Is “hey, you’re sexy asf” too aggressive of an opening for day

Yaskueforeverbang4kt · 2025-04-15T22:39:18+00:00

Jesus Christ. Let’s try, “Hey I really like your outfit it gives off good vibes, so what’s your name.”

PrinceDestin · 2025-04-15T22:50:56+00:00

Try it on 30 women and let us know

Kylearean · 2025-04-15T22:32:12+00:00

Never compliment appearance -- compliment choices and values.

squidguy_mc · 2025-04-15T22:29:27+00:00

everydayguy_ · 2025-04-15T23:10:38+00:00

If you approach like Johnny Bravo you’ll get Johnny Bravo’s results.

Try and increase your social awareness. It is a built in feature to some degree but just try and expand on it.

I’m all for being upfront and honest but there’s ways to go about it , this instance not being one of them

Visualize_ · 2025-04-15T23:05:41+00:00

Probably a little too aggressive for daygame but it could work on many girls. It also could piss off a lot of girls lol

luciclover · 2025-04-15T23:16:26+00:00

Meh, it’s a pretty average opening for guys

Smitty-TBR2430 · 2025-04-15T22:51:02+00:00

The line isn’t too aggressive; the problem is it’s too common.

The “You’re cute” line and derivations of it, “you’re pretty,” “you’re attractive,” “you’re sexy,” are lines she hears all too frequently.

F’n come up with something original, guys!

creamymangosorbet · 2025-04-15T23:20:56+00:00

I would be down, it would make me laugh

korjo00 · 2025-04-15T23:43:20+00:00

Yea unless you're top 0.01% in looks

Bandaka · 2025-04-15T23:37:56+00:00

It’s not what you say but how you say it. Say it with confidence and it will probably work.

bannedcanceled · 2025-04-15T23:49:20+00:00

Maybe at a raging spring break party but not anywhere else

DrinksAreOnTheHouse · 2025-04-15T23:55:24+00:00

Whats wrong with you? You’re overcompensating with something aggressive because you think being a normal person isn’t interesting enough for her. No dont start like that. Try “Hi, I’m [name]. How are you? Having a good weekend?”

sefan78 · 2025-04-16T00:01:30+00:00

Please try it and report back lmfao

Excellent-Archer-238 · 2025-04-16T00:09:48+00:00

It depends if you are very hot or not. You could get away with it if you are. If you are just a decent looking or average guy, would probably be too agressive.

Avanni24 · 2025-04-16T00:28:15+00:00

subtlety can work in your favor

CharmingRejector · 2025-04-16T00:44:34+00:00

No. It depends upon delivery and context.

Mr_Dixon1991 · 2025-04-16T01:01:44+00:00

Yeah, that's pretty cringe. Do not comment on their physical appearance for an opener.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-04-16T01:52:21+00:00

It could work if you're really high status or chiseled like a Greek god. For anyone else, probably not.

Dandys3107 · 2025-04-16T07:02:41+00:00

It is not really congruent with the usual closed off context of school/job. Also, it gives away power dynamics to the girl instantly, which is not good if you want to lead an interaction. Instead, try to warm her up a bit and take some time for her to get comfortable with your presence, you can always come more bold when she reciprocates. Also, if you prefer this straightforward attitude, maybe you should opt for a quick night game pickup?

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-04-16T07:28:20+00:00

Openers lie on a spectrum from direct to indirect. Yours is really really direct, unsuitable for daygame situations. Daygame openes see the most success in the cold read direct to situational opener ranges. However, iyour opener will work for nightgame.

epimpstyle · 2025-04-16T11:16:04+00:00

If you're aiming for efficiency, don't do this—the chances of messing up by saying this are huge. But if you're just curious about her reaction, then go ahead.

carlos11111111112 · 2025-04-16T15:02:08+00:00

If it’s calibrated. This will not be effective on plain women w boring personalities. But outgoing cute chicks will be more into

WachanIII · 2025-04-17T11:23:49+00:00

Too aggressive

JackSquirts · 2025-04-17T12:46:22+00:00

Depends. To a random stranger who's shown little to no interest - yes. To some girl who's giving you wild looks and following you around like a lost puppy - maybe not.

NoargFrameston · 2025-04-17T13:29:59+00:00

This is one of those where delivery is more important than the words 😅 so it depends

I've opened girls with "Who the fuck are you?" (flirty but serious) when my momentum was high. Reality is it doesn't matter what you say in the beginning and you'll get to a point when neither you nor the girl you just hooked up with remembers what you said at the beginning 😂 so have fun!

tacoman0077 · 2025-04-15T22:42:45+00:00

Calibration my dude.

If she’s walking down the street with sass wearing red high heels and a mini skirt… go for it.

If she’s walking down the street wearing a cardigan, reading a book and wearing glasses… maybe not.

Title	Is “hey, you’re sexy asf” too aggressive of an opening for day
Author	ConnectionSame5401
Upvotes	9
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Date	April 15, 2025 10:28 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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