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Feedback on mission / hobby

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romeomikewhiskey
August 9, 2019
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44M, married 22 years, 5 kids. Work from home most of the time (bad idea!) Few hobbies or friends. I have been lurking on the RP subs for a while now and casually read a few books; I'm finally starting to get serious. The MRP and TRP sidebars are gold.

Step 3 of the 12 levels of dread is to start building a life distinct from your wife. I'm a Scoutmaster with the Boy Scouts and have been for several years. I run a troop of 30ish young men, ages 11-17, mostly on the younger side. Recently I've been thinking about dropping that, and would appreciate your insights.

Pro:

  • Opportunity to build up a new generation of men. (Some of my Scouts have little or no solid masculine influence in their lives - this is the closest thing I have to a mission beyond my own family.)
  • Gets me out of the house for our weekly meetings and our monthly campouts.
  • Hiking and camping are masculine activities; it's better than sitting at home watching Netflix
  • Opportunity to lead the other adults who help out with my troop.
  • Some (minimal) social interaction with other adults
  • Increases my status in the community somewhat.

Con:

  • I stopped loving this a couple of years ago. It's just another thing I have to do. I don't even like camping much.
  • My Scouting responsibilities stress me out sometimes and that makes me into a whiney frameless baby.
  • It takes a lot of time - time I should be spending on my work, with my family, or on myself. (Or maybe that's just an excuse for my own laziness. It's hard to be that introspective. I am not convinced that if I dropped Scouts, I would replace it with anything worthwhile.)
  • My own sons have pretty much dropped Scouting in favor of other interests.

I would appreciate other opinions insights.


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Title Feedback on mission / hobby
Author romeomikewhiskey
Upvotes 9
Comments 75
Date 09 August 2019 03:54 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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Link https://theredarchive.com/post/249002
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[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret17 points18 points  (7 children) | Copy

You already gave the answer and you’re looking for our permission, which means you’re a faggot still.

Hint ^ - The answer is in the cons

[–]Reasonably_Honest1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't give you permission to quit. You owe everyone at the cost of your own sanity and happiness. Have fun.

[–]romeomikewhiskey[S] -5 points-4 points  (5 children) | Copy

I don't love it. That's true. I'm inclined to keep doing it though.

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

Well, you have to weigh it. We can’t do that for you. But, here.... I give you permission if you decide to stop.

[–]romeomikewhiskey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Should've included this in my original post, sorry if it was confusing - I'd already officially told the relevant people that I was ready to step down. My plan is to stick it out one more year (my sons - who rarely come anymore - should make Eagle in that time). Summer is a good time for a transition because everything slows way down. I've got to find and train a replacement (I currently have two options, both of whom should be ready within the year). But I started thinking maybe I was undervaluing the position.

[–]Iammrp28 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

You have my permission to quit as well

[–]FoxShitNasty836 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Me too

[–]hydrastas3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like my wife before i found rp.

[–]Iammrp25 points6 points  (12 children) | Copy

I'm going to be a den leader this year. I don't want to do it. But I do want to. Often in life we have mixed feelings and have to weigh the options. I will be leading the group my son is in. It will be worth it to me to lead my son and gain the respect that comes with leading. So for me the pros outweigh the cons.. but just by a little. If my son dropped cub scouts I would not lead. Would defeat the purpose.

You have to ask yourself if your pros outweigh your cons. You could delegate to reduce the cons. Only you can answer this question.

Another thought, sometimes doing something we don't like is still good for us. Someone might hate their job but if they quit, even with an unemployment check they'd become a disgusting slug. So it might be worth it to keep leading in order to build your frame. Like medicine.

Again, it's up to you. We can't tell you want you want.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine1 point2 points  (10 children) | Copy

“We can't tell you”

Yes we can. OPs kids aren’t even in the troop anymore - which makes him a creep and faggot for wanting to camp out with other kids.

[–]Iammrp24 points5 points  (9 children) | Copy

Maybe. He's the head scoutmaster over a troop. Not just a den leader like I'm going to be. He's supposed to be leading the adults. Somebody's got a do it. Parents are usually too busy to even help lead a den.

I wouldn't judge either way. Lots of divorced women like to bring their kids to these things so he can have his pick of the meth whores. DREAD BABY. But yeah if I were him I'd quit. Fuck that.

[–]redismyfuture2 points3 points  (8 children) | Copy

No one wants to fuck the boy scout leader... or a Den leader. I can't believe I had to actually write that out.

[–]Iammrp25 points6 points  (6 children) | Copy

What, this isn't sexy? https://pbs.twimg.com/profile_images/534173703995924480/q84Wv0ir_400x400.jpeg

Seriously, not everything we do has to be in order to get fucked. I see scouts as a way to teach boys leadership, personal responsibility, courage, strength and a love of the outdoors. It's introduces them to rank and teaches respect for God and country. Many military folks get involved in scouts.

My oldest is in football and scouts. With football he's learning how to hit hard and with scouts he's learning how to lead other boys.

Boys and men need a space without women. Can be sports or whatever. Even a subreddit.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

“not everything we do has to be in order to get fucked”

It’s not? It’s exactly why we are here. It’s why this grown ass 44 year old man asked us how to get pussy. We’re telling him how.

I totally agree everything what you said bout scouts. Extremely valuable for young men.

That isn’t the question here. The question is how does this guy become attractive again and how to get his balls drained.

[–]Iammrp22 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

Redpill is a sexual strategy. What is meant by that? Is it just to get pussy? Or is it broader? I would say broader. Men are deeply sexual beings. Nearly everything we do has to do with sex. Redpill is the realization of this. For me having a sexual strategy includes leading my family and leading others outside the family. It may not directly lead to sex but a leader typically has more access. I also view being an involved father as part of the sexual strategy. It's not going to get you laid but reproduction is most definitely part of our sexual nature.

Blue pill is both lacking awareness of our sexual nature and its when you do things contrary to your sexual nature (e.g. self sabotage, giving her a reason to not fuck you etc.).

I like this comment by /u/rian_stone a while back.

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/848yye/rule_0_no_exceptions/dvop0k7/

As far as why isn't he getting his balls drained. He's probably fat.

[–]RStonePT3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

I am not Rian Stone, he was suspended indefinately for 'circumventing TRP quarrantine' by creating a fan sub for his podcast.

I'm just some dude online reading and posting stuff. ;)

And this guy is doing the new years resolution thing. I guarantee he's been reading a sub casually for 19 months but has done fuck all.

[–]Over60_FireTempered3Red Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I am not Over60_Stupid_Loner or Firetempered. I am just a fuckitalltard using everyone here for my entertainment. See, we have a lot in common. hehe hehe hehe...

[–]redismyfuture1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

2 things.

1) I was prior JROTC and that was a mistake. I then enlisted and did 6 years with 1.5 from '05-'06. I wouldn't sign my kid up for scouts. Might as well give him the target to put on his back. There's nothing masculine left. Trannies and homos for leaders, and now they have to let girls in. Fuck all that noise.

2). You're confusing learning to be a man and redpill. See, you and I missed the 'be a man' class at some point and thusly had no way of using our sexual strategy. Redpill is not about being a man. It's a strategy or blueprint for how to navigate the sexual market place. But we have to relearn how to be men first. While some of the goal here is to teach out to be a man again, I believe that's separate from this place. This place is about teaching MEN how to get their balls drained as MCT so deliciously put it.

[–]Iammrp20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Maybe you're right but I don't see the distinction.

I see being a man and being a sexual man as the same thing. There's no separating the sexual nature from the man. A man's first needs are food and physical security from the elements and enemies. Second need is sex. And there is no third need. Everything we do, the businesses we create, the empires we build, the wars we wage are all because of our sexual directive.

A man who is true to his nature will naturally attract a women. But men are not living according to their true nature. Hence a need for redpill to wake us up. We need to get unplugged man.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ha. Funny story...about 2 years ago, I was a den leader for my youngest son- yes, someone had to be...

One night heading out to a den meeting, my wife’s 2 friends were in our kitchen chatting bla bla bla ..

One of them -being a little flirty and poking fun (testing)- asked me if I ever wear the scout uniform - with a little wink... I said... “only when I fuck”.. and headed out the door.

I could hear the laughing from outside. My wife texted me I can’t believe you said that! But it was hilarious. She did a spit take of wine all over the place.

But I’m MCT, and can get away with that.

[–]helaughsinhidden3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

I have a feeling you'd feel guilty if you said NO. I think there's a book in the sidebar about that if I could just remember the name...

[–]romeomikewhiskey[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

No, not at all. I'd just need to find someone to take over.

[–]ice_walkerHead Negotiator0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

In other words, yes. I’m not saying it’s necessarily a bad thing but you clearly feel responsibility for the group having a leader and you would feel guilty if you left without a precessor.

[–]stoicstephen9 points10 points  (20 children) | Copy

The objective of the 12 levels of dread is to instill dread on your wife.

Do you think that being a leader of young men scouts leads to dread?

You have to have hobbies that are unisex, or that at least bring women's attention onto you.

I would replace the boyscouts thing and replace it with rock climbing, BJJ, and maybe a team sport.

Always more than one.

Btw, do you lift? Do you go to a gym frequented by women?

[–]tap098853412 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Holy hell, 2 months ago, I went to a training session at rock-climbing and that gym was filled with 300 physically perfect 22-30 year olds. Every chick in there could have been a fitness model, and there wasn't another ab-less dad bod in the house. I felt like one the malformed creepers that skates by himself at the roller rink on kids night. Talk about a wake up call, I almost had to cover the mirrors and shower with clothes on that week.

[–]hack3geRed Beret6 points7 points  (17 children) | Copy

The objective of the 12 levels of dread is to instill dread on your wife.

Yep confirmed giant faggot.

Your lack of understanding of even a basic concept is scary. The 12 levels of dread are steps to build you into a man with options - the goal is never to make your wife do or feel anything because that’s a fools errand. Dance monkey dance.

Perhaps you should be asking yourself if you even lift because you certainly are lacking in reading comprehension...

[–]Iammrp24 points5 points  (10 children) | Copy

Then who are you instilling dread in, yourself?

“Dread” is putting the fear or ‘dread’ in your wife that you have other opportunities and other options

Dread is strong medicine tightly focused on a single problem- a low sex marriage.

You're right that dread is about yourself, not your wife. The objective is not to instill anything in your wife. The objective is to unfuck yourself. But the reason people are motivated to start dread is because they're in a low sex marriage with no options.

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2lpafb/the_12_step_plan_of_dread_book_excerpt_from_my/

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

STFU and listen to /u/hack3ge faggot.

Dread is for low sex, high sex, no sex.

Dread is just cause you are a badass with options.

GTFO

[–]Iammrp21 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dread is for low sex, high sex, no sex.

Dread is just cause you are a badass with options.

Absolutely. I should get /u/bluepillprofessor's book. Have you read it?

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Dread is the motor to the hamster wheel that keeps her on her toes

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

Keep doing it to change your wife and let me know how that works out for you

[–]stoicstephen2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

Dread is in the title.

A man with options is the byproduct of the 12 levels of dread.

It's those options (along with your wife's hamster) that create dread.

You don't control your wife, you control yourself.

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

If you truly believed this why did you tell me the goal was to instill dread in your wife?

I can always tell the guys who are larping from those that aren’t.

[–]stoicstephen1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because it is.

It's called 12 Levels of Dread.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

WTF is with you and the spergs today?

You got this or you need help? Lol

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck it’s like an infestation I’m going to need backup. Someone got them wet and fed them after midnight and now there’s an army of little green faggots running rampant in the sub.

[–]romeomikewhiskey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

instill dread on your wife.

My goal is to be a better man, and to help make better men.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

I love and support the scouts. My son is involved. But I see those leaders, they’re busy as hell. It’s a full time job no doubt. Hats off to you for donating your time to them.

But if you’re trying to increase your SMV and want to get your wife to start draining your balls once again, hanging around 11-17 young boys isn’t the answer.

Dude, your kids aren’t even in it anymore? Every time you put on that uniform and head out the door, she has no worries -competition anxiety/dread- that any woman will ever find you attractive. She’s safe. You need her to feel some anxiety. Other women finding you attractive turns her on.

You scout leader guys are lifers I understand, but let someone take control for awhile - maybe you can still help out - be on the merit badge or planning committee or whatever the fuck. But let your wife see that you moved on and reinventing yourself now. It will get the hamster spinning.

You need to outgrow Ned Flanders, and become the Chad version of him in your own way.

Are you in a deadbedroom?

[–]romeomikewhiskey[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

your kids aren’t even in it anymore

Well, not much. They do come on occasion. It always goes that way when boys hit 14/15. If your son is going for Eagle, get it done early. Mine will hopefully finish up Eagle within the year. I have a couple of possible replacement SMs lined up.

maybe you can still help out - be on the merit badge or planning committee

If I drop SM I will take over the Committee for a while. That's a much lower commitment. Probably also do a couple of merit badges now and then.

Are you in a deadbedroom?

It's not great but not quite DB either.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You sound like a good guy. Look man, enough talking, get to work. Start increasing your SMV, start treating your wife like a chick you want to fuck. Who would she cheat on you with? Start acting like that guy.

And for fucks sake, get the fuck out the house and around some women.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red5 points6 points  (6 children) | Copy

Fuck all these guys telling you to ditch scouts.

There are plenty of SAHMs who love the hot scout leader.

However, the best is to be a “Dance Dad”

Holy fuck. Dance Moms everywhere. I can do a bun better than most. My daughters makeup? Lockdown motherfucker.

I had to start wearing swim trunks to dance last year due to all the wet vaginas.

Be like “The Rock” in “The Game Plan”

100% serious AF.

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Which are sluttier? Dance or cheer moms?

I've contemplated doing this shit as well one day just for the fuck of it.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

Dance or cheer moms?

I do not have any experience with cheer moms. And TBH, I have never closed a Dance Mom, (never really tried), but they have zero issues getting in my face to talk, kinoing the fuck out of me while they wear their 2ct diamond ring their beta husband got them whom never comes to Dance.

Been invited to get TexMex and Margs (yes, with the fucking kids) after dance a few times, and I decline.

Just not super motivated to shit where I eat ya know.

My daughter also has dance for two hours. Standard protocol is for me to drop her off, hit the gym and come back to get her. I walk in the dance studio stinky and smelly.

They dont give a fuck. In fact, it probably turns them on.

I really think there is either something wrong with me, or many of the people on the sub.

I have achieved women, women I never even thought I would score. It is just mundane for me. There is so much more to this life than pussy.

I have not got laid in 17 days now. I am half tempted to just see how long I can go, cause you know what? I have never purposefully abstained myself before.

Wait 30 days, might make sex really amazing?

I remember reading something a while back that some guy would edge, edge and edge, but never come. He would only come during sex once every few months. And his orgasms were super powerful and satisfying.

I was at the gym lifting. I have 17 days of sexual energy inside me, and I was pounding the iron super hard.

Its kinda like in Rocky when Micky told him "women weaken legs"

IDK if that is true.

Days 7-10 I wanted to nut so bad, but once I got past day 10 - the desire to masturbate went away.

And this is all on 500mg of test a week................

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

My daughter also has dance for two hours. Standard protocol is for me to drop her off, hit the gym and come back to get her. I walk in the dance studio stinky and smelly.

They dont give a fuck. In fact, it probably turns them on.

Holy fuck. Never thought of this. My daughter will likely start dance/cheer in a year or two.

All that other stuff bro... I think you just need to nut in something. But I get ya. I went 13 days once and days 7-10 i thought cum was going to start shooting out of my eyeballs.

Just enjoy life bro.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I mean, dance is her thing. I didnt sign her up just to be around MILFS.

Just a byproduct.

Edit: The dread it causes on my GF is very high.

[–]WolfofAllStreetz0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Dunno where you are but my cousin is a dance mom and they are all land whales.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dallas.

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

What would you replace it with? Start there, then make a decision on what you would like to do.

Formulate a plan and execute on it like a man would.

[–]CarelessBowler50 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Replace it with more sidebar reading!

[–]CarelessBowler52 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

You sound like a nice guy.

Don't be a nice guy.

Assert yourself and move on. Someone else can be scout master for a while.

The community will appreciate having another real, unanxious man who knows what he's about.

[–]cdh10030 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Was going to ask OP something similar: only you know what you want to do, but ask yourself to what extent you're still helping out because you 'owe it to the scouts' or 'dont want to let them down'. If these are factors, then you're being a Nice Guy, and living your life not for yourself but for other people.

[–]romeomikewhiskey[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I do believe each generation of men has the duty to help shape the next.

But more I was looking for other opinions about the relative merit of this as a hobby.

There are things I enjoy about Scouts, and things I don't like about it. If I decide to step down, I'll find and train my replacement, and then move into a role where I can support him (with far less of a time commitment).

[–]Skuggasveinn2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hanging out with young boys will not necessarily bring dread. She will think that the worst will happen is you...

Running a modeling agency on the side, well that's a whole nother dread game.

Yq feel me brother.

[–]tap09885342 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I won't volunteer in my son's scout troop, because I'm too busy, but most volunteer leaders leave when their own kids age out. That is the norm.

As for hobbies, giving back, volunteering, etc. isn't a hobby, it is a charitable act. If you're going to do charitable acts, do the ones that the leading men in Romance novels do. Giovanni's muscles glistened and rippled as he rescued the orphans from medical poverty and adjusted his official Scoutmaster cap and neckerchief slide.

My suggestions for hobbies:

1) Hobbies that develop an ability which transforms your personal presence: Looking to be more intimidating? Carry yourself with confidence? Imbue women with the reassurance that you are protective? Be battletested? Have situational awareness? BJJ, MMA, Muay Thai, Boxing, Krav Maga, Firearms training...etc.

2) Hobbies that develop male bonding which transforms your personal presence:

Something you can do with other guys that is exciting, provokes risk taking and competition. ...Maybe base-jumping? Offroad racing? Ice Hockey?

3) Hobbies that can be leveraged to develop social mastery and transform your personal presence:

Clubs, mixers, networking functions, boards, councils, sports teams, and stuff that can be used to develop and hone social observation, charm, interpersonal skill, networking, rapport building, etc.

4) Lonely Hobbies where you can achieve absolute technical mastery that give near unlimited personal joy and pleasure in a way that transforms your personal presence: -knitting, music, glassblowing, who the fuck cares as long as you absolutely fucking love it and it fills you with enthusiasm and energy

5) Hobbies where you get to meet a lot of people:

- pub night trivia, poker tournament, spin class, blah, blah, blah

[–]markpf731 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This all sounds like you’re suffering from the inability to answer the basic question of “what do i want to do?”.

Keep marching forward and check the boxes on dread. Somewhere along the path you will find the ability to do what you want to do and include your family. You will feel like a dancing monkey at times.

At this point the old trope of “the stay plan is the same as the go plan” will finally resonate and make perfect sense.

[–]SkimTheDross1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Responsibilities don’t stress you out and make you a whiney, frameless baby.

Rather, you are a whiney, frameless baby that can’t handle the responsibility.

Start by fixing that.

[–]electric_dragon11 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

"I stopped loving this years ago" is your answer. What came to mind for me here is the assertiveness bill of rights from WISNIFG. "You have the right to offer no reasons or excuses for justifying your behavior."

[–]romeomikewhiskey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

When I say I don’t love it, it doesn’t mean I don’t like any part of it. But I don’t enjoy it like I used you.

Oh wow did I just tell Scouting ILY,BINILWY?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ditch scouts and pick up a combat sport so you won't be such a giant vagina.

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Maby you are making fags anyways.

I had a homosexual experience at cub camp when I was very young. I'm a bit gay now, it really effected me. Its one of the 2 major events of my childhood that shaped the man I am today. Failing grade six was the other one.

You dont love it, you already said it.

Bail and find something you love.

[–]romeomikewhiskey[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I am really sorry that happened to you.

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Dont be, I love being me. Its level 99 awesome.

[–]Big_Daddy_PDX0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You need to stand up and make a decision on what you want. You aren’t acting like a man that instills masculine traits in young men if you can’t decide to take a break from this activity.

I coached my kids in sports for about 5yrs. Between soccer, wrestling, baseball, I was either the head coach or a heavily involved Assistant. It helped me practice leadership skills and helped me identify some areas I wanted to grow personally. I was absolutely passionate about coaching and developing these young men and your girls. I’d never picked up a baseball bag in my life, but the sport was less important than the coaching value.

The best side benefit is that it allowed me to dramatically level up the quality and performance of my parenting relationship w/ MY kids. Now that I’m not involved at all in their sports (middle school and HS), our relationship is still very high performance and tat has been a MASSIVE component to making the divorce transition much better for them. I’m the rock. I’m stable. They trust and seek out my guidance.

[–]Rogue684860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What do you think will best help you grow into a red pill man, man?

[–]z9608490 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What's is your alternative mission / hobby?

[–]LivingRPLife0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Dude, don’t be a fuck-tard, life is too short, you will die too soon, don’t spend you time on something that’s not your passion.

[–]Captain_pants40 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I agree, take up BJJ

[–]ice_walkerHead Negotiator0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What’s your mission? Is being a scout leader in line with your mission and your long term goal, then you might wanna push trough stretches of lower motivation. If it’s not, ditch it and find some hobby that are in line with your mission and goals.

And also, stop this “what hobby should I pick up to be attractive” mindset. One of the worlds best extreme skiers has knitting as a hobby. I bet many women find him attractive, but it’s hardly because of the knitting. In general people are attracted to persons who do what they have a deep genuine passion for. Make sure you lift, then find an activity that you’re passionate about.

[–]Smuggler-Tuek0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

“My scouting responsibilities stress me out sometimes and that makes me into a whiny bitch”

No you’re just being one if you let shit control you like that.



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