Married 2.5 years, together 6 years. Nothing toxic in the relationship, in fact she’s a good person. We’ve grown apart in some ways and I’m simply not feeling it anymore and don’t want to try. The temptation of other women is high and I crave that excitement. I also just want to be selfish and not coordinate life with her anymore. I feel like it was a mistake to get legally married as it’s really just a liability since I’ve decided recently I don’t want kids. She said she is ok with that but I don’t feel comfortable with her just giving in to no kids. Although, she never was super enthusiastic about kids. We have no shared assets besides pets. I feel extreme guilt for breaking her heart and dissolving the future she envisioned for us. This is selfishly about me, but I do think her life could be better someday with someone who can appreciate her more than me.

How can I be ok with this? She wants to try and wants more answers, but I simply don’t want to try and I’m just ready to be single again.

Mostly venting but am curious about your thoughts . Thanks