If she asks to bring her friend should I not go?

Brave_Scholar_3849 · 2024-08-28T04:13:29+00:00

go and start hitting on her friend in front of her

Ivabighairy1 · 2024-08-28T06:58:57+00:00

Don’t spend a dime on either of them. Buy your own ticket. Travel alone to event and meet them there. She’s not interested in you, just what you provide. Don’t provide anything.

Biscuitsbrxh · 2024-08-28T02:55:22+00:00

Hit on her friend or just enjoy yourself and have a good time

aFalseSlimShady · 2024-08-28T03:12:25+00:00

Go, and don't be overly invested. Hang out and have fun with the friend too.

yeahyeahitsmeshhh · 2024-08-28T03:32:13+00:00

I have done; met as part of group, met with her friend, went on date, banged, relationship.

I would be open to hanging out with both of them so long as you aren't paying for the friend and you aren't ignoring actual dates to hang out platonically.

reddituser1000111 · 2024-08-28T04:50:03+00:00

On a date that’s a no from me

MouseAware809 · 2024-08-28T07:43:48+00:00

Tell her your bringing a friend as well. Bring a female friend.

Enjoy the chaos that follows.

Been there, done that, it's interesting.

Mexcol · 2024-08-28T03:59:35+00:00

What would u guys say if she wanted to invite a male friend?

toliveistocherish · 2024-08-28T03:31:09+00:00

go for it man its a good practice handling two sets and have fun.

roakmamba · 2024-08-28T04:59:01+00:00

Idk sounds off and like she's using her friend as a crutch to not escalate things with you and this could have you fall into the friend zone. I wouldn't have had her friend come at the bowling "date". This could have been "date" two and you could have already escalated things.

daddyvow · 2024-08-28T07:46:44+00:00

You should meet up but don’t treat it like a date (don’t pay for stuff). Still flirt with her and have a good time. She probably just wants to see how you’d interact.

mabden · 2024-08-28T23:07:42+00:00

Until the relationship is established, no group dates. If this girl is not comfortable meeting you one on one, then she is not that interested in you.

Your choice on still going and giving her another chance, but you should probably lose her number.

Shadow__Account · 2024-08-28T10:03:15+00:00

Next time don’t weaken what you say with that “but if you want to it’s fine”. Personally I’d say I would like to spend time but with you 1on 1. So I’ll skip this one.

Conjoined_Triangles · 2024-08-28T13:20:34+00:00

You need to determine whether or not she's looking to hang with her friend while you chaperone them or if she's receptive to flirtation. If it's the latter it's up to you if you think you'll vibe with both of them. I had two recent dates where they brought a friend or were in a group and closed both. The first one I brought her and her friend home, her friend stayed for a little bit to make sure I was cool and then went home while the girl spent the night with me.

GiotaroKugio · 2024-08-28T21:42:51+00:00

If the friend is a girl and not fat its a win win

1o11ip0p · 2024-08-28T13:20:07+00:00

dont get deterred by this, this is an EXCELLENT opportunity for experience. Its very easy to view this as being friendzoned, and you might actually be getting friendzoned, but that doesn’t matter. You’re gonna be a guy with two girls with you at this event. Take out the context of how this happened, and it seems pretty fun no? everyone is gonna be looking at you and be jealous of you. its a great time to learn social dynamics between women. ive been in this position before and i fumbled but what i learnt is so much more than i would on a one on one date because they have to be a certain level of honest with each other on a friend level, and you can use that to your advantage.

oh also, expect to get attention from other women there since you’re one dude with two girls. its a positive domino effect because the more attention you have, the more you recieve. just play it cool cause that type of attention can go to anyones head.

play ur cards right you’ll be irresistible to this bitch.

Aristox · 2024-08-28T12:27:11+00:00

It's definitely not a date and she's almost definitely not interested in you. But if you think they're cool people to hang out with then go ahead. Hit on her friend if you think she's cute. Don't think about it as a long term investment, just a short term experience, if you think you'd enjoy it then go ahead, just don't think of it as a date cause it's not

creativedave73 · 2024-08-28T05:20:59+00:00

Let her bring her friend and have fun with both of them. I love hanging out with two women at the same time!

Classic_Writer8573 · 2024-08-28T16:46:30+00:00

Ask if she's trying to set up a threesome. Treat it as such. You never know....

nunsaymoo · 2024-08-28T23:46:13+00:00

This seems like a test to see if her friend approves of you.

skulleater666 · 2024-08-28T23:59:24+00:00

No its fine. Just be cool to the friend. Its so you dont turn out to be a psycho

Wazzzock · 2024-08-28T13:11:40+00:00

Literally had this yesterday, and I had even been on a date with the friend 3 weeks ago, turns out they work together.

Go be chill, show you can handle an unusual experience, chat some waffle

Itsgxl · 2024-08-28T14:18:08+00:00

HIT ON THE FRIEND. IT IS CRYSTAL CLEAR.

ToxicM1ndfulness · 2024-08-28T18:27:56+00:00

I say it’s okay if you’re not paying for the friend too

The issue with situations like this is. There’s definitely girls who’ve been in sketchy situations on dates so now they bring a friend along to feel more safe. On the opposite side of spectrum there’s also definitely girls that do this because they want to go somewhere with their friend ands just use the guy to pay the bill.

letsmessitup · 2024-08-28T06:10:58+00:00

Bro gonna get 3sum

Morph_Kogan · 2024-08-28T12:00:28+00:00

Have a threesome

SuperPoop · 2024-08-28T12:49:02+00:00

she's probably nervous and using her friend as a social crutch. play it cool. be flirty with both of them. if they're both cute, you'll look like the man wherever you go.

Techknightly · 2024-08-28T12:52:20+00:00

Buy her and her friend both flowers. See if she gets Jealous.

2 Don't hit on her friend, but give her friend an equal amount of attention.

Find out what her friends interests are, what she likes to do, where she likes to go. Insist you go do something next time that her friend likes to do. This can be an effective way to essentially figure out what the hell is going on by the reaction you receive.

Boringwallz · 2024-08-28T14:59:48+00:00

Why not bring a friend along as well, someone that actually knows what he is doing and is DTF. You are obviously new to this? Make your intentions clear, if I lived near you I would show you how it is done Drop the nice guy, yes man attitude. Do you even know what you are doing or wanting out of this?

When you first met her in the bar, your intentions should have been made clear. If you had and MAYBE she wasn’t ready then. Second date asking to bring a friend, you bring a friend that isn’t a dork and you will both be getting laid.

If you keep this act up too long you will be their new gay friend that goes on dates with them.

When I get with a chick i am not there to play poker, I am there to POKE her. Stop jerking off and watching porn. You lust be extremely frustrating for a female. Are you there to be her friend or to fuck her/date her? If there is attraction you fuck on the first date, maybe second date and even then that is a big maybe.

She already has a friend, what are you fucking doing?

Rollorich · 2024-08-28T09:10:06+00:00

Don't go. Tell her to have a nice time with her friend and to let you know when she is free without other plans.

Ok_End_5553 · 2024-08-28T03:24:37+00:00

What type of event is this? Because if it is at a bar/club I think it is completely normal to bring a friend.

Mrdudemanguy · 2024-08-28T15:50:29+00:00

If it's not a date then don't pay for anything. In fact maybe bring one of your friends too.

Relevant-Spinach294 · 2024-08-28T16:09:11+00:00

Bring a friend too?

Minute_Abroad_8105 · 2024-08-28T16:26:52+00:00

Hell no he ain't going at all bc of the shit he just said to me.

Organic_Matter6085 · 2024-08-28T21:05:53+00:00

Yo OP, fuck all these comments. That's some gay ass "alpha" shit.

Let her invite her friend. Be friendly to her. Joke around with you.

This is literally a 2 for 1. You can make the friend like you, boom preselection. And you can make your date jealous.

You could either be a insecure little bitch doing what these comments suggest, or make the most of a very good opportunity.

Title	If she asks to bring her friend should I not go?
Author	Standard-Metal3161
Upvotes	72
Comments	63
Date	August 28, 2024 2:51 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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