In the title.

The question more specifically is whether you have ever suffered real, actual, physical abuse by a man you were dating, fucking, in a relationship and/or married to. Has any such man ever beat, punched, slapped, kicked, or hit you?

Has any such man ever truly abused you emotionally? Maliciously called you a bitch, cunt, fucker? Cheated on you openly for the express purpose of hurting you or publicly humiliating you? Shittalked you to others for the express purpose of publicly humiliating you? EDIT: Done or said anything to threaten you with physical abuse? END EDIT

I'm talking about real physical abuse and real emotional abuse. I am not talking about couples fighting and yelling at each other, or a man pushing past you to get away from you, or defending himself when you hit him first. I am not talking about a man throwing things or getting really pissed off. These things are NOT "physical abuse".

I am not talking about men being dishonest with you about their dating/sex intentions, or having boundaries and enforcing them, or insisting on family budgets, or insisting on knowing what you spend money on, or just generally not being nice to you. I am not talking about a man yelling and raising his voice. I'm not talking about manipulation or deception (women do these things ALL THE TIME to men). These things are NOT "emotional abuse".

With all this in mind, have you ever been physically abused or emotionally abused? Talk to me in the comments.

EDIT: There's confusion about what is "physical abuse", at least to me. Here's what I want to know:

Has any man you've ever dated, fucked, or been married to, ever beat, punched, slapped, kicked, or hit you, EVEN ONE TIME? Has it ever happened to you, even if it was one isolated incident?

Has such a man ever raped you, even once (I mean REALLY raped you, I mean forcibly penetrated you with you repeatedly saying NO or STOP and otherwise demonstrating clear nonconsent)?