There is an extreme difference between what men seek in relationships versus what women seek. This causes man to be legitimately nice guys, yet not attract even the fattest of hambeasts. This is because they do not know what women want. Women aren't looking for a romantic partner. They are looking for a DOMINATING partner.

They want a man who controls every aspect of her life. They want to capture the attention of a stoic badass who has high status, but she has that "one thing" that makes him attracted to her. They want to be pounded on by a jacked alpha. However, this does not mean that love has any factor in this. Christian Grey completely treated Anastasia like shit, yet her panties still got wetter than ocean. And countless times heroines get raped by the "hero", sending them into an Oxycontin-filled hazed. And how many of these novels have a "nice guy" doing everything right, pinning for her, but not getting the slightest kiss? This is reflected in real life as well.

Our lesson is simple: don't love her. Dominate her. You WILL see results.