If she smiles, say hi

Funkimonkey · 2019-04-20T21:59:33+00:00

It’s her method of approaching you....

auxdub · 2019-04-20T21:21:50+00:00

I wouldn't even wait for a smile, holding eye contact is already green light for talking to her.

Mathew_F · 2019-04-20T20:44:47+00:00

Good idea, I’m gonna try this too

itzReborn · 2019-04-21T00:10:41+00:00

Usually when I make eye contact they either look down or away or I break to quickly

darksidessj25 · 2019-04-21T02:26:50+00:00

It's very hard to catch. You have to know she'll be into you. This is next level Game. I get it so frequently to point where I started giving my own IOIs (indicators of interest). For example, yesterday I knew this Mexican girl was gonna look at me. When she made eye contact with me, I ran my fingers through my hair quickly while looking at her. I then talked to her a bit after. She was fiddling with her hair and what not. When you master presence you stay the fuck outta your head and you'll be able to express your intent like a masta.

beDeadOrBeQuick · 2019-04-20T21:35:57+00:00

It is funny to me, because i had the same thoughts while traveling back home. Glad someone is on the same page! PRACTICE!!

snarfarlarkus · 2019-04-21T06:26:52+00:00

How do we differentiate this from a girl being nice and just smiling at randoms?

Ihatemost · 2019-04-20T22:31:10+00:00

That's a really good idea. It could become a sort of automatism. Thank you!

oluwie · 2019-04-21T07:46:14+00:00

Always assume attractively, is the key point here. The 3As.

If you're wrong, the second key point is not to take it personal. Which trust me, I know, it's not easy to but once you do, "fuck it" would be the third key point to master.

If you're right, dive right in and charm her with your personality. She might still not like you after that, but if you've mastered key point #3 ... you'll be all right mate.

ImJustSo · 2019-04-21T16:13:14+00:00

You don't have to think of what to say next after hi either. Anytime I blurt something out near women that I know are into me, looked at me, smiled at me, etc they respond. They could have their back turned to me, they'll respond. They're listening. They're paying attention. After that initial hint that women drop, "Hey, I like you." then all you've gotta do is say hi, or anything at all, then wait.

They'll start blabbing, cuz they've been trying to think of what they'll do if the hot guy actually spoke to them.

That reminds me, this is a good time to share a concept about confidence. Confidence for me is paying attention to these things and realizing that when women do things like this, then it means I'm "The hot guy" to them. I just know it. I may not be hot to everyone, I know that, and that's what makes you balanced. I'm realistic and I'm not hot to many people but since I'm realistic, then I know I'm so hot that some people go home and masturbate thinking about me.

You dudes need that confidence, because it applies to you too. That cute chick that smiles at you, you're thinking, "I wonder if she likes me?"

She's possibly thinking nasty kinky shit about you choking her and pulling her hair because she had a wine cooler at her girlfriend's place before heading to the library to pickup a new smut novel.

Meanwhile, you're like humdeedum, heading home. Wish I had said hi to that one girl!

Women do not look at, stand close to, smile at randomly on the street, or put themselves near men that repulse them. They would rather just cross the street. Walk away. Stop talking. Not make eye contact. They try to avoid catching the attention of....basically anything they don't like.

If a woman does the opposite of those things. Do the math, guys.

1xltP3mgkiF9 · 2019-04-21T05:45:46+00:00

I'm 37 years old. No woman has ever smiled to me. Also, if I try to smile first - everyone treats me as a creep.

mrbaoss · 2019-04-21T11:17:31+00:00

harrysapien · 2019-04-21T18:11:02+00:00

One of the best practices you can learn is to just talk to women you are interested in when you see them out and about. You'd be amazed how well you will do once you become a master at the art of random stranger conversation! Don't use pick up lines, just casual sincere conversation often about whatever environment you are in. Then throw in a little bit of wit and charm and you'd be surprised how far that will take you!!!

Ninokun · 2019-04-20T21:15:44+00:00

to be honest its a waste of time at an airport.... like there is an 85% chance she isnt a local and even then she is flying away right then and there...

massimovolume · 2019-04-21T21:02:42+00:00

I don't remember the last time I noticed a stranger smiling at me, I have noticed every once in a while a girl repetedely looking at me, but a girl staring and smiling? Never noticed that. I don't think I'm horribly bad looking

RAGINGALPHA696969 · 2019-04-27T01:39:20+00:00

Are you already smiling when you're looking at her or are you straight faced?

ajfranciss3 · 2019-04-21T07:52:07+00:00

I'm confused, do you wave to say hi to her from afar or go walk up to her. Just asking :)

JetBalck · 2019-04-21T19:03:53+00:00

It’s fine to say hi but don’t assume she’s interested in you in that way. I smile at people to be nice, because it feels good to exchange smiles. When men think my mere smile and eye contact mean I’m interested in them sexually, it makes me avoid eye contact and become unfriendly. If I don’t look at you and smile, I’m a bitch, but if I do, I’m attracted to you. Hm. Some people are just nice, just be nice back, and it will all work out. Don’t make assumptions.

huntdog49 · 2019-04-21T05:45:12+00:00

I was in a Starbucks,on Craig St.I was sitting by a blonde college kid.I could see her,fairly large,breasts under her sweater.No bra. I got up to leave. On the seat that was between us,was all of this junk;wires,a converter of some type. "I'm glad that I didn't sit there."I pointed at the chair."Hi."She said with a smile.Her eyes were blue."I'm taking a class,right now.Online."She pulled her body up,and off of her chair. Her butt was very round."How much longer?"I asked."Over an hour." I sat back down"and I pulled my phone out.I went to this one site,Redtube.I went to this video of a school teacher banging two male students."Which one would you be?"I asked. She hit the teacher "Her." "I would be the one behind you."She blushed. Since her boyfriend showed up,and my stomach growled,I got up,and I left with a nodd. She nodded back.We didn't trade info,but she hangs out there.

Title	If she smiles, say hi
Author	JetBalck
Upvotes	757
Comments	102
Date	April 20, 2019 8:13 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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