You should never ask a woman on a dating site what she's looking for. It's a silly question, as the answer is always the same as the underlying message.

1). Any woman is always looking for care, attention, and love.

2). Some women may be looking for a husband or a long-term partner.

3). Some women may be looking for sex or physical pleasure, but they will never say it directly.

4). Some women may be looking for financial benefits in some form. Even so, always refer to point 1.

All answers to the question "What are you looking for?" will fall within this framework, with various variations. There is no need to ask something that is already well known.