Sex positive Red Piller here – a low N count would actually be a red flag to me

Ok first of all, I don’t think every woman is a crazy slut. It’s been pointed out numerous times here that even if you take men’s self reported averages (higher than women’s) for lifetime partner count, most studies show its still pretty low (5-15 depending on source). This means lots of girls do have a lowish count since overall they can’t have a higher average than men’s self reported average (inflated) in a closed system.

However, the low N count girls must either be getting married or into serious relationships at a young age, which means they are almost always off the market. Either that, or there must be something quite unusual about them.

Picture an attractive, gregarious young woman. If she hasn’t almost constantly been in long term relationships since her teenage years, how could she end up with a low count? None of the possible explanations sound very appealing to me:
She doesn’t enjoy sex.
She is very shy.
Men are turned off or put off by her.
She is extremely religiously conservative.

So a girl that has a low N count via relationships is going to be hard to find. There may be lots of low N count girls in total, but the proportion that are single at any given time is going to be very low.

But in addition to being hard to find, girls that get in to LTRs early tend not to embody the qualities I seek. I want women who are adventurous. Who enjoy travelling the world. Who seek out different people and experiences. Who are not afraid to be on their own, and todo things on their own. This simply doesn’t describe women who marry their high school sweetheart.

And a girl that has a low N count, because she’s basically been celibate for years on end probably has all kinds of problems.

Finally, a girl with a low N count because she's still a teenager, well she’s a teenager. Have the guys on here that post about how great it would be to marry an 18 year old talked to any 18 year olds recently?

So realistically, if someone is interesting enough to me to be worthy of a relationship, they’re going to have racked up some numbers.