Both pickup and redpill get a bad rep but it's mainly because it is *very* effective.
So why is it better than ScienceTM?
- Most psychology/science experiments are FLAWED. Humans are very complex. The Hawthorne effect is a type of human behavior reactivity) in which individuals modify an aspect of their behavior in response to their awareness of being observed. You cannot measure things like "Attraction" in a lab using questionnaires hiding behind a glass pane. Then you have the scientific peer review process which is garbage, with scientists doing p-hacking and other unethical practices just so they can KEEP THEIR JOBS.
PUA or redpillers are actively involved in the entire human courtship ritual. You are not a lab experiment. Then most PUAs/redpillers actively trade their experiences in blogs and build up a consensus based on multiple experiences. Which brings up my next point.
- SKIN IN THE GAME. Nasim Taleb, famous statistician have says: To have "skin in the game" is to have incurred risk (monetary or otherwise) by being involved in achieving a goal. In the phrase, "skin" refers to an investment (literal or figurative), and "game" is the metaphor for actions on the field of play under discussion.
A scientist has nothing to gain from a romantic study. Well if the results are controversial or "not popular" there is a risk of losing your job. There is a need to be politically correct.
But a man with a family has everything to lose. The divorces courts will literally chew him up and tear him from his kids. A man can know the pain of forced celibacy. They have skin in the game.
A lot of PUA/Redpill concepts are simply how codified tenets of how men who are successful with women behave. A lot of it is the unpleasant truth.
Most of purplepill discussion/debate is a pointless waste of time because
- Too deductive: most of it is just hypothesizing and reasoning about extremely complex human behaviours, without any experience. Redpill inductive: Collecting multiple experiences and extracting common patterns.
- Asking women for advice. A lot of what women do to get men isn't going to work the other way around. It's a different game. when you hit on a girl in a bar, she gets an emotional response whether to flirt or not, and it is not a logical calculated process. Asking her to break her own emotional processing patterns into words isn't logical.
- Most of the purplepillers are losers. They are scared of actually talking to women.
- Bluepill advice is not being realistic. you live in an ideal world.
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