There is this belief in the manosphere that the way a lot of women conduct their romantic and sexual lives will cause loneliness in the long term. I personally find it an " oversimplified " idea that can easily be debunked.

So the claim is that when women hit their sexual peak at 20 , they start chasing men that are more attractive and successful then them aka chads. The logic behind it is that the amount of attention resulted from women reaching their sexual peak cause a huge inflation in women's value and self esteem . Therefore women think if they can get average men's attention by existing , then it doesn't seems so difficult to get with their own Prince charming and live their romantic fantasie. According to men , all this result in women excluding average and below average men completely from their own romantic plan and constantly aim for Chads while neglecting the fact that other women want them too, which cause the interaction between most women and chads to never go beyond SEX. The same procedure keep happening until women reach 30 yo , then feel emotionally and sexually exhausted and barely able to keep even the sexual relationship going with CHADS.

Here is when the claim become absurd, and it goes like this : When women hit 30 and gave up on Chads , they already become unattractive (hit the wall ) and no man want them so they become lonely forever.

Now let's talk about the huge flaws in this " story " :

● Seriously , are we gonna act like an average man who have a decent amount of money wouldn't look at a 30 yo woman after being ignored by women all his life ? Do we seriously underestimate how little options men have?

I'm telling you most men would be in a relationship with a 30 yo average woman in a heartbeat if she shows interest. And this is something even data shows ( the average age of marriage is 29 for women) .

● A dating life from 16 yo to 30 yo only centred around attractive and rich men isn't actually bad as men love to make it . Most women gain a lot from going out with attractive and rich men : Getting social attention , gaining social groups and PR , experiencing romantic and sexual stuff with men they admire, raising their standards and being part of a high quality environment , getting gifts and learning more social skills , passionate sex with both parties being attractive to each others.

All of this with an already good interactions with women due to the current culture that bond women with each others and a more profitable friendships with men is actually very good

And Let's not forget that in a society heavily policing how attractive men treat women, there is an actual chance for women to actually end up with CHADS which is something we are seeing more and more in real life and social media ( some men call it dumpsterdiving ) .

● A beta buxe that is gonna worship the ground you walk on is not a bad option as a husband like most men claim . After years of competing for Chads attention , being married to a man that no woman will look at is definitely better . ( just look at what women complain about when having an attractive partner) .

☆ This is actually an almost perfect romantic and sexual life for most people and somehow it's portrayed by men as bad when in reality , if this is a bad dating life for women , imagine what attractive women are having .

P.S : why men think attractive men are losers and poor by default ?