how to break into the top percentile of women?

hunterpua · 2024-10-13T19:56:30+00:00

This is the mindset I've had on dating for more than 10 years now - If she likes me, she likes me.

What I'm reading from you here is that you're struggling to find a reason why a 9 or 10 would be into you.

Me, I don't care about figuring that out.

If I flirt with a girl and she's into it then that's that.

My friend who is only 5'4 was a short king long before that became a popular term and he's the one who taught me this mindset.

The majority of women he's been with are taller than him and tons of people ask him, "How do you do that?? Don't you ever worry that women won't like you coz you're short?"

And he just doesn't think about that at all. He's the first one who said it, "If they like me, they like me. 🤷‍♂️"

Don't worry about trying to justify to yourself why you would be "worthy" of hotter women, just go flirt with them and if some of them like you, let them be the ones to worry about coming up with a justification.

Even literally asking them why they like you will get them to like you're more, because by answering that question they explain to themselves why they should be with you.

If you adopt this mindset then all that's missing is just going and flirting with hotter women.

Double-slit-expermnt · 2024-10-13T19:06:38+00:00

You'll have better chance to score a 8-10 when you approach them offline

pitterpatter-96 · 2024-10-13T21:02:32+00:00

Have an attractive lifestyle. They hang around men with exclusive access to things. Get involved in hobbies or local groups and try to go for a leadership position within that group. All depends on your scene tho

theasianplayboy · 2024-10-13T19:38:09+00:00

Lifestyle, inner game and access. Amateurs think tactics while experts think logistics.

Half the battle is logistics. So getting access to social events, parties and the like where every single woman is 8-10 is the biggest hurdle and weeding out mechanism of most lesser men.

Lifestyle is what gives you that access. So a millionaire might naturally get access to it because he has high net worth friends who invite him.

Inner game is what gives you the ability to take advantage of it. That same millionaire might have absolutely zero game and won’t be able to close on his own. However, because he has access and the women assume he has high net worth, probably at least one will choose him.

He might not get the top of the top, but just getting access to the inner circle means he has a better chance than most.

Look up yacht parties, charities, galas, mansion parties, etc.

In the meantime, work your technical skills and improve your inner game simultaneously and in parallel until you build up your lifestyle and gain access.

bmcapers · 2024-10-13T21:46:21+00:00

Take a dance class. Be consistent at it for a year. Develop a strong core. Sure, you’ll be desirable among beautiful women as a good dancer - but that’s not the reason for success. It’s learning how to become a good lead, which will crossover in all aspects of your life. Dancing builds communication and adaptation skills.

SmartAd3816 · 2024-10-14T02:00:41+00:00

Its mostly a mental game. If you tell yourself that you only attract losers then you'll only attract losers.

marsfifth · 2024-10-13T20:55:36+00:00

Not gonna sugar coat it. If you're killing it with 6-7, its likely you're a 6-7. To break into the top percentile you have to become the top percentile.

Outside_Bowler8148 · 2024-10-14T03:24:09+00:00

Social circles is the only way.

bad_intentions_too · 2024-10-14T00:49:06+00:00

Every single woman that lurks here is constantly LOL’ing…everything is absolutely laughable. This post is extra funny.

grldgcapitalz2 · 2024-10-13T19:52:54+00:00

me a celebrity and/or rich or just generally dont be unattractive

NotMyBestEffort · 2024-10-13T22:09:07+00:00

Well, to me it is the realization that I am a one in a billion person - ok, a one in 4 billion man. I am wildly unique.

therealwoujo · 2024-10-14T05:30:30+00:00

There is no magic secret. You just have to stop seeing them as different and treat them like you treat 6s.

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2024-10-13T22:16:33+00:00

You are going to have to go to exclusive places where the competition is going to be tough.

soulshock22 · 2024-10-13T23:01:19+00:00

Location, location, location. Where are you located buddy?

Sabb0xr7 · 2024-10-14T16:29:14+00:00

you got a 10 before, you can do it again. lose the mindset that there are others better than you. you get what you think you deserve. also 9-10 girls are v hard to get online the odds are against you, offline is definitely the way with them (parties/cold approach etc)

Wing_Inevitable · 2024-10-13T22:50:57+00:00

how to break into the top percentile of women?

Welcome to game where everything matters :

1 So fix you look - sorry but you would at least need to be a 6/10.

have an effect. The 3 recommended ones are the bad boy (preferably modernise it a bit) , the cool kid (what ever the boys that would usually sleep with her wearer) and the Big shot (that high end dude style - the whole 3 pice suit shit)
get some muscle on you.

2 Incorporate more tension in your game

8.5 and above - it needs to be massive and constantly there I would also recommend you get used to it.

3 Avoid any logical pitfalls

Up to this point DHV or what have you might have worked - that shit is over - you could own 17 Ferraris, but there will be a dude with 40 and 7 privet planes.

Any logical - “do you fit my box” shit is to be avoided.

4 Any niceness or nerd behaviour is done at the 9 mark.

They do not tolerate any nice or nerd behaviours - like 0. Where a 7 might love you buying her flowers - A 9 will not.

5 If you want to keep them after you sleep with them - I would recommend find something that they might be socially competing in.

6 Find a way to have consistent access to them

Final advice - start with the weirdo or older 8.5+ - they are easier. A socially competitive 9 will be a challenge for anyone jumping that 8 to 9 gap.

You would need to be like unrealistically smooth with the normal 9

I would probably recommend you work on how loud (and used to attention ) comfortable, narcissistic and certain you are - first.

I’m having an issue that I hope you guys could help with.

Remove filler words from your vocabulary. Dumb down your speech

“Help” - there that is the whole thing you just said.

I’m struggling to date/approach/meet top tier women.

Problem - Top bitches ?

I was just giving an example when asking for help do be as long winded as possible in your words.

I hate using a scale but let’s just say from 8-10.

8s and 8.5 are different beasts. Hell a 9 would be like a planet away from how 8.5 work.

the issue is that the women are usually 6-7.

8 -8.5 don’t go on apps and barely have a day to day. - you could catch some in the club.

So better learn how to do that first.

9 and above are a privet yacht party thing.

I feel like why would they choose me when they have 10,000 guys blowing up their DMs, offering them stuff, etc.

Well that is a nerd behaviour so enjoy finding a way to fix that.

do you guys have any advice on how to get these type of women into your life?

“Game Solved volumes 1 and 2” - welcome to hard game, cuz those 1000 pages are the NECESSITY to get there.

Leewaak · 2024-10-13T20:55:21+00:00

I can give you an answer that will show you instant results ( from experience ), but it will be unethical and you will have to fake it till you make it. Since this sub became a bit pussified lately if u wanna know DM me

Title	how to break into the top percentile of women?
Author	AngryGoose21
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Date	October 13, 2024 6:58 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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