For those who are still struggling to date, read this book:

"What Women Want" by Tucker Max and Geoffrey Miller, PHD.

Then do what it says to do and watch what happens. I'm shocked that this book did not become a best seller. It is realistic, effective and ethical. It respects women without simping for them and it is not ideological.

This book came out in 2015, and I have yet to find anything that even comes close to how effective this is.

Especially anything from the nonsense in the red pill space.