Your Volume Sucks

FearInoculumTool · 2026-01-22T12:19:28+00:00

Utter and total bullshit. When will you guys understand that normal, well adjusted men are getting girlfriends and getting laid without having to a fraction of the silly stuff you need to do to just get a number?

Mass approaching is NOT NORMAL. It’s weird. And most importantly - it DOESN’T WORK! Do you know how I know? Because I’ve done it all. And if you guys were actually getting laid and getting girlfriends from mass approaching, you wouldn’t have the time or inclination to be doing thousands of approaches. The very fact that you NEED to do thousands of approaches is a sign that you are undesirable and that you have no other way of meeting women other than being a creepy PUA bothering women on the street.

I know it’s an ego gut punch, but just bend over and take it like a man. Instead of being a needy and desperate creep who badgers any mildly attractive woman with your “game”, why don’t you try to be a normal guy who likes himself and believes he is hot and desirable. Who doesn’t need to badger women, but rather think of himself as doing any particular woman a favor by talking to her.

Your neediness is driving you to mass approach and having to mass approach signals that you are undesirable male. Doing more of the stuff that makes you look desperate and undesirable will not yield different results.

RewardImpressive4437 · 2026-01-22T00:39:49+00:00

Will do, cap'n 🫡

Change2222 · 2026-01-22T01:04:25+00:00

Complete nonsense. In fact volume is usually one of the bigger problems lol. Bros are going out in nyc complaining about being 3000 sets deep with 1 lay with a 4/10.

Length of time in set is whats important. Better to be in one or two sets and talk with them the whole night rather than get rejected in 2 seconds and spam approach the whole bar. If you can’t hook consistently, volume isn’t your problem, your opener is coming off too threatening/sexual and you have nothing of value to offer.

Ok-Orange7146 · 2026-01-22T01:43:20+00:00

You’re 100% right. People make too many excuses though.

PieceOfDatFancyFeast · 2026-01-22T21:32:59+00:00

Spoken like a man who is constantly trying (unsuccessfully) to prove his own masculinity to himself

Dramatic_Test_5285 · 2026-01-22T05:05:52+00:00

I blame a lot of it on social media like you suggested and being inside on screens too long.

They don’t approach at all. Everyone is afraid of being creepy, weird, rejected, or having their insecurities confirmed.

They complain about dating apps, instagram, modern women and the top 10% of guys banging all the women or whatever the fuck.

They take 1 or 2 bad experiences of rejection and embarrassment, blow it up into a defining experience, bitch about it online in an echo chamber and boom. There. We have a large population of young men who have low self esteem and no social skills.

It’s hard to give pick up advice to people who are permanently not even engaging in the game and then complain that they are losing.

Makakka2002 · 2026-01-24T00:02:06+00:00

Game is too complex and nuanced for these commandments…everyone needs to find his own game

its22K · 2026-04-05T18:19:45+00:00

game is bullshit. love and attraction is a nature thing and gaming nature only works if it benefits nature itself.. if you are getting laid and having meaningful relationships, and have multiple fwbs then .. why is there a need to keep getting better at game or seduction... its all utter bullshit*t you can't fool women into thinking they need to sleep with you... desire is created when a woman senses she has something to learn or gain from you.. and there are too many variables to game the nature of how desire works in women unless you have a vagina yourself and have been harassed and cat called by men since you were a child.

theadoringfan216 · 2026-01-22T03:34:19+00:00

I think my current 1-2 a day is the best for consistency.

You CAN do more and its better to do more but 1 or 2 a day on girls you have GENUINE desire for I don't go for less than 6.5/10 I feel it is the best approach for most guys

basafo · 2026-01-22T15:35:30+00:00

This is an ad. Report.

trdcr · 2026-01-22T13:18:24+00:00

Couldn't agree more, based post.

YaNeverKnowLevi · 2026-01-22T17:03:59+00:00

im a grown ass man i don't got time for allat fr

AdorableLecture_420 · 2026-01-22T19:16:08+00:00

I mean he does have a point, in saying that if you do want a girlfriend, it is a numbers game. So it makes sense that if you approach a bunch of a girls you are bound to hit something.

Lonely-Egg7876 · 2026-01-23T15:12:43+00:00

Yeah I agree with this take a massive amount of dudes who don't get any play basically never talk or flirt with any new women . To be good at the thing you need to do the thing . In this case flirting , learning how to escalate etc .

Hot-Damage1172 · 2026-01-22T04:43:50+00:00

I am getting no GF at 5'9" barefoot bud.

Title	Your Volume Sucks
Author	Awkward_Freedom_4551
Upvotes	36
Comments	73
Date	January 22, 2026 12:02 AM UTC (6 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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