Eye contact. Probably one of the first weapons deployed by both sides at the beginning of any interaction. You see the girl, she sees you. Who looks away first?

Up until last October, my eye-contact “game” was next to nothing. I was a professional at avoiding eye contact. Some shit went down in my life, and I decided that I should change myself.

I made it my goal to maintain eye contact with everybody I made eye contact with. Literally everybody. I would do it until the adversary looked away. I’m currently a 4th year in college, so I have tons of opportunity to do that. At first it was very difficult, especially with girls. Girls are amazing at holding eye contact. It felt like they knew I was going to back down first. Fast forward a few months, and here we are in May. Now I almost never break eye contact unless I have to in order to do something (like while walking to a trashcan to dispose of shit). Boom, in come the IOI's and shit.

The eye is probably the most useful sensory tool that we as humans are born with. So why not use them to your advantage while conquering pussy going out?

I see eye contact as a form of confidence. And confidence, as we all know, is quite the attractive trait in today’s society. The fact that you’re able to hold eye contact with someone – at a distance, right in front of you, mid-conversation, through the screen – is quite a feat. Whenever I enter a room, I look around. I scan the area as if I’m looking for a suspect.

See a cute girl? Good. She looking at you? Good. Maintain eye contact. YOU LOOK AT HER UNTIL SHE LOOKS AWAY. Of course, don’t look like a fucking creep while you’re doing so. Oftentimes you will notice that she will look again in your direction - or even through her peripherals - if she has any remote amount of interest in you.

If you’re not used to making and maintaining eye contact, that’s fine. It’s like exercising a muscle. It’s going to be sore and difficult at first, but eventually you will be desensitized to the feeling of “awkwardness” that results in you looking away.

HOW you maintain eye contact is also important. As said earlier, you don’t want to look like a herpderp fucking creep.

Take Cristiano Ronaldo, for example. (GO REAL MADRID)

herpderp eyes

charismatic eyes

Notice how different the muscles below his eyes look. In herpderp eyes, they aren’t contracted at all. In charismatic eyes, they go along naturally with his genuine smile. With that said, you don’t have to always be smiling in order to bring out the smile in your eyes.

Go look in a mirror. Think of something that brings out your natural smile. Plucking your ex’s pubes one by one, ending world hunger and finding the cure for cancer, the hobbits jumping on the bed and Gandalf smiling, take your pick. Now take away the smile but maintain the muscles below the eyes. That’s the look you want to have when you maintain eye contact with a girl.

This is how I learned how to make and maintain good eye contact. With girls and guys. At the gym, at the mall, in the classroom, in bed (with girls only on this one though), the list goes on. This is something I do for fun now, since it seems like nobody else does it. Have this weapon in your arsenal and it should get you far. I think that being able to maintain eye contact goes hand-in-hand with confidence.

A few notes I want to include that goes along with eyes:

  • Don't look down at the floor. Ever. It's beta. (Exceptions include if you're plowing the girl on the floor or if you're about to let her fall off the empire state building)

  • If you do break eye contact first, don't look down. Look upwards or to the side. Don't look down. It's beta.

  • Whenever an awkward situation arises, challenge someone to a staring contest. This accomplishes two things. One, you make the situation more awkward, but you don't give a shit anyways, because you're a badass muhfuqqa. Two, you practice maintaining eye contact.

  • Stare at yourself in the mirror. Pretty good practice. Ronaldo stares at the mirror for like 5 minutes at a time to admire himself. Do the same. Admire yourself. You're fucking awesome. You're a boss. You're alpha. You're confident.

Now, go on and eye-fuck everybody you see!