Been skimming some red pill material for awhile and i just dont understand. Me and my wife have arguments over some of the stuff you guys discuss every day, but its not very frequent. Im not in super great shape any more (was in Army 4 years) or super dominating or go out and flirt with girls on the street or any of that jazz. Im not an overdominating presence but definetly dont consider myself "Beta". Bottom line is im honestly curious as to WHY i see so many people diving headfirst into such hardcore changes in their relationship, i see lots of advice given and im wondering does this work for people? I understand every marriage has a different dynamic but applying some of this advice would surely be suicide to their relationship for some right? Not being an ass im truley curious, maybe my marriage just isnt at a point where changes like this would help any?