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Girlfriend wants to go clubbing wearing suggestive clothes

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July 4, 2019

My girlfriend of almost half a year wants to go clubbing with her friends, I have no problem with this but when I asked her what type of clothes she’s going to be wearing she sent me a picture of her club outfit

It was basically A BRA (the third one in the pic) and ripped jeans.

I told her I wouldn’t like her wearing this out especially since I’m not going to be there and there are a lot of guys who will be looking at her, then asked who is she trying to impress, to which she replied “literally no one”.

She’s not the type to cheat but i question why girls wear these type of clothes even though they’re in a relationship

Should I try talking to her again but more firmly?

EDIT: When I last talked to her about this we had a small argument and after she said “I like it when you get protective”

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Title Girlfriend wants to go clubbing wearing suggestive clothes
Author anndawaywethrow
Upvotes 97
Comments 210
Date 04 July 2019 04:46 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]HaroldTFinch203 points204 points  (22 children) | Copy

Answer her saying I liked having a girlfriend, but some things don't work for me. It's not something I envision. Thanks for telling me. It was nice.

[–]hiem3w71 points72 points  (3 children) | Copy

Basically this

You told her you don’t want her wearing that, she’s doing it anyway. That is disrespectful to you.

Idk what that “I like it when you’re overprotective” line is about but it’s probably verbal affirmation so you show you’re more invested in caring about whatever the fuck she’s doing and she doesn’t have to worry about you leaving her.

Good luck

[–]ZeppKfw6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

I think she lost a little respect to OP when she said that.

[–]babybopp42 points43 points  (1 child) | Copy

"she is not the type to cheat.."

Pussy glorification 101

[–]omega_dawg9324 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy

mofos forget... AWALT.

[–]anndawaywethrow[S] 10 points11 points  (17 children) | Copy

Is this to get a reaction out of her?

[–]aldomendez145 points146 points  (6 children) | Copy

Let me ask you something. If you tell her no again and she wears it anyway, do you still want continue the relationship?

[–]slendertoast63 points64 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is the one and only question you should be asking yourself.

[–]Monkitail15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

op if you say no make sure to pass on the contact deets to the rest of us. I like sluts

[–]HurricaneHugues12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

He shouldn't even have to address it. A girl who's in a relationship should know better. That's an sutomatic next or demotion of status

[–]Project_Zero_Betas1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

A girl who's in a relationship should know better.

Agreed. If he was going with her and she wanted to wear that it be one thing, but fact that she's going without him and is wearing underwear is a definite red flag.

[–]juliusstreicher26 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy

One time should be enough when it comes to her dressing like a slut.

[–]DopeMeme_Deficiency0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If the answer is yes, ask yourself if you'll want to consider it as she becomes more distant and busy, and then eventually tells you she's been cheating on you with Sven

[–]Vipe77781 points82 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just a tip;

She’s not the type to cheat

Every girl will cheat under the right circumstances

[–]HaroldTFinch45 points46 points  (4 children) | Copy

You have what they call oneitis and you have minimal frame. I'm telling you to stop the relationship before she disrespects you more by shagging random guys at the club because she knows you are wrapped around her finger

[–]SidMRP 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

What about if married

[–]somboodee36 points37 points  (0 children) | Copy

What the fuck is a married woman doing still going to clubs? You fucked up marrying that type.

[–]HaroldTFinch8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy



[–]RX0II2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

What about if married

Divorce now or divorce later. Choice is yours.

[–]ZeppKfw13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bro if you're scared to walk away then you've already lost the battle. I suggest re reading the sidebar if that's the case.

[–]RX0II2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I have no problem with this

You are insane. If you want a plate or open relationship, have one, but don't pretend this is acceptable behavior from a monogamous (faux monogamous) relationship.

[–]CasaDeFranco1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The cold hard truth is no woman worth dating would even consider such immodesty.

State, it just isn't working, and you have different expectations and that's okay.

She will know it's because of this but it really isn't, it's the lack of consideration, her lack of respect in her response, and generally her approach to signal attraction to other men whilst being in a relationship.

[–][deleted] 115 points116 points  (2 children) | Copy

Girls worthy of LTR don't do that.

You don't try and change peoples behavior. You shouldn't have to "set boundaries" for obviously poor behavior.

As always, observe and act accordingly.

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy

I wish to validate you with a comment of affirmation. Here it goes. Yes fellow red piller, I concur.

[–]HurricaneHugues1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Big facts

[–]MasterShake77742 points43 points  (2 children) | Copy

If you don't tolerate it then tell her. If she does it anyway then walk away. You could possibly plate her down the line but really be ready to leave her

[–]HurricaneHugues12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

He shouldn't have to tell her to not be a loose slut. That's Relationship 101.

[–]MasterShake7774 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

i luv loose slootz doe

[–]PolesWithGoals32 points33 points  (19 children) | Copy

Break it off if she goes forward with it. Not cool

[–][deleted] 54 points55 points  (18 children) | Copy

Demote her to fuck buddy. Lie “you’re right maybe I should experience the club scene too” then come in with a “I’m so young and I feel like I need to find myself” she’ll keep riding you, other dudes too, but dressed like that, it was already going to happen.

[–]PolesWithGoals35 points36 points  (13 children) | Copy

One of OPs posts was about how his GF wanted to wait until marriage... then she pulls this shit

[–][deleted] 26 points27 points  (11 children) | Copy

Well he popped her cherry and she must have just thought “fuck it I didn’t wait until marriage” a lot of girls I’ve noticed will just go full whore unless their first boyfriend can pass shit tests.

[–]PolesWithGoals14 points15 points  (9 children) | Copy

Yeah, I can personally relate. Girl I know went down that route. She was wife material before

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (7 children) | Copy

A lot of them are. Then their cherry gets popped and no hymen no diamond.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas-1 points0 points  (6 children) | Copy

Retardedly insecure.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

You would marry a used woman? Used woman for life. Some dude can walk up to you and tell you all about how he fucked your wife, before you.

Oh god you probably already did it and this is just a defense mechanism. You fuck whores, you only marry virgins if at all. And you certainly don’t do it until you fuck whores. So later in life you get to walk up to some cuck and tell him all about how good his wife was at sucking dick in highschool.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

You would marry a used woman? Used woman for life.

LMFAO if you think a girl having more than 1 dick before you means she's a "used" woman. Grow the fuck up.

Some dude can walk up to you and tell you all about how he fucked your wife, before you.

"I fucked her first." "I fucked her last."

Oh god you probably already did it and this is just a defense mechanism.

Did what? Sex with a non-virgin? Yes, considering you only find virgins in high school, I do my best to stay away from statutory rape charges. Sorry not sorry.

You fuck whores, you only marry virgins if at all. And you certainly don’t do it until you fuck whores. So later in life you get to walk up to some cuck and tell him all about how good his wife was at sucking dick in highschool.

There is something legitimately wrong with you.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

You married a whore and she fucked alphas in high school. If you weren’t retarded the message you’d have had from that is that we aren’t in a k breeding period in history, so you don’t get married unless it’s to a woman in another country 18-22 probably. You fuck whores to spread your seed, you don’t marry them. You should just change your name to “Beta” the rest is unneeded.

[–]brabg2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is why this:

She’s not the type to cheat

Is delusional

[–]Autistic_Reeeeeeeeee1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

God I was so lucky. My dad instilled this into at a young age.

He didn't know anything about shit tests but he was a fucking natural at deflecting them.

Lead to a really great LTR kids and a solid family unit.

Thinking back a teenage girls whole personality revolves around shit tests.

[–]Standgrounding2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Complimentary AWALT in here

[–]Pimpcool42015 points16 points  (3 children) | Copy

This is a good line.

I kinda fucked up a bit with one like this. I found out she was hanging out with her ex and ended it and immediately had some rebound dates with my ex. I SHOULD have just said something like "oh yeah OK cool I'll chill with my ex too, she's so nice, ya'll should meet" because I could've probably kept her as a plate for longer instead of clean break.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (1 child) | Copy

You’ll learn bro. Just don’t ever tell a bitch what your plans are. They love mysteries and it gives you more options. If she cheated on you though it might not even we worth the ego blow to keep fucking her, especially if there’s feels. I don’t think anyone just “hangs out” with their ex.

[–]Pimpcool4205 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

In this case I had it good for a while; my "dread" was based on the fact that I've had multiple healthy relationships but I was her "first real boyfriend". I'd basically alpha-widowed my ex while her dude was a not-approved-by-parents rich dude who'd buy her weed.

But my thing with the exes parallels this situation. She hinted that she'd be doing something unacceptable, I asked for a little more details just to verify that she was truly not LTR material. However, OP knows about this thing BEFORE it happens and I was finding out after-the-fact. The soft ultimatum and turning her into a plate is the best way to salvage the situation rather than the hard-next (he can hard-next later when he's tired of her).

[–]HurricaneHugues1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not worth it. The disrespect is not to be tolerated. Don't give cheating whores access to you.

[–]CaptainKidd9665 points66 points  (3 children) | Copy

Dude, if she's going to the club without you while wearing that, it's pretty much over. Sure you can still continue the relationship but it's pretty clear that she's looking for something better.

Judging by the tone of this post, you aren't really red pill aware, otherwise I don't understand why you would even be asking this question.

Your gf is basically looking to get fucked by another, more attractive guy.

[–]_Last_Man_Standing_18 points19 points  (1 child) | Copy

Your gf is basically looking to get fucked by another, more attractive guy.

excellent summary...
she's already gone... OP should next...

[–]babybopp8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why.."she is not the type to che..."

Lol I couldn't even say this with a straight face.

[–]geo_gan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yep. The metaphor is she is currently reaching out from all the branches of her current tree trying to see if she can reach any branch of the next nearest tree

[–]aqua_puss29 points30 points  (4 children) | Copy

there's a post on the main TRP sub about letting your woman misbehave . i can't seem to put the link here .

you can search : Letting women misbehave .

If a woman wants a relationship with you, she’ll act like it. Women know how to be good girlfriends. Women know that good girlfriends don’t get dinner with their ex-boyfriends, stay late after work drinking one-on-one with a male coworker, or entertain probes for availability from a dozen different guys in their phone while they sit on your couch. If a woman is doing this, this isn’t due to your failure to set ground rules and enforce boundaries. This isn’t due to her “disrespecting” you. This is happening simply because she doesn’t want to be your girlfriend, so she’s not acting in a way to try to win you over. She’s content with where things are now, whether that’s casual sex, friendship, or something else. If she wanted more, she’d act differently.

It’s okay if a woman doesn’t want to be your girlfriend. And it’s okay if she’s not girlfriend material. A man doesn’t have to judge her for that or get angry about it. He can just enjoy the sex. Enjoy the companionship. Even enjoy the friendship if he wants.

[–]SeasonedRP9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

This is exactly right. I see many posts where an LTR is misbehaving and the guy tries to rationalize and say she doesn't realize what she's doing or something to that effect. No, girls know how to act when they have a man they want to keep.

[–]aqua_puss9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah girls aren’t stupid . They know what they’re doing and getting into . Only us men , are sometimes deluded .

[–]MurkyArtichoke1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Very true. I see many times men who let their girlfriends do shit that's just not appropriate in a LTR. It's one thing to hangout with a guy-friend from work or an old friend on a few occasions, it's important to not be TOO protective, but if your gf decides to stay out late drinking with other dudes often then you need to hear the alarm ringing. I'm in the same social circle as one of my female colleagues, and she has a bf she lives with. He is a really intelligent guy, knows everything, but he is also kinda beta and not very attractive or muscular. He just doesn't get "jealous", which you could argue is a good trait, but it means he lets his gf do whatever she wants. And he is NOT the guy to have backups. I've seen this girl flirting heavily with other dudes late at night in bars. One time she sat for like 2hrs talking to this handsome mexican dude, and they flirted a lot. They added eachother on social media etc. Her bf had gone home a few hours ago and just left her there. I know from other mutual friends that she once cheated on a previous boyfriend when she was studying abroad. This relationship is just waiting to explode, i can tell she's looking to find someone more attractive.

[–]Cazken59 points60 points  (29 children) | Copy

Have u fucked your girlfriend yet?

[–]HaroldTFinch19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

Brutal! But good.

[–]anndawaywethrow[S] 18 points19 points  (27 children) | Copy

Yes, the first few months everything was going slow but after that we’ve done everything and have pretty frequent sexual activity

[–]Cazken86 points87 points  (25 children) | Copy

Ok good. I scrolled through your post history, luckily it’s not as bad it could be. Drop your girlfriend, she’s a hoe, and why the fuck would you ever commit at 19?

[–]Pimpcool42043 points44 points  (9 children) | Copy

Basically this. It feels patronizing but it's true. When you're 19 it feels emotionally good to have some exclusive lovey-dovey thing but you gotta be self-aware that it's an objectively bad idea and prepare for the end of it.

[–]juliusstreicher13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

This here. She isn't exclusive, and now it's showing, and getting ready to blow up.

[–]Pimpcool42019 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

OP should remember this "getting ready to blow up" line.

When you drop her you might expect full surprise and tears and desperation, but you also gotta prepare for the opposite (where she says "oh. this in the breakup? OK, cool, seeya"). Women's mental preparation doesn't always catch up to their questionable choices but sometimes it does (I've seen RP guys use the term "she's waiting for you to kill the puppy").

[–]VigilantSmartbomb4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’m just glad I realized she cheated on me before we got married. Lmao lives been good 👌🏽

[–]MaliciousMack5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'll be the one to disagree. Enjoy it for what it is. Just like plates, relationships aren't forever. Especially not at your age. It it bothers you, address it and drop her if she doesn't comply. Simple as that.

[–]Walkerstain0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

I know TRP says you should never commit, but for those who want to, what age should it be?

[–]omega_dawg937 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

minimum 33 but if you're going good on your job and might get promoted, i'd wait until after all that.

remember, THIS life is about YOUR happiness, your goals, & your legacy. the woman who gets to experience it all is lucky to be CHOSEN by you.

don't be the guy making $140,000 per year, homeowner, etc., that's begging some broke bitch (no job, no education, no plans... lives with roommates or parents) for a date because she's cute & has nice tits.

that bitch should be chasing him... damn near begging him for time.

[–]Hambone_Malone0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Pimpcool4200 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I think people say peak male attractiveness is mid-30s and for women it's early-20s.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

but for those who want to, what age should it be?

Whenever you find a high quality girl and are confident she'd make a good partner in raising kids. There's no hard-set age beyond what YOUR own maturity level is.

[–]teveza118 points9 points  (13 children) | Copy

Nothing wrong committing at 19, college age is when you have the most selection for someone who might eventually be your LTR.

With that said, only commit if the relationship is fucking good.

Be ready to walk away quick.

Not if she is clubbing while you sit at home like a sucker.

[–]Gr33d3ater1 point2 points  (10 children) | Copy

Eh no. Unless you both plan on getting jobs in the same town. Literally building both of your careers around each other’s career needs, effectively choking you both.

Best time is when you’re established in your career. And even then, why? Apart from getting lucky and having a wonderful family with a woman who’ll eventually look like an obese raisin, I don’t see the point.

[–]teveza110 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Best time is when you’re established in your career.

That's a beta provider, simp belief. Its best for a woman to love BEFORE you get rich.

[–]Gr33d3ater0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Okay, so you’re basically going to wife a woman while your SMV is at its lowest. Hm, good luck.

[–]teveza11-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

Okay, so you’re basically going to wife a woman while your SMV is at its lowest. Hm, good luck.

That's from a simp's point of view.

I don't need to have a lot of money to get a top notch girl. Some of you do though (and they end being gold diggers).

[–]Gr33d3ater0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Ehhh.. no. A hot woman can just as easily marry a rich man as a poor man. You have the “simp” view. Moron.

But, keep coddling your failures by telling yourself success is the fools game.

[–]teveza110 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You're hoping that your career will get you a hot girl someday.

Years from now, when you either don't get the hot girl, or you marry a gold digger, or she leaves you, I want you to know that I am laughing at you.

[–]teveza110 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Eh no. Unless you both plan on getting jobs in the same town. Literally building both of your careers around each other’s career needs, effectively choking you both.

Best time is when you’re established in your career.

All you talk about is "muh career" "her career" "jobs" "career needs"

You should be at "careerbuilder" subreddit.

[–]Gr33d3ater0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Uh, your life is your career. Not sure how old you are, but literally careers are sacrificed every day for “love”. It’s bullshit and ends in a decreased productivity potential for the nation.

[–]teveza110 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Uh, your life is your career.

The day you die, none of your coworkers are going to give a shit.

[–]Gr33d3ater0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

So? That’s not what I said. Idgaf about them either.

[–]teveza110 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Nobody will ever give a shit about your career, which, by your own words, is "your life."

[–]Cazken1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

You also have the highest chance of her cheating, lmao. College girls don’t stay loyal.

[–]teveza114 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

You also have the highest chance of her cheating, lmao. College girls don’t stay loyal.

Exactly. Which, ironically, makes college an even better time to vet for quality partners and to hone all of your skills with women.

[–]VigilantSmartbomb1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

19? Yoooooooooo lmao

[–]babybopp0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Dude when she wants attention and slitting it up,

She is looking for a new mate.

Showing you her outfit means she already thinks very low of you.

It is just a matter of time now. You will hear these words" I think we need to take some time apart, it's not you.."

If you want to nip this at the bud, you gotta fuck her best friend. You will placate her.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

almost half a year

Dude you're 6 4 months in, just hard next her. This isn't a serious relationship. You might think it is, but it's just not.

If she doesn't like this, just respond with something like what /u/HaroldTFinch said.

Then to clarify the reasoning, /u/aldomendez was spot on also.

[–]UrShadowsReflection15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol, a bra?

Alright, two things.

-For one, she's already outing herself as being undeserving of a relationship by even considering wearing something like that out. As your woman, she reps you whenever she steps into the public eye, and with that outfit she's advertising herself as "Single, and desperate for attention" She CLEARLY still hungers for the attention of other men, she's not trying to "impress" anyone.. but she damn sure is craving that Male attention.

-And for future reference.. this is a form of a shit test. Women always pay attention to how you react to them wearing suggestive clothing. You dont want her walking outside in booty shorts? She's going to assume you're insecure. If you try to hide her in any way from other men, she's going to chalk that up as you being insecure.

That's just how women operate. They want a man that feels superior to other men, not the other way around.

When your next girlfriend pulls something like this (hopefully not as severe) do your best to not give a fuck.

The golden mindset to have is to believe no man has what it takes to take your girl away from you. NEVER bring it to a women's attention that you are worried about other men.

BUT if you just cant trust your woman to behave around other men, you should probably get a new one.

[–]Ohboohoolittlegirl13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

All women are the type to cheat, never actually believe anything else or you are cheating yourself.

[–][deleted] 27 points28 points  (4 children) | Copy

This is either a shit test, or she’s a whore, or both. If she does this, she will cheat or might as well have. If you let your girlfriend go to a club at all without you, it’s not a good idea to take her seriously.

What is her body count?

[–]ogkushinjapan10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy

His posts history suggest he’s her first as “she initially wanted to wait till marriage” and they’re 19

[–]ZeppKfw11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

Oof. Pack it up boys, it's a case of oneitis. Case closed.

[–]babybopp5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy


She is not the type to

[–]mrp_awakening5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Total shit test IMHO. If she were planning on just slutting it up, she would. And she wouldn't tell OP or get him worried.

[–]Emerald__Faith17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

Look OP, This community teaches some principles such as

  • Let her actions speak, not her words
  • Never take what a woman says as valid logic

We teach this because, well she already showed you

I'm not trying to impress anyone

  • Then goes out wearing sexual clothing to a sex based business location ( club )

You've dated 6 months which means nothing to women, you basically dont even matter based on her actions

She already broke up with you

[–]3chazthundergut7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why do they do this? They live for this shit. And you just keep fucking up and giving her more and more attention.

Either set a boundary and enforce it or dont. Stop feeding into her drama

[–]TheNotoriousKing11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

She’s clearly trying to signal her SMV in an effort to get a better male to satisfy her hypergamy, I would just tell her “no girlfriend of mine does something like that” and if she still does it then leave her.

[–]Autistic_Reeeeeeeeee11 points12 points  (11 children) | Copy

Letting your girl friend at age 19 go clubbing without you. Bad move.

Letting her wear that. Bad move.

Not being completely direct with her about it. Bad move

You should have said. "You are not going out dressed like that if you wan't to be in a relationship with me".

if she does not take you seriously. She never will.

What you do then is up to you. But the answer is simple.

If you want this relationship to last lay down the foundations.

I don't know how many men have to make the mistake of being too lenient with their partners before everyone will catch on.

[–]teveza114 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

Letting your girl friend at age 19 go clubbing without you. Bad move.

lol, I admit, I had an ex girlfriend that would go clubbing with her friends without me.

What a sucker I was. I ended up catching her cheating on me and one of her friends admitted to me she cheated on me when she went clubbing as well.

[–]Pimpcool4202 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Most scatterbrained/ADHD/attention-seeking+rich girl I dated would never dare going out to bars while dating me. Even if I was unaware of being cucked by the ex she wouldn't have the audacity to go to clubs to my knowledge.

[–]teveza110 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, you are right. I admit I was a sucker for letting my ex go clubbing without me.

[–]BouncyShroom1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Not me, but my best friends girlfriend (which I was also friends with)

My buddy didn't like going clubs, so her gf and her friends used to go for "girls night out"

Gf met a new guy at the club, and so did her friend. She told me that she was cheating on him for a while after she broke up with my friend

[–]teveza110 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, that "girl's night out" is just asking to be cucked. I messed up doing this and learned from my mistake.

[–]HurricaneHugues0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

He should never have to verbalize it. You should never have to tell your gf to not dress like a slut

[–]Autistic_Reeeeeeeeee0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

You tell her once when you set the ground rules. How else is she supposed to know?

Most women do not grow up with strict fathers and come from good homes.

If you have to say it again. Thats when the problems begin.

[–]HurricaneHugues0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

That's exactly why most women are not fit to be girlfriends. It's not your job to teach them shit their parents should've taught them.

[–]Autistic_Reeeeeeeeee0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I get that but by doing that you pretty much write off 90% of the women in your view as LTR. If that is your goal then you need to in still those morals yourself. Only if you wan't to have a somewhat decent mother for your children. If you intend to have children.

[–]HurricaneHugues0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Ask around how that works for dudes who try to turn slurs into housewives

[–]Autistic_Reeeeeeeeee0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Oh, Theres no point dude.

I wasn't even considering women with any sort of N count in this equation.

If she has been clubbing and fucking around i wouldn't even consider her for an LTR.

I am talking about young blokes who still have access to 0 or low N count girls around their age.

Like in scenario OP as found himself in.

Who knows what her N count is though. If she want's to wear that to the club then probably too high.

[–]mrp_awakening5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I read it as a shit test. You failed because you gave a shit. If it wasn't a test and she were just a hoe, she wouldnt have bothered telling you. She'd go and cheat. She told you because she wanted to see if you'd rush in all "no no no" and you did. Good job, you mate guarded and failed.

You should have AA'd. Told her to wear a skimpier bra, shorter shorts, etc. I'd also mention casually a bit later (so it doesnt appear retaliatory or reactive) that you and (single friends name) are going to either a strip club or a bar/club known for its reputation as a pickup scene. The idea is to get her hamster spinning about you and she won't be looking for cock where shes at.

[–]All_fixed_again8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ask yourself this...if she is not selling anythibg then why is she advertising?

Dont listen to her words, watch her actions. Dressed like that, she is looking to attract a certain type of attention. If that attention arrives with a much higher SMV than are out the picture.

If that's what she wants then good for her, let her, you dont own her, but its probably not LTR material.

Downgrade to plate, ensure you do not invest in her emotionally

[–]HaroldTFinch6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't understand why you just don't do your thing. If she's doing her thing, it's her choice. You make your choice based on what your given. Because she's likely shopping herself around anyway. It's over. Understand that. Not today but soon as your alternate is established.

[–]Scott5554 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

I don't have any advice, just coming here to note she's not wearing that to attract other men, _directly_. She's doing it to establish her status among the friends she's going to the club with, and the other females at the club.

The argument can be made that the entire clubwear hierarchy is ultimately to attract mates to begin with, but that's a secondary downstream effect. Every stitch of clothing has been selected because it accentuates (or downplays) something relative to the other girls she's planning on being seen with.

[–]HurricaneHugues2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She's doing it to attract men. Shutb the fuck up.

[–]nicyhasreddit2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I know the answer already. I've seen this too many times here, Relayshensheeps and university confession pages. even if you go to bluepilled R Reelayshensheeps you will hear the same thing.

[–]teveza112 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I had a girl who did the same thing.

I thought I was a modern, non-jealous kind of a guy and that it was just a girl's night out.

To make a long story short, I caught her cheating on me.

The same night, I ended up talking to her friend about it and asked her to tell me the truth, whether or not this girl would cheat on me when they went clubbing, her friend told me she did. I did end up going to a party with her friend that night, but that is a little off topic.

Back to your question, she likes the attention the guys are giving her. It doesn't matter what clothes she is wearing, guys are going to give her attention when she goes clubbing. Guys are going to buy her drinks, give her flowers, tell her how hot she is, her and her friends are going to be basking in male attention while you sit at home.

My current girlfriend only goes clubbing with me. If she went clubbing with her friends, to be honest, I would start calling side girls and start looking for someone else for an LTR.

You're a sucker if you have a girlfriend and she goes clubbing without you.

If you tell her not to go clubbing, if she's not worth an LTR, she'll accuse you of being jealous, not trusting her, and all kinds of other stuff. If she IS worthy of an LTR, she will listen to you.

If she DOES go clubbing, don't break up with her or get angry, just play it off like you don't care, but start looking for another girl to replace her on the side.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You're a sucker if you have a girlfriend and she goes clubbing without you.

At our age, maybe, but OPs girl isn't even 20, I think people aren't accounting for that.

[–]SolidLiquidGasPlasma2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

You actually took a pic of your girlfriends clothes to send to a bunch of guys asking if it was okay if she wears them. That’s some cuck shit. If she wants to be hot let her be hot

[–]anndawaywethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

It was a pic I found online of a similar looking bra

[–]SolidLiquidGasPlasma0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It’s the style now a days, one of my plates just wore pasties to a pride hangout literally pasties and booty shorts idc even if she’s bi I had shit to do on red dead redemption GIRLS ARENT THE GOAL and I’m saying this with compassion dude I wasn’t calling you a cuck im saying this place isn’t a Bible first and foremost life’s about being happy, you yourself are in a relationship so this girl makes you happy but she sees it as you being unconfident if you say something about what she wears. Girls in rap videos? Worse. And they still get wifed up why? Cause I’m the 40s when women wore bathing suits it was unorthodoxed when really girls are sexy as fuck just let them be sexy and not worry about them we have a skyscraper to build. If you complain about what she wears she’s gonna wear it anyways but dance with some guy she feels dosnt care about what she looks like just wants what’s between her legs. A power move I would consider if she wears that just walk up to her and pull the back of her shorts up so her ass hangs out a little and smack that shit and tell her “that’s mine”

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (6 children) | Copy

You just failed a shit test. Did it feel good? Next time she says she wants to go to the club without you be blase and pretend your cool with it and start running dread. Prepare for a branch swing.... The club isnt a "hangout spot". If she liked booze and dancing with her girls a house party would be good or if they insisted club she would atleast take you to the club. Only reason to go to the club alone is too get hit on and scope out "drunken mistakes"...smh

[–]HurricaneHugues3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

That's beyond the point of dread. By her actions she showed who she is deep down. When stuff like this hsppens, you don't object to her going to the club, you just remove her from your life entirely while she's at the club.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah bit realistically these dudes who ask LTR questions dont read, and they prob have a scarcity mindset which means their LTR has to literally do porn before they dump her. Youre right....tho my response was the "diet" answer. Lmfao

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Next time she says she wants to go to the club without you be blase and pretend your cool with it and start running dread.

The issue isn't she wants a "girls night out" (I mean she's only 19 JFC do people in this sub forget what their circle of friends were like at that age?), it's that she wants to wear underwear at a spot with other guys where OP won't be. THAT'S the red flag, not her wanting to chill with friends.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Buddy im 20 turning 21. I am that age and thays a red flag. 16 is the new 21 and 21 is 27. Most chicks by 19 have had 3-7+ dudes (thats a very Conservative number not counting mega sluts who have fucked 30 dudes or move if you count BJ's) this isnt the 90s anymore. Im living it and my advice still stands. The very least she should have invited him out. Also the main issue here is hes in a LTR this young. I wouldnt even look at girls for LTR at this age. 90% of them are retarded children and the other 10% are still learning how to use makeup properly.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Buddy im 20 turning 21.

Then I yield to your half a decade of acquiring female wisdom.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You win. I give up.

[–]HotHead1213 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Come on man we all know thats your moms bra

[–]Project_Zero_Betas1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I laughed at OP posting a picture of the outfit, as if we don't know what a bra is.

[–]moderateVegan_AMA1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

We've all been there and wasted time with these hoes - and I wish I had someone tell me not to waste my time but I didn't. Considering you have like 20 people here telling you to get rid of her, if you don't take that advice in 5 years time you'll be kicking yourself.

[–]Naebany1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Demote her to plate.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Plate wants to go clubbing wearing suggestive clothes

Sure! Why not?

If ur "girlfriend" doesn't respect u or herself and goes to clubs for male attention, she is nothing more than a plate.

[–]razenha1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

How many times I've heard this "she is not the type that cheats"...

[–]HurricaneHugues1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why does your gf want to go clubbing? Especially considering she already has a boyfriend? And she wants to go half naked?

Lol let her go. Just tell her okay she can go. You're not her dad, and it's not your job too instill good morals and values in grown women. Let her go. The relationship is over. Just delete her and her closest friends off your social media, delete her number and text thread and gjost her for life.

She very well knows that what she's doing isn't right. It's not a normal thing for a girl that's in a relationship to go to a night time environment that is fueled by alcohol and sex. What is she gonna do there aside from attract other dudes, grind on their dicks, and quite possible blow or fuck them? She knows what she's doing. She's just trying to convince you that it's normal. Remember that in a relationship your partner is not gonna be looking out for your interests. She existed before she met you, and she will exist after she leaves you. You're only occupying a small period in her life and she knows it. Her well being and her interests are the only things that matter to her.

"She’s not the type to cheat"

Shut the fuck up man. But she wants to go half naked to the club to go dance on other guy's dicks. You're so naive. What makes you think she hasn't cheated on you already.

[–]sebastianconcept1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

When girls club their game is playing with each other to see who gets the most male attention of all. Is an attention-whore contest. Which can of course escalate if an alpha gets them aroused enough. If that happens the “they don’t know how that happened, was all so fast”

[–]boy_named_su1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good girls with boyfriends don't go clubbing or even want to go clubbing. If they wanna dance they can have a dance party with their girlfriends in the living room. Clubbing only let's her show off her wares to men

"I don't date club girls"

If she goes, she's gone

[–]daddydickie1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Before you drop her, can you post a pic of her outfit with her in it?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Shes got years of cock ahead of her

You should break it off now

Shes going to want to experiment sexually, and seek male validation through clubbing

[–]AngelusAeternam1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Man, she does not see you as her alpha. There's nothing you can do about it. If a girl is into you, she will wear less suggestive clothing just to let other guys know not to approach.

You acting butthurt won't do shit. Live and learn. Improve yourself and find a girl that will respect you. You are worth more than that.

[–]Stupyyy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Stop with this beta behavior.

[–]furcryingoutloud0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why on earth are you even bothering? Why on earth are you "talking"? Basically, whatever words you are using, what she is hearing is that you are definitely feeling threatened by her choice of dress. You are acting like a pussy. And therefore, you will be treated like one.

First of all, the fact that she is even interested in going out with her friends is proof enough that you already failed. The second you have to prohibit anyone from doing anything, you failed.

[–]iwillruletheworldkjh0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

For the next relationship put boundaries at the time of committing exclusivity. No clubbing without each other. If she isn't happy about that (she should be jealous of you too) good luck having an LTR with her, I would search another girl for a relationship. Your mental state of worriness pushes her away and makes you feel shit. In a LTR she should add value to your life, not suck energy away as a powerplay.

[–]Irtotallynotrobot0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I would talk about what "other people" are going to think of that. "Other people are going to think you're a slut". Yes you have to be a dick but shes acting like a unruly child.

[–]Ghrev_2330 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

she's not the type to cheat yet she's wanting to go clubbing in a bra?

[–]willso860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If she wants to go out looking like a prostitute then just let her, then of course get rid of her

[–]muddynips0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Short version: her friends are whores and she doesn’t want to be the lame one of the group. At that age a pack of 19yo girls WILL have more say over her behavior than you. It’s your dick in a sea of dicks up against a group of women who are narrowly focused on fine-tuning their social manipulation skills. You can’t compete with that.

Don’t chase a blossoming whore. Accept it, watch it, and learn from it. As she inevitably begins detaching and rationalizing; don’t lament her change, internalize it. This is how trp is truly learned.

[–]chaplin320 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Why are you seeking information from trp if your in a LTR? This Is certainly the wrong place.

[–]Devilsalwayscry0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

TRP is about sexual strategy in general whether that's spinning plates or going for LTRs. There is plenty of info here that is applicable to LTR game

[–]chaplin320 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

So how does sexual strategy apply to this post?

[–]Devilsalwayscry0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm not sure I understand your question but the poster asked their question because they aren't sure how to apply their sexual strategy. Given his situation with his gf wearing revealing clothing. I.e. The fact that she's going out without him and wearing revealing clothing hints she's looking for attention from other men, raising the question of whether his sexual strategy needs to change to deal with this situation.

[–]brabg0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She’s not the type to cheat

Women don't ask permission to go tot he bathroom, or to irrigate their garden pots.

They ask permission, when they know there is something bad they can do, and a real reason for the man to don't want it.

If there is a reason to say no, they should't even ask for permission.

[–]SupremeBBC0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why do so many women preface statements with "literally" as though that isn't the default for statements. Usually it's white women that do this but it's quite the phenomenon.

[–]pachmelstop0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's simple - she's going out there to confirm her SMV. Just to be sure she's still attracting the male attention. In other words, to calm down her hypergamous drive. Whilst she's out clubbing, you should go to the gym and lift bro, it will help you much more than getting upset about a disposable relationship.

[–]SolidLiquidGasPlasma0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Who gives a fuck

[–]Oakester0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hard pass forget her and move on

[–]Oakester0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hard pass forget her and move on

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Look at what they do, not what they say. If she really respected and was into you would she even go clubbing in the first place let alone wearing scatty clothing, think about it bro.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

good luck trying to wrangle a 19 year old thot when she's at her peak sexual market value. you know who else is a hot 19 year old thot? Belle Delphine. Look what that thot is doing.

[–]1Scriptopeia0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Jesus, where can I find your GF? I wanna see that bra bro. That must be one of the sluttiest outfits to wear.

[–]Red_Pill_Brotherhood0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

"No girlfriend of mine goes clubbing. However, you're an adult and can do whatever you like."

She goes- you dump her. She stays- you can keep her if you like but remember just the desire of hers to go to a club is not good(you may want to dump her anyway).

Do NOT act insecure or mateguard but do set your boundaries and act on them if she crosses the line.

[–]SpinPlates0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She’s not the type to cheat

You have much to learn. She's wearing that for attention. She's testing the waters to replace you.

Do you HONESTLY think a 6 month fling with you would stop her from getting pulled into a VIP booth with bottle service and going home with a professional athlete? Wake up man.

[–]__TheDon__0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Tell her not to wear it. If she does end up wearing it after you said no, break up with her

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lingerie as clothes is the new hit the wall attire

[–]BluBlac590 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Let me see you wear it. Wow, you look great go ahead and have a good time. Don't ever call her again. If you have to argue with her to act like she has a boyfriend you've already lost. She is looking for a new boyfriend if she wants to go out dressed in that. While she's out get all of your stuff out of her apartment and leave her key in plain sight. If her stuff is in your apartment pack it and leave it in a storage unit give her the key. ALL women cheat it only requires three things. 1. The right guy 2. The right time 3. The right place.

[–]addwater0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah not going to lie this isn't something I'd have any girl of mine wearing to a concert. Have fun though

[–]2ComplexProjection0 points1 point  (23 children) | Copy

Op, don’t listen to those guys. They are in anger phase and can only answer « bad ltr, breakup breakup ».

Your GF is dressing lîke that to get validation and feel desired by other males. She wants/needs it as much as you want to bang other chicks.

You are committed and exclusive to her (I guess), meaning you evaluate your relationship with her as worthing more than this need. It is time to see if she does the same.

You told her not to dress like that, you have set a boundary. If she listens to it, I would stay with her. If she does not, you will have to take action, like quitting this relationship.

[–]anhtu689 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

You told her not to dress like that, you have set a boundary. If she listens to it, I would stay with her. If she does not, you will have to take action, like quitting this relationship.

That's what people here are saying, dumb fuck.

[–]Pimpcool4203 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Some people are more in the "if she has the audacity to propose it it's already too late" school of thought. But in this case she might just be dumb and in this case in was OP who asked about clothes in the first place.

[–]wheresMYsteakAt0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Agreed. I'm somewhere in the middle. If it was a wife and we had 2 kids together I'd work on dread but be very concerned.

If it was anything else, next. I'll next if I don't like the way a girl starts talking, Sheeeeeit call me "bro" after 6 months of dating and you never have before and it lines up with your new job and sudden daily loss of your phone ? That's next. Who am I kidding, you lose your phone for more than 24 hours it's next and I'm inflating the hours just not to seem like a total scumbag.

[–]McVaghunter0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's the AWALT school of thought. Girls are not that dumb, she knows what she's doing, she wants that yummy chad dick, she knows how to get it and she will (aka already did) get it.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (17 children) | Copy

Gaaaaaaaaaay, never accept whore behavior or thoughts. A girl worth commiting to wouldn’t even attempt to degrade you like this because she’d be wrapped around your finger. If a girl is in your frame you should be able to tell her she can’t go to a club at all without you, much less dressed like a cheap whore. Blue pill as fuck

[–]2ComplexProjection3 points4 points  (16 children) | Copy

Why wouldn’t you want her to go to a club without you? You want your gf locked at home, never having fun? If the girl want to cheat on you, all she needs is 5min in a supermarket. Let her be her, and see if you like that her.

[–]ogkushinjapan3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

A high value man doesn’t need to lock down his girl. She would automatically sets him as her mental point of origin. Hence this behavior shows that she doesn’t value him as her priority, action speaks louder than words.

[–]2ComplexProjection2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I agree with the first 2 sentences of your comment, but I don't see how wanting to have fun with her friends in a club is showing she does not value her BF. You need to relax, women are not the enemy, and they are not always on the edge of cheating.

[–]ogkushinjapan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It’s what she’s wearing to the club that shows it. Of course clubbing every once in awhile or a bday party is alright.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy

Because I don’t want to date a club slut. She can go if she wants but I’m gonna leave her ass. You can’t tell me a person is just as likely to cheat in church as a club lmfao. You surely are completely aware that an intoxicated person has poor judgement and is more likely to act impulsively. Don’t lie to yourself.

[–]2ComplexProjection7 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy

Where there’s a chad, there’s a way, church or not. And you don’t do when intoxicated things you don’t want to do when you are sober.

Clubbing is not the problem. Dating a slut is, I think we can agree on that. Our approachs are different. You want to remove the club part in clubbing slut, while I don’t want a slut at all, no matter the environment.

[–]teveza111 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Where there’s a chad, there’s a way, church or not.

True, but going clubbing with her friends dressed like that is a sign of DISRESPECT and shows she doesn't respect you nor the relationship.

And a girl will also not respect any guy who puts up with his girlfriend clubbing with that clothes on.

[–]2ComplexProjection0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don't see it like that, nor I set boundaries for that. But you are free to do what you like.

When your girlfriend is not with you, she should be the one wondering who you are shagging, not the other way around.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

No no no no no, I don’t date sluts I have a very hard 5 body count limit for me to even consider letting a girl call herself my girlfriend, but sometimes a girl will shit test you, gotta tell that bitch no, if she really insists on it then the bitch is meant to be a slut and it’s time to let go.

I will say though that I absolutely love sluts for what they’re good for.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Where there’s a chad, there’s a way,


[–]Senior Endorsedmax_peenor1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

If she is going to places which are made for mate pairing is she actually your girlfriend? Why are you committing to someone that is making themselves available to others?

No one is telling anyone to lock up women. In fact, please don't because that would keep them away from me. But if your girlfriend doesn't want to got to these places WITH YOU, then she isn't your girlfriend.

[–]2ComplexProjection0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Strange definition you have of clubs buddy. Personally I go there to dance, enjoy a drink, and spend time with friends, not "to mate". And I don't remember OP saying she doesn't want to go there with him.

Once again, if she wants to be available to others, she doesn't need to go in a club. You achieve nothing by preventing that.

If you don't want to LTR a girl that goes to clubs, that's not something I would do but ok, it's your pov.

[–]Senior Endorsedmax_peenor1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy


Mating ritual

enjoy a drink

Reducing inhibitions

spend time with friends

Which include potential mates, plus all the other people that show up. Hanging out with friends is one thing; going to a club is another.

[–]2ComplexProjection0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

I'm not sure we understand each other. I'm not saying a girl can't cheat in a club. What I'm saying is that she does not need to get drunk and in a club to cheat on you. If she does it drunk in a club, she would have done it elsewhere in any other situation.

Therefore my point: you achieve nothing by preventing her to go clubbing.

[–]Senior Endorsedmax_peenor1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

It has nothing to do with cheating. She's supposed to be your girlfriend, but she is going to mating venues without you. She should want be with you, instead of finding things to do without you.

[–]2ComplexProjection0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

So your LTR is a woman who wants to spend all of her free time with you?

[–]Senior Endorsedmax_peenor0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Free time? Yeah, mostly. I mean, you might not want to go to the knitting circle with her and she might not want to kill animals with you. Or you may. But if it is a social thing, you would be together because you want to be together.

See, I think you are falling for the most fatal thing a man can in a relationship. You think it means you've secured access to sex and everything else can slide.

[–]Grapejuice6969 1 points [recovered]  (14 children) | Copy

i KNOWINGLY kissed two trannies years ago. I wouldnt feel confident telling my girl not to or being the man. But u do u bro u need to BECOME THE MAN. a masculine assertive man. I cant cuz i kissed two mentaily ill men. But u can

[–]MasterShake77715 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy

asktrp poster of the year

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[–]MasterShake7779 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]taway9871234569 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

You should've sucked their dicks

[–]Distractingyou1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Mistakes happen at least you recognize it and well don't tell it to anyone lol

[–]Grapejuice6969-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy


[–]Autistic_Reeeeeeeeee2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck, I need to hear your life story.

[–]Cazken2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Bro nothing wrong with kissing a couple trannies. Nothing wrong with kissing straight up men either. Leave it in the past. People have done worse things and moved on from it.

[–]HaroldTFinch2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Smells like a setup. Probably spez.

[–]juliusstreicher0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Wasn't that in a club down in old Soho?

[–]treejesus1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

North Soho I think... idk, can’t remember, we were drinking champagne

[–]juliusstreicher0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If you cant remember the brand, do you remember what it tasted like?

[–]NeedRealityShock0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's not gay if they pass

[–]lululenox0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don't understand why you guys get so insecure when your girls be acting like this. Insecurity and neediness is a huge turnoff and girls can smell insecurities like shark smelling blood in the water. Just stop being a little bitch and let your girl do what she wants. You locked her down cause she's a hoe in the first place right? Now that you locked her down don't be stopping her from being a hoe, that's the whole reason you like her in the first place.

As the great Patrice O'Neal once said "when you met your girl she was a hoe right? Big bootie and this and that. You gotta let her do that, don't start tryna fat her up and make her foul. Cause that's why you like her. I don't want no woman that no other guy's tryna fuck. I don't want a woman that I can send to the store at 2 in the morning cause nobody tryna rape her. Like I go 'cut thru the alleyway bitch, cause I talked to those guys they don't want nothing to do with you'"

Be proud that your girl is fuckable. And the best thing you can do is to just ignore the fuck outta her when she pulls shit like this to try and make you jealous. Cause that'll get her hamster going when you just say "ok have fun" and not text or call her the whole night. You know she'll be checking her phone the whole time wondering why you haven't checked in, better yet, don't stay at home like a bum, go out and have a guys night out and get shitfaced. You know there'll be a shit ton of beta's buying your girl drinks and she'll be getting drunk but when they ask her she'll say she has a boyfriend and run away, bitches love doing that shit and you know it. They get the validation and drinks and fucking leave the betas behind. Now you'll both get home drunk, you'll have had a great time, and your girl would be drunk and horny off some other guys' bar tab (and this is why you don't buy girls drinks, most of the time you're just being a cuck, getting a girl horny and drunk for another man she has at home) and you two would have great drunk sex. It's a win win for everyone. So stop being an insecure bitch, ignore her and have your own fun, she'll come crawling back for your attention and if she doesn't, worst thing happens you know she ain't loyal and you leave her ass and find a better girl.

[–]theboldmind-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Okay guys I’m kinda confused. Isn’t OP being insecure? Doesn’t trp suggest we should not care about all these things? Look we all know women love seeking attention. If soy boys can validate them when we are busy, what’s the big deal?

Isn’t it only a red flag 🚩 if she DOES something outside the boundaries of the relationship.

[–]SICFJC-3 points-2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Isn’t telling her no being beta and mateguarding?

[–]Autistic_Reeeeeeeeee5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

No. She is only doing it for validation. Meaning she has little to no respect for her boyfriend.

There is a clear distinction.

[–]YourShadowScholar1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


It's weird that there is any other answer.

But the guy should obviously stop being exclusive since she is communicating that she is no longer exclusive to him and wants to be in a casual relationship, not an LTR.

[–]ogkushinjapan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Her behaving this way already proves that op is not an aloha in her eyes. Telling her no or not should matter in this case, it’s her actions that tells the story.

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