Basically the red pill is correct.

Not only to you have to lift, dress well, have a good social circle and learn game.

You also have to eliminate boyfriend/husband qualities.

Because women make guys they see as long term/ husband material wait for sex.

Because women who are usually easy and have high n counts also make guys they see as long term/ husband material wait for sex.

They don't want to seen as easy. They want to get know him and build an emotional connection. They like the tension that the waiting brings. They want to do it right and get his commitment.

And that's ok for women ...... and men who are looking for a wife.

But for red pillers. yk guys who are looking for quick and easy sex. It's not ok.

Of course i don't expect women to empathize with this need for casual sex. They can get it easily and often don't even want it.

Basically you have to get out of woman's husband/boyfriend potential box and into a her fuck only box. Good enough for sex but not much else.