A lot of people on here mistake porn scenarios, or common movie/TV tropes for real life occurrences. Many ideas on sex or companionship are based on what has been seen online, and not on what has been experienced out in the real world.

I've had at least a few people tell me that they seriously believe that women date guys with small dicks just to cuck them and humiliate them. Now, does this happen? I'm sure it does, but holy shit, this is absolutely not the norm. It's also incredibly funny just how many !ncels are too far gone into cuck scenarios; I did not think of the other people my ex-gf has kissed or fucked when I was with her, the same way her current boyfriend will not think of me when he kisses her or fucks her. I don't imagine my partner leaving me for a "more worthy man", or cucking me with him. These are not normal thoughts, !ncels are fundamentally damaged people consumed by self-loathing and vitriol.

A lot of people on here veritably notice that women tend to not marry the guys they date in high school/uni, and often have different tastes to what they enjoyed when they were younger. Does this mean all women are whores throughout uni? Fuck no; and following that line of reasoning, men must be whores too. The type of woman I like now is not the type I liked when I was in high school. I'd be surprised if my taste in women stays the same 10 years in the future. Are there some women who practice AF/BB? Sure, but for most people, having unnaturally high body counts is not the norm, and most people aren't marrying chump placeholders.

No, most men don't want pornstar models with zero body hair and 'headphone waists'. No, most women don't want 6'4" lumberjack billionaires with rippling muscles and <10% body fat. Does this mean most people are attracted to overweight uggos? Also no, why is everything on an extreme end? Now, are there people who are attracted to the supposed "pinnacles of beauty and sexual dimorphism'? Yes, but most folks aren't strictly attracted to these people.

Are there some hookups which are 'porn-style' sex? Sure, some people have that, because statistically, there have to be some cases that are indeed true to the fantasy. That being said, I can assure you, hookups don't usually go that way. Porn or media tropes that glorify casual hookup sex aren't generally representative of the truth. Hookups often involve an absence of sobriety in some capacity, and are usually a spur of the moment type thing, not founded on unrelenting passion. It's more of a "eh, this will do", than "holy fuck I NEED this".