Why are men these days obsessed with anal sex? Do they even like women?

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dandar4600 · 2015-09-22T18:17:35+00:00

It's the domination and variety aspect. When you're fucking a girl anally you feel like a conqueror. The noises she makes, the different feel of it, the taboo aspect of the act. The downside is your dick covered in shit but that's a downside I can live with.

[deleted] · 2015-09-22T18:25:44+00:00

To me, one of the most attractive parts of a woman is her ass. I was fucking elated when I found out you could put your dick in there.

alreadyredschool · 2015-09-22T18:07:24+00:00

Anal feels awesome. Women love analgasms. It brings in variation. It's a fantasy many men have. I don't see how a man who loves Anal doesn't like women.

prodigy2throw · 2015-09-22T18:34:47+00:00

Because if I put it in a man's ass i'm suddenly "gay". Fucking society man.

SirNemesis · 2015-09-22T18:24:22+00:00

Cause of ghey propaganda in the form of anal sex in porn.

[deleted] · 2015-09-22T18:52:59+00:00

I really can't see the appeal. It's not normal.

That's like.... Your opinion man.

[deleted] · 2015-09-22T22:14:51+00:00

Men like to put their penises in places that feel good. Same as it ever was.

ManRAh · 2015-09-22T22:45:13+00:00

Uh... feels good. Feels different. Feels domineering. Feels naughty.

Pick one.

Also...

I have spoken to other women and they agree that most STRAIGHT men seem to be obsessed with their butt holes.

wat?

"Okay ladies... we are all concerned about the Butt Hole Problem, so we decided we'd get to the bottom of it (tee hee hee!). We did some polling, and we found out that 100% of the males obsessed with our butt holes identify as straight. I know you're all concerned that perhaps we're all dating Gays, but our poll contains other alarming results as well. As it turns out, 0% of sampled Gay-Identifying Males were obsessed with our, or other womens', butt holes. I can tell by the look on your faces that you're just as confused as I am. I wish I had an explanation for you. Now, I know some of you who received preliminary results have discussed swapping out your current husbands and boyfriends for new Gay Male partners who aren't obsessed with your butt holes, but Stacy was just down at Leather Rebel on Thursday night, and she said none of the men there were interested. We're going to hold a Tribunal next week and discuss how to address this situation."

fiat_lux_ · 2015-09-22T19:54:51+00:00

The only reason we want to do it is because women don't want to do it.

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MagicGainbow · 2015-09-22T18:22:43+00:00

For me it's she's into you enough to do/offer it, all in all it's a hassle/mess.

saltinado · 2015-09-22T18:35:32+00:00

It's not a woman hating thing (except maybe for Cis, I think he mentioned that in a comment before), it's addition of variety, and it's a socially praised accomplishment.

It's okay to have anal, it's okay to not have anal. It's not just for gay men.

thereddespair · 2015-09-22T18:40:51+00:00

according to those i engaged, it just feels better physically. tightness comes to mind too, esp those women who dont really do it a lot.

[deleted] · 2015-09-23T02:06:39+00:00

What does liking anal sex have to do with not liking women?

For instance, I don't like women and I also don't like anal sex.

So then, that already puts your flimsy premise on it's head.

[deleted] · 2015-09-23T09:57:37+00:00

As others have said I think it's largely down to the domination aspect, and anal is basically a socially acceptable vanilla way of exploring that kind of thing for people who are scared of being thought of as freaks.

Not my thing personally. I'd much prefer to fuck a girl in missionary just as long as I can choke her and slap her and spit in her face and call her a whore all the way through.

[deleted] · 2015-09-23T01:45:19+00:00

I refuse to be with the kind of man that demands anal. Men who need anal are often insecure, sadistic, immature products of internet pornography culture. The sphincter's purpose is waste disposal and unlike the vagina, does not have a lovely bundle of nerves specifically for pleasure. If vagina isn't enough for you, then you're not as heterosexual as you think you are.

goatismycopilot · 2015-09-22T22:16:13+00:00

I wonder how many TRP dudes like getting pegged, actually I don't wonder but the minute somebody says "anal" in the straight world what everybody means is dude sticking penis up woman's butt.

wombatinaburrow · 2015-09-23T03:07:35+00:00

I dated one man who was obsessed with my tradesman's entrance. It was really offputting, and, well, hurt like buggery. He really got off on the idea of me being in pain and humiliated by it, so that little mistake of a relationship went down the gurgler pretty quickly. Thankfully Mr Wombat sees a bumhole as an exit only.

BornToBeIncel · 2015-09-23T01:37:01+00:00

I'm so torn when it comes to anal sex. Whenever I'm watching porn or hentai (japanese pornographic cartoons) I get fascinated by the anal parts. What would it be like if a woman actually let me in there? After actually being in her vagina, no less? It'd be a complete validation of me as a man and human being, that I was allowed into both her most intimate places.

Then I remember how degrading most women find anal sex and feel an immense wave of shame and self loathing take over. How could I even think of pressuring a woman to do that? No woman should have to feel like she has to offer up her butt for me even if it is shapely, and beautiful, and so very, very tight... Such are my feelings of loathing, yet I press on and continue masturbating anyway, because I am a piece of filth.

Anarki3x6 · 2015-09-22T21:03:59+00:00

There was a thread about this exact topic recently that had a lot of good answers: https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/3jmm0d/why_are_so_many_straight_man_fascinated_with_anal/cuqs3sf

lodro · 2015-09-22T21:31:52+00:00

Are you in America? I don't think this is a big thing anywhere else.

Swanksterino · 2015-09-22T23:11:05+00:00

These days, lol.

Xemnas81 · 2015-09-22T23:59:07+00:00

I don't know some of us don't really think mch about sex

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wazzup987 · 2015-09-23T00:52:33+00:00

anal sex? how pedestrian, sounding is good time, violet wands are fun, Whips and chains are the sure sign of good time

wetmydick · 2015-09-23T04:04:01+00:00

For me it is two things. The sensation is different because it is tighter, which usually feels better. Also, I like to do it just to say that I did it. Like yeah, I fucked her in the ass.

It is not something that I need to do all the time, every once in the while works.

BlackHeart89 · 2015-09-23T05:54:09+00:00

Guys like to fuck everything I guess. The idea of having shit on my dick is enough to deter me though. The desire just isn't there.

Tom_The_Human · 2015-09-23T17:33:46+00:00

My guess is that it's taboo and seen as the ultimate form of submission. It's never done it for me, but I throw it in every now and then for variety.

Plus the cum farts are hilarious.

Trekneck · 2015-09-23T19:21:49+00:00

To poorly quote the great Jim Jefferies, we do it because "we know you hate it." That, mixed with the fact that it's generally forbidden territory mixed with an over abundance of anal in porn, how could you not want to give it a shot?

GayLubeOil · 2015-09-22T20:26:44+00:00

I'm not accusing you and your friends of having a loose vaginas. However if you guys do in fact have loose bucket vaginas the men whom you were intimate with, may have felt like they were throwing a sausage down a hallway and asked for anal as an alternative.

cxj · 2015-09-22T19:22:21+00:00

Because its tighter, she can't get pregnant, and way less dudes have typically been up there. Yes there are butt sluts, but the average girl does anal in ltrs only.

winndixie · 2015-09-22T20:36:00+00:00

It's not normal.

That's ignorant. What about gay guys, why would you suggest being gay is not normal?

OlBastard · 2015-09-22T18:28:28+00:00

Do women even feel pleasure from anal ?

betterdeadthanbeta · 2015-09-23T00:49:49+00:00

Defiling a woman in her forbidden hole is thrilling. You're still fucking her, penetrating this delectable womanflesh, but in a tighter hole that (probably) less men have been in. You might get her to cum from anal with the unique pleasures that entails. Using my cock to fuck a woman to a different novel form of orgasm? if that's wrong, then strike me down.

Yonderlander · 2015-09-23T21:44:05+00:00

This is the biggest downside of internet porn. Nobody asked for anal when I was a teenager. I remember one guy getting the nickname "arse bandit," because he always tried to get girls to do it, we all laughed and no one would go anywhere near him. After coming out of a 12 year relationship, my God everybody wants to do it, as if it just a normal part of normal sex!

I just feel bad for the young girls who will get pressured into it and have a bad time.

Title	Why are men these days obsessed with anal sex? Do they even like women?
Author	chloe1204
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Comments	152
Date	September 22, 2015 6:03 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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