Been 4 days since my wife lost her shit and took it out on the kids. Btw its hard calling her out when shes verbally abusive as my mr nice guy was verbally abusive towards her all these years. So I'm calling the kettle black i suppose. I've been trying to be a better person though i guess it still seems odd being called abusive from the person who'd lose their shit and call you names.

Yesterday the wife went into the basement to get the cloth diapers and change out laundry for 5min. Just she left the 1 and 2 year old upstairs. 2 yr old managed to drag a chair over to the oven turn it on and grabbed the element. He's alright just a few blisters. She didnt even come upstairs when she heard the chair dragging across the kitchen floor. I ended up calling her out and saying that was a poor parenting decision.

Total nuclear from the one comment. I'm her worst decision of her life she wants me to go file for divorce etc. She called my sil and mademe sound like i was the one losing my shit. I deered a little when I tried explaining how I'm going to protect the kids. I may have told her I recorded her which was a bluff. She asked if I was threatening her with taking the kids away. I responded im just saying I'll do what it takes to protect them. Then she brings out the big guns and calls her father and while crying tells him in going to take the kids from her.

I'm good though I didnt lose my shit at all i even made a joke about my worst decision was not having a cup a coffee in my hands.

We have a family get together in 10 days for a joint birthday party for 2 of our kids. How do i play it cool with the people she's made me out to be a monster to? The fil is pretty intimidating but i feel he cares for his grandchildren too.