Being an over 30 hookercel: something that shouldn't be disclosed to a woman?

MissMaude · 2017-12-18T19:40:20+00:00

I wish you hadn’t told ME... so no do not tell women IRL.

[deleted] · 2017-12-18T19:56:29+00:00

Nobody's entitled to hear your sexual history. Just keep it to yourself dude.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2017-12-18T19:38:57+00:00

omg why are you fucking morons being honest with each other. stop it

songofmelancholy · 2017-12-18T19:41:03+00:00

'hookercel' really??

washington_breadstix · 2017-12-18T20:21:07+00:00

Okay I'm going to go against the grain here and give serious advice.

Don't disclose this information to a woman who's merely "interested" in you. Wait until you have a stable, long-term relationship. Before that point, just dodge the question a little by saying something like, "Yeah I've dated a few women but for whatever reason nothing ever got serious." Don't act like you have anything to be embarrassed about. Pretend like you tried to have relationships in the past but life just got in the way. If a woman is interested in you, you're NOT going to keep her interested by talking about all the hookers you've fucked.

mistercheeez-o____O- · 2017-12-18T20:29:12+00:00

If it was the other way around, would you feel it necessary for a woman, that you were romantically pursuing, disclose this to you?

grindlegrundle · 2017-12-18T20:45:08+00:00

be yourself the best way possible.

...Which means don't try to be an entirely different person, but maybe conceal your major flaws, at least at first. That's what normal, successful people do.

GridReXX · 2017-12-18T21:05:17+00:00

Stop listening to everyone.

TRP espouses honesty as the Holy Grail. They want their wives and GFs to “be honest about their sexual history.”

Listen. Take a cue from women.

Take shit to your grave.

Operate in your best interests. And that means you’re allowed to disclose what you want.

I’ll get downvoted but 🤷🏽‍♀️

notworthmuch20xx · 2017-12-18T19:39:41+00:00

Okay so don't be honest about it then

Littleknownfacts · 2017-12-18T19:47:16+00:00

But how is she going to love you for you if you don't tell her! You have to share it and let her accept the real you, otherwise she only loves you for your bux.

_eNeF_ · 2017-12-18T20:45:58+00:00

NEVER ever disclose this to any woman you're seeing.

NEVER think about it even when you get serious or just genuinely want to open up to her (another questionable thing that can sometimes screw men over depending on their upbringing, and whatnot)

NOTHING good will come of this.

goatismycopilot · 2017-12-18T20:44:04+00:00

Chances are you won't ever meet a woman interested in you so it won't be a compelling issue to consider.

jtown8673877158 · 2017-12-18T20:09:04+00:00

work towards building a good relationship, and build your relationship on honesty. don't be a creep and spill your whole life story on the first date, but if you think it would matter to her let her know early on so you don't waste either of your time with a relationship that isn't going to go anywhere.

actually the fact that you measure yourself by how many or which people you've had sex with, and the fact that you've paid women to let you have sex with them, would be a bigger deal to me than the fact that you haven't had sex with anyone who truly wanted to.

crackrocksteady7 · 2017-12-18T20:03:39+00:00

I thought incel threads were still banned?

KerPop42 · 2017-12-18T19:58:09+00:00

Don't tell her right off. Eventually, if she decides that she likes your personality, looks, etc, and your relationship moves on, you should tell her. It's just like any other embarrassing secret we keep until we feel comfortable admitting it to someone we want to trust.

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Raii-v2 · 2017-12-18T20:56:27+00:00

Paraphrased from the Doc Love's the system:

Men have been taught (through shitty rom coms) that negatives under the guise of honesty will make a woman's interest level go up.

It's bullshit, keep that shit to yourself

trabant00 · 2017-12-18T20:57:33+00:00

I'm going to say it depends on what you want to. And how you want to do it. There's time and a way to do this, and there are certainly many more wrong ones. You can take it to the stupid extremes and observe this: "Hi girl who packs my groceries, I'm having sex with lots of prostitutes". Or the other one: don't tell your wife with which you have 2 kids and want the 3rd with but you just passed her a nasty std which might affect the pregnancy.

Do yeah, the answer as in all in life is "it depends". Just err on the side of "I must have a good reason to tell her that".

MoodyAres · 2017-12-18T20:12:19+00:00

I find it funny even the "Honest communication is key to relationship" bloops are like "Wtf lie about that shit bro"

wtknight · 2017-12-18T19:49:27+00:00

Telling her that you’ve had casual sex before is being honest enough. There’s no real difference between casual sex and being with prostitutes besides the monetary transaction anyway.

L0git3x · 2017-12-18T20:31:45+00:00

I like that some of the posts on here I cant tell if they are trolling or real people. This is one of them.

Love it

yeah Im upper 40s myself. People like you dont bother me. I kind of feel like you found a loophole.

You can pay exactly what you want to do precisely what you want WHEN you want. Then they leave.

Why would you have to feel like you have to disclose that. I think the conversation would be more along the lines of.

"Ive slept with a few women"

"How many"

"I have no idea I wasnt keeping score"

End of conversation.

Funny. I look down more on guys dating girls 25 years younger than them and making relationships out of it.

Dudes banging prositutes. You sonsabitches figured out the loophole!

I pay people to work on my car.

Fix my boat

Cut my grass

etc. What is the big deal with the oldest profession in the world?

theiamsamurai · 2017-12-18T19:40:52+00:00

Yes, you shouldn't disclose it. You can never be loved by a woman, so might as well lie.

PS: They're not professionals any more than drug dealers are professionals, they exploit men's addiction to women like drug dealers exploit people's addictions to drugs. If anything, drug dealers are more professional because of how hard the job is.

Title	Being an over 30 hookercel: something that shouldn't be disclosed to a woman?
Author	ifelsedowhile
Upvotes	5
Comments	115
Date	December 18, 2017 7:37 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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