I was shorter. I feel weird and I feel like no matter what I do I'm gangly and everyone can see me ALWAYS. It would be nice being able to blend into the crowd a little bit. Don't let it get you down.

etionee · 2012-09-10T02:01:32+00:00

5'5" and a chubster here, so I know the feels...we need to go hang out at the Hobbit bars...

tteltrabr · 2012-09-10T03:53:45+00:00

It's true, height is attractive; you're at a huge disadvantage. Find a really short girl, and it'll happen.

Title	Height and seducing women?
Author	meester123
Upvotes	38
Comments	92
Date	September 10, 2012 1:50 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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