Women expect too much from men, but are not self aware of half of them, and then make statements like "the bar is so low of men", "a high value or too many is an average women", "being kind, good-looking, well settled is the bare minimum for a relationship".

Like these statements ignore or dismiss the gender norms places on the men and and ridiculing them for not meeting any standards.

Like a man has to be good looking, charming, funny, well settled, intelligent, confident, and more and it just gets more and more insane. Like having enough of these qualities is ok, but a man has to go above/beyond them to even standout and get a date. And most women are not all or even most of these and still expect the man to have most of them.

And having to here "bare minimum" statements, dismissing the efforts it is needed for men to get better without any feedback or guidance or anything, on top of other important things in life.

No wonder most guys are giving up/dropping out of dating.