How many Red Pillers had a mother who was abusive or emotionally neglectful?

Salty-Bastard · 2018-10-17T19:18:14+00:00

I would imagine quite a few from the tragic stories I have read on there.

sadomasochrist · 2018-10-17T19:31:58+00:00

You're off on your freudian diagnosis. The issue is a lack of fathers or weak fathers for most of TRP subscribers. As in, not someone there to say "women are mostly full of shit, this is how it works."

That's why everyone who unplugs talks about the "disney fantasy." They're describing their realignment to a reality that differs from the passive reality they put together without a father figure.

reluctantly_red · 2018-10-17T19:56:29+00:00

The worst thing I can say about my mom is that she was over protective. She was never once abusive and certainly never neglectful in any fashion.

Me and my brother grew into dutiful Blue Pill schmucks who both had to learn the hard way.

blackedoutfast · 2018-10-17T20:29:10+00:00

i wouldn't say abusive per se. but i definitely ended up developing a very dismissive/avoidant attachment style.

Whisper · 2018-10-20T08:32:38+00:00

How many modern men had a mother who was abusive or emotionally neglectful?

Mr_Smoogs · 2018-10-17T19:18:53+00:00

It's far more likely that terps grew up with overbearing mothers.

This is why empathy can be bad. Lots of people on the left use this appeal to emotion logical fallacy to guide their political beliefs, but the archetypal overbearing mother is intensely empathetic.

Empathy is not always good.

darudeboysandstorm · 2018-10-17T20:04:29+00:00

I had an awful mother but maintain a good relationship with her where does that leave me?

Tyler_Gatsby · 2018-10-17T20:37:15+00:00

I guess mine would fall under neglectful. Her idea of love is just getting attention for herself, and getting her way. She's probably everything RP would warn about a woman being.

Pope_Lucious · 2018-10-17T21:01:24+00:00

Probably no more or less than the average.

Red Pillers are systematizers who care little for social politics relative to truth on Internet forums. They aren’t more likely or less likely to be victims of abuse.

theincrediblegulk · 2018-10-18T00:33:31+00:00

My mother was over protective (don't ever have sex, drugs are bad mmkay) and emotionally unstable growing up due to her bitter divorce with my biological dad and her failed subsequent marriages that followed. She cared about me a lot but it was tough for her to play both the roles of mom and dad while keeping her career in law enforcement intact as well.

I didn't like my father growing up and I especially hated going to his house as a kid (there was always fighting going on at his house between him and my step mom and they too were bitter with my biological mom) so when I turned 13 I stopped visiting him. Growing up without a father to show me how to be a man and being raised by a single mother that was emotionally distant led me to grow up rebellious and naive.

Eventually I grew up, stopped blaming people for my problems and (for the most part) figured life out. Discovering The Red Pill was a major breakthrough for me in regards to my sexual maturity and understanding women and the aspects of being a man.

Shit, I just typed a novel. My bad. To answer your question, my mother was not abusive at all. She was, however, emotionally unstable and often times emotionally unaware/neglectful due to her job in law enforcement and failed marriages. She did her best to raise me and I love her for that, but finally growing up and separating from her was the best thing I could have done for myself (no shit, that's called growing up ha).

daveofmars · 2018-10-18T00:36:01+00:00

My mom was undiagnosed Borderline and had a lot of abandonment issues which caused her to become a control freak and divorce my dad. Those issues made her emotionally abusive to me and my sister, so I left to go live with my dad at 16. She improved as I got older and now things are good.

cxj · 2018-10-18T01:29:41+00:00

🤚

JezebeltheQueen5656 · 2018-10-19T18:17:20+00:00

i believe a few.

why is no one mentioning abusive or absent deadbeat fathers? why is the mother always to blame?

LowCreddit · 2018-10-17T21:03:12+00:00

My mother is a wonderful person. My father is as well. They have their own issues but abuse and neglect were not a part of them. I don't think women are bad. I think they are women.

atlantic68 · 2018-10-17T21:14:46+00:00

Most honestly

gasparddelanuit · 2018-10-17T21:36:28+00:00

How many Red Pillers had a mother who was abusive or emotionally neglectful?

Probably the same proportion as BPers. Men arrive at the RP from their observation and experience of the world, not from their upbringing. Most were BPers before reality slapped them in the face.

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passepar2t · 2018-10-17T19:56:58+00:00

Abusive by whose standards?

[deleted] · 2018-10-17T21:10:19+00:00

My mother is actually pretty great and i still visit her on a regular basis.

[deleted] · 2018-10-17T21:49:20+00:00

my mom went 👻 like I now do to all the women I get with.

eyewant · 2018-10-17T22:09:19+00:00

Both my parents are amazing people. But the redpill just came as common sense to me. If you lived in the hood you've seen the redpill and the sexual marketplace in its most primal form. So no, my mom was not abusive or emotionally neglectful.

LifterofThings · 2018-10-17T22:20:08+00:00

I imagine you probably mean dood red-pillers...

... but I come from a healthy, intact family background, for what that's worth.

Mattcwu · 2018-10-17T22:54:24+00:00

PieceBringer · 2018-10-18T00:43:34+00:00

My mother is amazing, I grew up without a father though.

darla10 · 2018-10-18T00:58:14+00:00

My mother was probably neglectful but I can't seem to remember details. She was 'tired' a lot. Sort of there but not there.

Salty-Bastard · 2018-10-18T03:36:24+00:00

What is your relationship with your mother?

[deleted] · 2018-10-18T04:06:00+00:00

I did not.

I had a mother that was so lovely that made me and my brother in antisocials.

We had so much love and so many people in our house (9 in total) that we ended up as loving the sond of silence and the concept of solitude.

davidcoetzee · 2018-10-18T09:13:20+00:00

Thankfully not me. Mother has been my rock and 110% supportive and present my entire life. Father was the emotionally abusive one with a drug problem who disappeared when I was 12.

ImpatientOptimist47 · 2018-10-18T09:25:56+00:00

It is impossible to please her. I was a total blue piller till I stumbled upon the red pill.

_Neon_Shadow_ · 2018-10-18T11:05:22+00:00

I grew up with both parents. Although my mom is less than perfect.

dicklord_airplane · 2018-10-18T14:44:50+00:00

Nope, my mom is wonderful. She was a child psychologist and i think my parents are shining examples of good parenting.

That doesnt change the fact that women are more attracted to me when I'm cocky ass than when im super nice and agreeable. Ive talked with my mom about the red pill thing on the internet, and she agrees with all of its core ideas.

yasee · 2018-10-17T19:37:01+00:00

Diagnose my mommy issues dr cohen goldstein

Krychek26 · 2018-10-17T21:52:59+00:00

No.

My mother is amazing and very loving, she was however raised in a generation not to think of men as oppressive shit.

NOTSM · 2018-10-17T19:09:43+00:00

Probably a lower percentage than the general population. Men who grow up in that environment tend to be good at emotionally manipulation and they certainly don’t need the internet to tell them that not all women are perfect little angels.

It’s considerably more likely they grew up with an over protective mother than an outright abusive one

[deleted] · 2018-10-17T21:10:29+00:00

I didn't. And I didn't have a neglectful father either. My family was united, supportive, and maybe a little too over-protective

Still became a nice guy who had to resort to TRP to learn how to deal with women

Title	How many Red Pillers had a mother who was abusive or emotionally neglectful?
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Date	October 17, 2018 6:59 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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