Guys who pull..How common is it for women to equally keep the flow of conversation going.

SaaSWriters · 2024-06-06T01:50:16+00:00

What are you talking to them about?

Keep it light, don’t talk for too long about unnecessary things. Within 2 - 3 minutes max she should know what you want from her.

Contrary to popular opinion, you’re not going to talk her into desiring you.

Within less than five minutes you can walk away with either a plan to do something or knowing she’s not interested.

punktfan · 2024-06-06T02:48:49+00:00

If I found myself with a woman who wasn't carrying her weight in a conversation, I'd move on and find a woman who is willing to reciprocate and participate more.

z7zark7z · 2024-06-06T06:10:26+00:00

If you're doing it right, she is talking way more than you are. Pull strong in the beginning, and she will be comfortable enough to open up. Then you'll get the, "you're such a good listener. Wow. I feel so comfortable with you."

And then, BAM!

Your night gets a lot easier when she is pursuing you.

Graduate level move is "sticky eyes". You can say more with your eyes in 4 seconds than you can with your mouth in 30 minutes.

Weather53 · 2024-06-06T01:48:41+00:00

I think even if a woman likes you, she will still act like she doesn’t a lot of the times. Not necessarily on purpose, but still. I’ve had dates where everything she does, if I told everybody here what happened, they would say she wasn’t into me in the slightest, yet the date ended in a score.

great_account · 2024-06-06T04:59:36+00:00

I don't mind walking away if the conversation dies down. If she doesn't want to keep the conversation going then why am I trying to keep it going?

TheCallOfBoooty · 2024-06-06T02:49:57+00:00

I used to play this game where I used to pretend to be a shy guy and almost not talk at all (just because I used to work in sales and used to be tired of talking all day), Success rate of doing it on the very first date skyrocketed to 8 of 10 times.

raulalexo99 · 2024-06-06T06:08:19+00:00

I have been kinda unlucky on this one. Maybe 70% of them have left all the weight of keeping alive the conversation to me. The sad thing is those where the prettiest or the ones I liked the most.

DaygameCode · 2024-06-06T10:56:58+00:00

It’s because you don’t talk about the stuff they actually care about, which is feelings, emotions, relatable stories, sensations.

Girlinawomansbody · 2024-06-06T08:44:38+00:00

From a woman’s point of view she will keep the conversation going if she is interested. If you’re having to do all of the work, she’s not.

Defiant-Past6997 · 2024-06-06T07:05:14+00:00

it's always teh same

When you pull a girl, you will know fast that it's on as she will be contributing to the convo a lot and will often even being flirting etc before you!

And when a girl isn't contributing at all or ignores you, tells you she insn't interested in you etc, then it will never ever lead too sex. just move on to the next girl. Your negs and pushpulls and 'charisma' and whatever else you think of as 'game' will fall of deaf ears

edit: i'm talking about cold approach as opposed too adate

Hinderking · 2024-06-06T07:59:20+00:00

I like to ask open ended questions, and follow the rule of letting them do 75% of the talking. And using how, why, when where, what. If a girl is interested most of the time she will happily keep talking. The occasions it doesn’t work is when I can tell the girl isn’t really interested

Dandys3107 · 2024-06-06T09:33:09+00:00

The point is not to figure out new topics to talk, but topics that will help you escalate your mental and physical intimacy. Girls are really just not that good in leading, so it's better to take it on yourself. Try to make progress towards your goal, girl should control tempo with her reactions.

TripleDigitNomad · 2024-06-06T10:55:47+00:00

Once a girl decides she likes you and gets comfortable, she'll talk your ear off. I barely have to say much at that point lol

btrpb · 2024-06-06T13:21:58+00:00

If they like you they don't shut the fuck up

PrinceDestin · 2024-06-06T19:42:58+00:00

Pretty common because women love to talk, most of the time I can get away with 15 sentences while they carry the convo with over 100 in between you add the

Uh huh for real

That’s crazy

Yea

Nah

What you mean?

Wym is the best because they talk even more in detail

That’s crazy is a personal favorite cuz they agree and then it entices them to talk more about whatever.

Michael_PDX · 2024-06-06T04:42:52+00:00

In person or texting?

Ronnyvar · 2024-06-06T06:54:30+00:00

You just ask them a question every 5 minutes say yes and then do it again later, I barely speak and they keep going!

Scoridd · 2024-06-06T09:24:19+00:00

If she likes you yes that will happen- happened to me just this morning in fact. If not the conversation will feel a bit awkward and harder to maintain - that happens a lot too, probably more often than not.

Basically you’ll meet more people that aren’t receptive to your interest than are - that’s just how it works - so when you meet someone who is engaged and keeping the flow, you’re probably on to a good thing.

Epiphanic_Eros · 2024-06-06T12:04:43+00:00

Lean to be comfortable with silence. If there’s a natural gap, and you’re not curious about something, then let the silence be. Nothing needs to fill the silence.

That would probably be a great time to tell her to have a wonderful day, and walk away. But if you’re sitting for a meal or whatever, then just let it be.

Either she discovers something to say/ask, or you do, or you can be silent together for a bit. Silence is golden, as long as you’re not aching and squirming under the weight of the silence.

jjboy91 · 2024-06-06T04:28:14+00:00

If making conversation is hard, she's not interested

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-06-06T02:52:04+00:00

I put in minimal effort with women. I don’t try to keep the conversation going. That’s being more invested in the interaction than she is. The easiest plays have been when they talk more than I talk. But that being said I do talk about myself a lot too. I want them to know what they are getting.

DeltaKaze · 2024-06-06T06:31:48+00:00

Sorry to burst your bubbles but if they struggle to carry the convo, it means they weren't that interested in you to begin with

MrAnonPoster · 2024-06-06T13:10:36+00:00

If she is into you, she will. If she is not, she wont.

Samzterr · 2024-06-06T19:09:56+00:00

If you got a shot she’s always going to contribute. Sometimes she’s nervous but there will still be tells she’s into you. If you gotta think “what can i say to keep this conversation alive” it’s prob not the right one

Eu8bckAr1 · 2024-06-06T22:36:17+00:00

It is directly proportional to how hot, handsome and ritch you are.

But sometimes you find some cool girls, that ain’t like that, rarely tho.

BananaBeach007 · 2024-06-10T05:05:53+00:00

Doesn't really happen, but when you get one hooked and they start asking questions and trying to pull you know it's on.

No-Grade-5057 · 2024-06-06T02:10:54+00:00

Are you asking open-ended questions? Or do you ask survey questions?

SuperPoop · 2024-06-06T14:12:04+00:00

from my experience, guys who talk a lot tend to do better.

throwaway-research1 · 2024-06-06T18:32:49+00:00

I believe it depends on how attractive the women is to you, personally I have seen women starting to act like complete clowns to keep me entertained when they are highly attracted towards me

FIVE_6_MAFIA · 2024-06-06T21:22:25+00:00

I don't really do much talking, I just get to the point and let her know I'm interested, and I ask her out. We can maybe talk more during the date

SammySprinkles9000 · 2024-06-07T01:54:10+00:00

If she’s talking to you, she has some sort of interest for attraction, The woman should be doing 70 to 80% of the talking. You should remain somewhat of a mystery to her. Keep your responses short, sweet, light, and funny. Women are more attracted to men, whose feelings are unclear.

Diragaze · 2024-06-06T14:29:37+00:00

i would t know bc i don’t waste time texting girls for fun. take the next step, call them at night and only text a couple messages here and there.

but to answer your question usually they reciprocate just about equally, some a little more some a little less (cut it short they clearly don’t wanna talk). the ones that like to text a lot kinda suck

Diragaze · 2024-06-06T14:29:54+00:00

i would t know bc i don’t waste time texting girls for fun. take the next step, call them at night and only text a couple messages here and there.

but to answer your question usually they reciprocate just about equally, some a little more some a little less (cut it short they clearly don’t wanna talk). the ones that like to text a lot kinda suck

adamparkar12 · 2024-06-06T18:54:08+00:00

not unless you are white or attractive and she likes you like a celebrity...

Title	Guys who pull..How common is it for women to equally keep the flow of conversation going.
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