[FR] Out alone. Take lead.

The-Night-Fox · 2012-09-23T17:56:07+00:00

I wouldn't necessarily call that rejection... You can always follow up on her in a few days.

alpenghandi · 2012-09-23T17:08:57+00:00

Great FR. Keep it up man!

H0tC0ff33 · 2012-09-23T18:23:23+00:00

Keep rocking it out brother. You do what your comfortable with. Just don't get addicted to smokes because it looks good with your outfit. It's so not worth it. Believe me. Other than that, keep killing it out there

The_Pikman · 2012-09-23T18:01:04+00:00

Fuck yeah eggs and bacon!

Aniviator · 2012-09-23T17:11:33+00:00

You give me faith, sir. Well done

Ryu6912 · 2012-09-23T21:10:18+00:00

This is what it is all about. Putting yourself out there, getting experiences and getting confidence. I might not know you my friend but I am so very proud of you. You did a great job, have fun and enjoy it :)

dontknoworcare · 2012-09-24T01:02:59+00:00

11:45 is early? Dude that is bedtime.

TimothyGonzalez · 2012-09-23T23:49:49+00:00

Woke up, mom made eggs and bacon, I took a jog

lolled

skyshock · 2012-09-23T20:25:31+00:00

Anyone else feeling OP didnt escalate quickly enough. I mean good job in total, but personally i would resort to telephone texting only if the situation makes it absolutely necessary. You had all the time in the world to score with one of them, and status-wise these girls were not out of your league like you said. Sorry for the tough love, but i think you could have earned better results by ejecting with those 2 girls and hit up some other sets with even hotter girls and have fun, or even establish attraction. Then repeat until one of them shows signs of jealousy/craves your attention and exploit the shit out of that Situation. Just my opinion, i don't do this often but it always worked for me for atleast a kiss close. Rock on bro.

Radioactiveman271 · 2012-09-23T20:18:31+00:00

What is wrong with leaning in exactly?

dlefnemulb_rima · 2012-09-23T22:41:44+00:00

Great FR. I've been 'out of the game' for a while focusing on studies/making excuses and this reminded me that you don't have to be learning routines or any clever shit to get back in. It's just a case of saying hi to some bored people and going from there - i've done it all before!

Chrono803 · 2012-09-23T23:05:57+00:00

Awesome story. This should help motivate me to go out on my own more often.

PinkWhiteandGreen · 2012-09-23T23:58:39+00:00

Good technique, persistence, and a well written FR. You're doin' a bang-up job, brother

Real_Life_Sith · 2012-09-24T00:10:43+00:00

I read the title and thought, "Why would they be talking about taking guns out in r/Seduction?"

MegaMoule · 2012-09-24T00:36:21+00:00

Didn't the girl ask the all-mighty crusher "are you here alone". If so what would be a good answer to that?

"My friends are coming by later"?

"Friends weren't feeling like going out, and I didn't feel like doing nothing on a saturday night, so I said meh fuck it, I'm going alone"?

solocup · 2012-09-26T21:29:48+00:00

Quick thing. When talking about other people that hit on the girls you're with, don't badmouth them, at least not directly. Makes you look bad. The alpha wolf doesn't need to put other people down.

In your situation, I probably would have said "They were very...." - smile, look like you're trying to find a good euphemism - "...charming."

Like saying a girl has a nice personality when you don't want to call her ugly. They know what you're trying to say, it's funny, and you're classy.

squarehouse · 2012-09-24T00:32:28+00:00

I will never be able to be as awesome as you... :( Btw does it really help to stop masturbate? I am a furious fap artist, but I will give it a try if it really works.

gtbaddy · 2012-09-24T01:20:55+00:00

Going out alone has a stigma associated with it that I don't understand. It feels great to know that you can go out and have fun whenever you want without relaying oh other people to go with you.

Have fun, be friendly with the bartender when you go out. Before you know it you will be making friends with the people you visit (and probably a bunch of free drinks, too!).

AstroPhysician · 2012-09-24T01:48:18+00:00

Tomorrow is a monday and most people work at 11AM, its probably a reasonable excuse

philogynistic · 2012-09-24T02:53:04+00:00

dude this got me pumped. and reminded me i really need to be going to the gym. are you asian btw?

2012-09-24T04:15:13+00:00

Alienating yourself from your group of friends is the greatest thing you can do. In order to do this I sometimes set myself 'missions'. Last time i asked a friend what cigarette she wants, then went outside and asked for cigarettes. Now it s pretty easy to get a cigarette, not always the right one. So i ended up trading cigarettes with people, and meeting around 9 people before i got the one i wanted. It was interesting because when i said i wanted to trade they treated me with a much different attitude instead of as if i was just a bum. Another time i remember i had work next day so i couldn't stay and left my group of friends. I knew i had some time to waste so i went to the first place that had music. As soon as i walk in i ask the first girl i see to a dance. I was 18 at the time, she was about 23. It was nice because it was probably the first place where i could comfortably talk to a girl on the dance floor. I can't most of the times because of loud music. Then after 10 minutes of chatting and dancing i had to go. I asked her if she wanted to come over, and that i live by. She said yes, i was quite surprised. I actually lived very far and definitely couldn't bring her to my parents house. I just said maybe next time and that i had to go.

choc_is_back · 2012-09-24T14:47:52+00:00

I started my 3rd round of /nofap before this, 3 days in. This is the point where I feel the extra testosterone kick in. Instead of being conflict-shy, I feel agitated. Instead of quivering I feel like punching something.

Yeah that effect kinda scares me.

MADBARZ · 2012-09-23T19:05:10+00:00

...I want to be you.

2012-09-24T00:36:21+00:00

Great FR, one comment:

"mom made eggs and bacon"

Move out, seriously. You're 23.

jppbkm · 2012-09-23T17:11:42+00:00

well done.. but for 23 you seem really immature

2012-09-23T22:22:07+00:00

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Title	[FR] Out alone. Take lead.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	296
Comments	96
Date	September 23, 2012 3:08 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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