What are some of the best practices or tips to give a girl great orgasms?

notathr0waway1 · 2025-02-02T16:46:56+00:00

Make them feel safe
Take your time. Think of how long it would take you from kissing to orgasm and multiply that by about 10.
Listen to her body. You'll notice subtle things like a sharp intake of breath, increased respiration, bucking her hips, her pussy getting wetter,
Go forward, then draw back. The pattern doesn't need to be always progress so you're kissing you're touching maybe you make your way to touching her panty covered pussy you touch it for a little while and then you go back to just stroking her thighs and grabbing her butt for a while.
ASK her. "Do you like this?"
Compliment her. I tend to mix in praise when I'm noticing that she is showing signs of arousal you are so sexy, you are so beautiful, etc etc
Be patient
FINISH HER

likeshismetal · 2025-02-02T16:31:31+00:00

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entitledwank · 2025-02-02T16:21:18+00:00

it’s tough cause every girl is so different. Some girls want to get absolutely railed, some think they do but actually get overstimulated, some can only finish from oral, others in certain positions.

i once gave a girl an orgasm by teasing and sucking on her nips for like 30 minutes. obv this was a special case and won’t work with everyone.

my point is notice how she reacts and keep doing what she responds well to

OpinionatedIMO · 2025-02-02T17:22:05+00:00

Ask HER what she likes.

The female orgasm doesn’t occur so much from physical strategies and maneuvers, as it comes from psychological contentment, and feeling desired, adored, and safe.

Don’t ‘run straight for the end zone (clitoris) when you are handed the football’, kiss her passionately. Caress her skin, touch her body all over, not just the erogenous zones. Make sure she feels comfortable and safe. Make it about her enjoyment, not an obvious precursor to yours.

Take things slow. Gauge her receptiveness to whatever you are doing. Again, don’t head straight for the obvious places.

That’s expected but when you do, keep in mind the female sex organ is usually more sensitive than the male so be gentle unless she specifies she wants more direct stimulation on her clit with your lips and tongue.

Some ladies also need or desire G spot stimulation. If so, insert your middle two fingers and make gentle ‘come here’ motions with them to stimulate her g spot (feels like a spongy orange peel) while simultaneously circling her clit and also licking the labia and vaginal opening.

As a bonus if she’s really into what you are doing so far, if you can orchestrate these simultaneous actions after significant foreplay, (take a finger from your other hand and LIGHTLY caress her taint area since that area is likely to be stimulated too). Gauge her reaction.

Stimulating the butt area is risky and dependent on how comfortable your partner is.

Some ladies draw a hard line at ANY stimulation there.

If she seems receptive while doing the other things, you can try lightly caressing, tickling her asshole but do not get carried away and go exploring. This isn’t porn. That will probably take her out of the bliss.

Ask her for feedback along the way. Just knowing you care about her pleasure and that you want to adapt is incredibly arousing to most women. If they know you care and listen to what their preferences are, they can relax and let go.

UncutRealness1 · 2025-02-02T17:45:14+00:00

Love a forum like this where guys can ask an honest question and get legit and helpful feedback without the egotistical bashing. This is dope fellas.

All_I_Wanna_Do_Is_Fk · 2025-02-02T16:21:44+00:00

Eat it like you’re eating a super ripe mango.

Embarrassed_Peace277 · 2025-02-02T19:52:16+00:00

-When you’re fingering use your palm or thumb to stimulate her clit, like a see saw motion.

-When eating a girl out suck it whilst licking/moving your head and the sensation will resemble a vibrator.

-When inside her, use all of what you have - as deep as comfortably possible, and slow. When she gives cues or she’s getting wet you speed up.

-If you’re in doggy for example reach around and rub her clit - it’s rare for guys to do this and many girls require clit stimulation to orgasm. This will make the experience memorable.

-Don’t be afraid to pick her up or move her into a position. If she’s into you already and wants to submit she will react very positively to this. Same with light choking, spanking etc. Just make sure it’s verbally consented that this is the thing she’s into.

notsofastmyfriends · 2025-02-02T16:12:18+00:00

seduce her mind, dude

OberonZahar · 2025-02-02T16:51:47+00:00

Make her confident and feel safe. Girls who are comfortable achieve orgasms easy because they're in the mood. Girls often find pressure in sex and their bodies which blocks them from the whole experience. Too mental and less physical.

smolspag · 2025-02-02T16:17:18+00:00

oral but u have to suck on the clit. most men ive met just lick it but the trick is to suck and use the tongue to change the pressure! had someone go down on me like that and my mind was blown🤯🤤

Swingers_R_Us · 2025-02-02T16:31:18+00:00

Listen to them. Learn from them. Read their bodies and adapt.

Practice more.

They'll know the best way to get the best orgasm and it's hot talking about it and figuring it out.

dsvengalis · 2025-02-03T00:10:52+00:00

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Sora1499 · 2025-02-03T01:58:15+00:00

I figured out this neat little trick where you can stimulate her butthole, clitoris, and vaginal cavity at the same time. Basically you finger her with your index and middle fingers from behind, then spread out your hand so that your pinkie is on her clit and your thumb is on the outside of her butthole. The only motion you need to worry about is thrusting into her vagina, the rest takes cares of itself. At an advanced level you can put a bit of pressure on her clit and asshole with your thumb and pinkie, or even make little circles.

Give it a try, it's a lot of fun :)

jackzander · 2025-02-02T16:25:43+00:00

Learn how to give a good shoulder rub. Not because it seduces them, but because it teaches you patience, touch and body listening.

Different women need different things to orgasm, but if you can't listen and intuit another body, you'll be flailing in the dark.

hoopla2048 · 2025-02-03T00:20:20+00:00

Every woman I have been with has been very different. One liked being fucked hard and fast, so when I started dating a new girl I tried the same thing and she immediately told me to slow down. Every woman is different.

I had a partner who would orgasm after like 3 minutes of being touched. It was absurdly easy. I had another partner who's needs changed every other week. Sometimes she needed oral, sometimes a reach around, sometimes missionary.

Pay attention to your partner's body language and see what they react too. Did her breathing pick up from having her nipples sucked? Keep doing it then. Just don't assume you know what you're doing and be aware of her signals.

Smitty-TBR2430 · 2025-02-02T16:29:16+00:00

Every woman is different; what works on one may not work on another.

In my 50+ years of being sexually active and having sex with well over 250 women (I’m 67), I can confidently say the vast majority of women prefer

1) doggy style; 2) getting eaten out; 3) a vibrator; 4) a fat dick more so than a long dick.

to get her to the big O.

Once you get a woman in the sack, listen to her and follow her cues.

ThrowRA_typicalAnon · 2025-02-02T16:24:11+00:00

Watch some Stirling Cooper

I've applied his taco eating strategy with great success

norwegiandoggo · 2025-02-02T16:23:15+00:00

Giving oral is the way - and vibrators

DrinksAreOnTheHouse · 2025-02-02T19:38:54+00:00

Take your time.

BabaSupe · 2025-02-03T05:00:09+00:00

Damn I’ve been going from Point 1, straight to Finish her 🥲🥲🥲

Aggravating-Bar-9301 · 2025-02-02T16:13:39+00:00

Oral. Being good at oral sex is a superpower.

nighthunterrrr · 2025-02-02T16:13:16+00:00

Eat her out

hop145 · 2025-02-02T16:16:15+00:00

Bite her neck

coolreg214 · 2025-02-02T19:44:22+00:00

Don’t interrupt.

RalfMurphy · 2025-02-03T03:30:35+00:00

Bubble bath and massage beforehand

Huge_Shower_1756 · 2025-02-03T08:51:27+00:00

Making a girl cum with your cock is all about the "experience". Choking, smacking ass, being rough (to the degree that she's comfortable) turns almost all girls on. It's also not as much about the Rick itself but the man that the dick is attached too. A girl is way more likely to cum if she's super attracted to you so inner game helps a lot here. Now making a girl cum from sex can be hard to do. But if you want to guarantee she orgasms just give her head. You can learn to give good head from a YouTube video it's super easy.

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-02-03T19:46:32+00:00

It’s very emotional for a girl. She basically has to let go. Or have emotions tied up in it to make it realy intense. To give her more though you need to give a lot in bed. Put your own interest to the side.

Puzzleheaded_Bid8087 · 2025-02-02T17:52:52+00:00

My friend, COMMUNICATION, and mostly from her side.

All women are different, one of my all time favourite could only come if I bit her clit. If you do that to any other girl you will get slapped.

southernatty · 2025-02-02T19:34:38+00:00

I love how it’s mostly men explaining how to make a woman cum. 🤣

I would love to hear what the ladies have to say.

Extension-Reality-80 · 2025-02-02T17:46:24+00:00

Have a thick d!ck, but women will always comfort you for not having one and you will get downvoted and freud will be mentioned in the replies.

Bad-Lieutenant95 · 2025-02-02T18:26:49+00:00

Last longer LOL

TractorLoving · 2025-02-03T02:33:31+00:00

Tell her the entire backstory of Barack Obama, that should really get her in the mood

Title	What are some of the best practices or tips to give a girl great orgasms?
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Date	February 2, 2025 4:07 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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