How do I become a top notch fuckboy?

EvadingTaxes · 2026-07-06T15:40:21+00:00

Love the game
Love yourself
Love your life
Bring that energy into EVERY interaction

-> Positive energy will bring positive interactions. Positive interactions bring positive momentum. Positive momentum brings positive energy. It’s a cycle.

Since girls feel the energy you’re giving off (positive, loving life, loving yourself, attracted to you) and mirror it, they will automatically feel drawn to you

Key-Proud · 2026-07-06T15:31:06+00:00

U screwed up already by calling them 10s ... that puts them on pedestal. - they are drawn to guys who dont put them on a pedestal.

ChicoBrillo · 2026-07-06T15:46:00+00:00

known but little acknowledged fact about guys who fuck a lot: they aren't only fucking 10s. Guys I've known who were bagging hotties were also bagging 3s. Sex addiction is a hell of a drug

Chemical_Custard6365 · 2026-07-06T17:28:41+00:00

Honestly bro, Two Shots of Hennessey or take some emoxypine/mexidol, Until you acclimate to the game, Use Chat GPT to figure out a hairstyle, Get some dior sauvage parfum, Iron your clothes, whiten your teeth, Looking good and smelling good is 80%, The Liquid courage or mexidol will give you the balls, Now u just gotta flow.

water_reducer · 2026-07-06T16:47:14+00:00

how do i become a billionaire?

i want to approach the 1,000,000,000s only and live life this way.

i want zero hardships, friction in finances from my outer self.

Total_Obligation_371 · 2026-07-06T16:54:37+00:00

As a pickup coach who has been approaching for over 10 years, over 200 notch count, lived in 7 different major US cities (and visited several others, including in other countries), it is extremely difficult/rare to hook up with 9's and 10s just from cold approach.

Not only is the confidence level required a lot higher, but the guys you are competing with for her attention are also generally higher smv. Combine that with the fact that all the very attractive girls in any city are usually scooped up by the high status / rich / well connected guys in that city, it's very hard to actually hook up with those girls from purely cold approach. It can be done, but if you only go after the nines and tens and you don't have a lot of experience before that with other girls, you might literally never hook up with one or hook up with maybe one or two a year even if you're approaching in high volume. Here's my personal percentages:

80% of my lays, the girl is roughly a 7 15% of my lays, the girl is roughly an 8 5% of my lays, the girl is higher than an 8

The exact percentages differ a little bit from guy to guy depending on their own smv, how good they are, what city / country they are in etc, but the overall trend is the same. Most hookups are with girls who are around a seven, a lower number is with girls who are around an 8, and every you once in awhile (I'm talking a handful of times per year) the girl is extremely attractive. And this is for guys who are GOOD. If you're just starting out or are intermediate level, hooking up with a 9 or 10 will be even more rare or possibly never happen at all.

It sounds like you're more in the beginner category so I would recommend not even worrying about 9s and 10s right now. You have to solidify your skill set first.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-07-06T15:29:27+00:00

What have you tried so far? Nothing? Let us know where / how you fail and maybe we can actually give some input.

Also understand it's a skill. You have to start at the noob level just like everyone else. You don't just become an NBA all star from day 1. Start trying to bang the uggos / mid options you could feasibly bangg, and move your way up from there gradually

Aktive_IV · 2026-07-06T21:30:28+00:00

Just stick to approaching 10’s don’t divert, practice your game daily, dress up to par daily, stay hydrated daily, keep a fade at all times, hit the gym daily, talk to people everywhere you go, you gotta always maintain the momentum sometimes I got comfortable & wouldn’t approach when I hit a baddie but that’s where u need to do it the most bc your only as good as your last broad.. have homies u can go out w a pull it show u got social proof, as well as cold approach or casual convos w them it’s how u turn the conversation into a pick up at that point.. anyway I’m sure u get it at this point good luck brother

Pristineonk · 2026-07-06T16:32:48+00:00

pushpull? ("you and me wouldn't get along" and 'you look like trouble' is the "game" part of Todd V's conversations with girls, really. The rest is just usual small talk convo

Matter_Still · 2026-07-07T00:27:49+00:00

So, essentially you’re asking people you know nothing about to give you a hack to quiet the mind’s chattering: a skill Buddhist monks practice years to obtain.

They aspire to this for the end of enlightenment. You want to still the mind’s static to fuck women.

That is so Mark Manson.

JoseMontonio · 2026-07-06T20:25:23+00:00

Approach women and tell them exactly what's on your mind- if you want casual sex with them, then let it be known. You'd be surprised how many are down with that

BayesianBits · 2026-07-06T19:27:46+00:00

Approach, approach, approach.

I_talk · 2026-07-06T19:18:35+00:00

Once you make them approach you, you win. Direct eye contact until they slap you is my go to

bishwhatdidusay · 2026-07-06T19:30:25+00:00

Keep writing fellas I'm taking notes

riordanajs · 2026-07-07T05:52:10+00:00

Do you now? Or do you want to stay in your comfortable identity and magically get girls sucking your dick? Do you want the identity or do you just want the result.

Consider what is the journey from who you are now to who you need to become. What you need to give up, what you need to sacrifice. What is your lifestyle in that situation?

It will clearly require a process. Are you ready to do the process, ready to fall in love with the process, without guaranteed outcome or progress? Just for the work itself?

Easiest way to get the result is to make money and buy hookers/sugarbabes. It’s not satisfying and not too easy, but easier that becoming a fuckboy.

Edit: every journey starts with the first step, what’s your first step?

Literally_Autistic · 2026-07-11T13:22:08+00:00

Your mindset is already good I reckon.

Fuckboys are a temptation to women. They’re like a piece of rich chocolate cake, not “good for you” but a treat that’s hard to resist.

So try to imagine what it takes to be that kind of man.

* Gotta be ripped. Girls may like men in all shapes, but if she’s treating herself she wants muscly arms and abs. And she wants to think you have stamina to fuck her all night so looking fit enough is a must.

* Confident, bordering on arrogant.

* Fuck good

* Don’t lie. Trust me you don’t want scorned women everywhere you go. Don’t oversell what you can offer.

* Control the frame always.

* Always be smiling. You don’t have to be broody and dangerous.

* Charm everyone.

* Escalate physically.

Just gotta put yourself out there until it feels natural. I recommend travel and hostels.

zerohelix · 2026-07-06T15:36:17+00:00

Be attractive
Don't be unattractive
Be rich

TBearYCF · 2026-07-06T22:22:17+00:00

Be confident.

Be direct in asking what you want.

Let women know what you’re about, unabashedly. To be a fuck boi you want to be the one they call to fuck. So you have to be top of mind for them when they want it. They need to know you’re available to deliver on what they want, when they want it - like Booty Call Doordash.

That means taking care of yourself, offering something different, and having some sort of feature about you they can tell their friends about… Whether it’s your job, your looks or any of your “talents.“

Above all, don’t seem like you’re disgusting and dirty. To be a fuck boi you have to be Knight on a White Horse in their eyes instead of some guy whose dick is so diseased it’s going to fall off.

MineDesperate2920 · 2026-07-07T00:42:03+00:00

Goodluck

IllllIlllIllllIlll · 2026-07-11T17:14:45+00:00

It sounds like your goals are unclear, so I would start by working on that.

Clarify what you mean by “top notch fuckboy.” That’s a big label to assign, so what aspects of being a fuckboy attract you to that culture?

You already mention some “0 hesitation approaches”, but I doubt that’s the whole deal for your entire image of a fuckboy - so I would clarify for your own sake, what it is that is attractive about a fuckboy, and work backwards from there.

When you say fuckboy, to me, that means you just want to dress like a zoomer. Many fuckboys do not approach and have no interest in learning how to do so.

So what does a fuckboy mean to you? Clarify

javierthhh · 2026-07-06T19:15:04+00:00

What people don’t talk about it’s the cost. Sure attitude matters but looks matter even more. Be at least 6 feet tall, keep 3 colognes in your car. $80 dollar haircut every week, you need to look the same every time. Black ripped jeans, white shirt or beater with black jacket on and white shoes. They have to be new as well none of that cleaning them bullshit so they look yellow. buy your white shoes and use them twice at most. Grow a beard. Keep yourself lean, clean and healthy. Every time you walk into a bar you need to be the best looking man there, otherwise look for another bar .

Title	How do I become a top notch fuckboy?
Author	Filthy_Asswipe
Upvotes	154
Comments	66
Date	July 6, 2026 3:27 PM UTC (1 month ago)
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