Q4M: Would you date a woman who has seen multiple prostitutes?

Doom_and-Gloom · 2018-01-23T20:00:39+00:00

Would you date a woman who has seen multiple prostitutes?

Might as well ask me if I'd date a unicorn. As someone who's studied the sex industry for years, I can tell you this; their clientele is, almost without exception, always 100% male. To paraphrase the legendary Christian XXX; it doesn't matter if you're a man, woman, or anything in between. If you're in the business, you're working for guys. End of story.

EDIT: These attempts at "gotcha" questions are really lame, btw.

dakru · 2018-01-23T19:06:22+00:00

No, I would not. And I don't see anything wrong with a woman having that preference either.

But in general I'm just not in the business of criticizing people's partner preferences (unless the preference somehow enables abuse or mistreatment). I have no interest in convincing or pressuring people into dating anyone they don't want to date.

Offhisgame · 2018-01-23T19:13:51+00:00

I don't think many people would date someone who has. Man or woman.

crackrocksteady7 · 2018-01-23T19:35:06+00:00

The only women who see prostitutes are 50+ walking corpses

See: the articles about Caribbean female sex tourism

wtknight · 2018-01-23T20:10:46+00:00

No. I dislike casual sex, and seeing a prostitute is as casual as it gets. I don't think I'd have a compatible personality with somebody who enjoyed seeing prostitutes.

TheBookOfSeil · 2018-01-23T20:11:15+00:00

Since when do women need to see prostitutes? Most women don't need to pay anything for sex. They have Dick On-Demand^TM

The majority of the reasons why a woman would hire prostitutes is she likes to, or she needs to.

Either way, I probably wouldn't be involved with such a woman. The former, because I don't know where she's been, and the latter because she probably wouldn't be attractive at all.

Belfura · 2018-01-23T20:27:48+00:00

I'd probably be curious enough to ask why. Seems to me that she could have gone on tinder and gotten laid without paying. But guys and girls look at this differently.

TRP_Hoplite · 2018-01-23T23:59:04+00:00

Probably not. A woman who has seen male prostitutes multiple times would have to be a very high status/rich woman and either very unattractive or very hard to please. There is an abundance of males available to horny women, if she used prostitutes quite often it would be a sign she is either TOO high value or TOO low value, if that makes sense.

PBRScagsquad · 2018-01-23T19:13:02+00:00

implying said women exist in such abundance this would ever be a serious consideration to take into account when selecting a partner

[deleted] · 2018-01-23T19:24:01+00:00

Yes, I genuinely wouldn't give a fuck.

goatismycopilot · 2018-01-23T19:25:16+00:00

I don't date women, do y'all think there is a large pool of female/ladyee folk who have abused the services of large numbers of male prostitutes?

SlimLovin · 2018-01-23T20:10:56+00:00

I really don't see why not.

MercedesBenzoAMG · 2018-01-23T21:45:53+00:00

I'd be intrigued to know why and also where all these straight male prostitutes are but yeah I wouldn't really care.

SeemedGood · 2018-01-24T07:16:54+00:00

The question implies that sex is the same for men and women, has the same effects on them, and that therefore it might be logical to have the same views about their choices with regard to it.

It isn't, it doesn't, and therefore it isn't.

BCmutt · 2018-01-23T19:26:10+00:00

Yes, but thats because terms like dating mean nothing to me.

Ultramegasaurus · 2018-01-23T19:36:02+00:00

Do you refer to "sucking off a stripper during a bachelorette party" ? In that case, only if she wasn't in a relationship at that point (or the fucking bride ffs).

MickDash · 2018-01-23T19:38:16+00:00

date? ok, dating isnt really such a big deal imo, i date women i dont necessarily want to have sex with tho, i know some guys wouldnt do that tho, sometimes i just like some company to see star wars with or whatever

wekacuck · 2018-01-23T19:44:55+00:00

Well, I'm not looking so grains of salt but... it would intrigue me. I'd probably want to know all about it and bore her to death asking questions and by that point what I thought about it probably wouldn't matter anyway.

FairlyNaive · 2018-01-23T20:00:59+00:00

Why would i ever care?

blackedoutfast · 2018-01-23T20:16:13+00:00

no. honestly i don't even care, but i want to support arbitrary double standards and male supremacy.

DaThrowaway808 · 2018-01-23T20:19:00+00:00

Yes, I'd date her, but wouldn't marry her.

reluctantly_red · 2018-01-23T21:13:58+00:00

I've never used a prostitute and I'd expect similar behavior from any partner.

I've always thought using a prostitute is like a fighter paying his opponent to take a dive. Its not really a victory is it?

[deleted] · 2018-01-23T21:15:11+00:00

I would assume she would have to ethier be extremely ugly, or extremely rich is she paying for sex.

Ugly? No

Rich? Probably

[deleted] · 2018-01-23T21:15:16+00:00

I wanna hear the story behind it first

SkookumTree · 2018-01-23T21:52:45+00:00

Odd as shit that she'd go to prostitutes instead of NSA sex with Tinder "Chads" or FWB arrangements or even her local kink circle or something. I'd want to talk to her more: why is she using prostitutes? It's unusual for a woman.

decoy88 · 2018-01-23T22:12:58+00:00

My curiosity would get the better of me and probably make her seem more interesting lol

Neoprime · 2018-01-23T23:21:26+00:00

Yes, if they were mostly female prostitutes.

[deleted] · 2018-01-23T23:35:55+00:00

Women don't see prostitutes.

despisedlove2 · 2018-01-24T02:55:01+00:00

AdamtheFirstSinner · 2018-01-24T05:20:51+00:00

She's either curious or extremely ugly. So yes for the former (so as long as she's STD free) and no to the latter

[deleted] · 2018-01-24T10:08:10+00:00

I would if everything else was right, but if everything else was right than that girl would have no reason to fuck a prostitute

So it would probably be for some weird fetish thing, in which case it would depend on the fetish

Either way I dont care, BUT I would expect to benefit from the situation, its not like I dont care she fucked with prostitues so you cant just pile that on top of someone who is equal to me

I need to be wooo'd, wined and dined, if anything I would want her to treat me like I was a prostitute also

[deleted] · 2018-01-24T22:28:48+00:00

Maybe sounds different

762Rifleman · 2018-01-25T11:26:16+00:00

Sure why not? I'd even be perfectly okay with a girl who punts, or even a sex worker. I understand it's work. If it's all safe, sane, consensual, I don't see an issue. Saying you can't make a ho into a housewife is like a woman saying she couldn't date a soldier because he MUST have been shaped into a tool that only lives violence. Besides, I would hate to be with a girl who couldn't appreciate sexuality.

Meshakhad · 2018-01-25T16:40:56+00:00

Probably. It would depend on the circumstances. I don't see much moral distinction between hooking up and seeing (or being) a prostitute. I would want her to get an STD screening before we start having sex, but I'd probably do that for any woman who had had multiple sex partners before me.

[deleted] · 2018-01-23T19:53:13+00:00

She'd better always pay for shit

reformedorbiter · 2018-01-23T20:03:20+00:00

Sure, the 5-10% of men she chases from age 13-30 probably have similar STI rates and n counts as a prostitute anyway.

Title	Q4M: Would you date a woman who has seen multiple prostitutes?
Author	ANTIFA_SARKEESIAN
Upvotes	5
Comments	132
Date	January 23, 2018 6:55 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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