Got an offer... idk if I should take it.

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November 11, 2019

This isn’t a troll post.

So I see an old friend in the gym. He’s a classic alpha male big dude jacked to the gills blasting and cruising for a few years now so he’s a physical presence. We get to bullshitting and he tells me what he’s been up to. Male escorting! He’s getting paid as much as 2k a night and 6k for an entire weekend. His usual clients are older divorced white woman who have tons of money. He doesn’t fuck them(most of the time), but they “muscle worship”him( it’s a fetish I didn’t even know existed but apparently there’s a market for it).

Anyways he tells me I’d kill it and he could hook me up with a few clients right off the bat.

Does anyone have experience with this? Is it worth it? Are those prices accurate? Is he lying about not having to fuck his clients?

Aside from the monetary value, I think this could skyrocket my confidence to the stratosphere.It’s very discrete no real names used no phone numbers exchanged.

Edit: I’m not asking if you guys think it’s legit. It’s through an agency. Assuming it is legit do the prices and circumstances seem reasonable. I’m looking to see if anyone has done this personally( or a friend) and what their experiences are.

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Title Got an offer... idk if I should take it.
Author sjswander94
Upvotes 122
Comments 110
Date 11 November 2019 03:37 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]argcisman 297 points298 points  (2 children) | Copy

Do it and report back

[–]tries_to_tri 70 points71 points  (0 children) | Copy

I agree.

"All life is an experiment, and the more experiments the better."

[–]Herdsengineers 123 points124 points  (6 children) | Copy

If it ends up that there is a "sign-up" fee you have to pay at the start, it's a scam. If there isn't and the agency just gets a cut of each "transaction" you take on, maybe there's something to it.

If you don't need to shell out cash to start, I'd say give it a try. If they say "you pay us a sign up fee", I'd tell them to pound sand.

[–]sjswander94[S] 51 points52 points  (5 children) | Copy

Yea I’m not paying them shit to get started. Fuck that. I wouldn’t mind paying a % of the pay if they provide me with a platform and security.

[–]boolDozer 6 points7 points  (4 children) | Copy

How much do you make (or could you make) with your current skillset that doesn't require your looks?

My only points are: 1) it's a short-term job that you honestly will not make that much money on. It sounds like a lot, but you're only looking at 5-10 years max. That time could be spent learning a skill and building a business that allows you to retire in 10 years (2K/weekend will not). And, 2) like another comment said, it's not actually going to skyrocket your confidence because the clientele's (old wrinkly ladies) opinion isn't going to mean much to you.

I might try it once to see if it's legit, given everything I've read here, but it would be backup plan for me. If you're already a good looking dude then you don't need the confidence boost. Spend that time making some *real* money my man, and you'll thank yourself in a few years. Just my two cents though. Good luck and report back.

[–]sjswander94[S] 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Thanks for the input. I think long term and sometimes I have to make sacrifices short term for the greater good. I’m in sales and basically I had some shit go down at my old firm and basically had to start over. I’m only 25 so it’s not like I have kids going hungry, but still I’m feeling the financial stress. I’ve e built up the business successfully in the past I will do it bigger and better this time around. However it doesn’t happen over night and my bills are outrageous so 2k a weekend would give me a little breathing room. Trust me I’m all about retiring early and living the good life. Appreciate the advice cheers!

[–]Nergaal 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

check it out and make sure you have an exit strategy: tell them you will test it and if the old ladies creep you out, gtfo and don't look back. just wear protection

[–]sehns 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is going on a 'date' once or twice a week really going to prevent OP from doing all that shit? Making 2k extra a week drastically help towards building a business or a skill. The two things are linked. I think you guys are overthinking this

[–]1Scriptopeia 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

2k a weekend is fucking insane. Like even if that's his only income that's 8k a month. More than enough for a "side business" that takes maybe a few hours each week.

[–]Red_Raze 48 points49 points  (3 children) | Copy

It's sounds lucrative as fuck. Make sure you don't get assfucked (figuratively) by the agency or people hiring you.

[–]sjswander94[S] 15 points16 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yea I’m not paying them shit. This isn’t an aspiration of mine just a way to make quick$.

[–]Red_Raze 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Hope it works out. You'd be getting paid for getting more experience. Win-win

[–]sjswander94[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks! Yea that’s the goal here. I can’t imagine how much it will benefit my game. Hopefully a lot!

[–]Chicagolax 140 points141 points  (4 children) | Copy

OP going to wake up in an ice bath w missing organs

[–]sjswander94[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children) | Copy

I fucking hope not lol

[–]wr4l 38 points39 points  (1 child) | Copy

OP getting pimped by old friend

[–]throwitdownman 21 points22 points  (1 child) | Copy

Male escorts, like male pornstars, generally don’t make good money unless they do gay as well.

Your client base is a very small percentage of the population - women who are wealthy, yet unable to pick up a man at the bar. I doubt you will have a revolving door of customers.

Honestly you sound like you have already decided to take the offer, so do it and report back.

[–]sjswander94[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’m thinking along the same lines here. Yea I’m not doing gay shit fuck that. I’m not expecting beauty queens or cougars. But if some 60 year old fat chick wants to pay me for good convo and to show me off at a charity event or something like that I’m all for it. Hopefully that’s the case,I guess will find out.

[–]maddisser101 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Def sketch but do it lol

[–]revaforce 44 points45 points  (11 children) | Copy

Sounds like a trap, proceed with caution

[–]sjswander94[S] 16 points17 points  (8 children) | Copy

I will be extremely cautious. I know it’s legit he’s an old friend who wouldn’t set me up for some nonsense. He didn’t pressure me or anything basically just gave me an offer. Any experience with this?

[–]Spaghetti1776 4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

Haven’t been red pilled in friends yet? You can be friends with someone for 10 years and they’ll rat you out to one of your chicks for cheating then try and fail to fuck her.

[–]sjswander94[S] 11 points12 points  (3 children) | Copy

What? You just have shitty friends. My boys aren’t desperate cucks.

[–]Spaghetti1776 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy


[–]sjswander94[S] 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

I’m not like that. I’d never fuck a friends ex. As a matter of fact I had the opportunity multiple times and never capitalized. I can get pussy else where no need to look through my boys trash bin.

[–]Spaghetti1776 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

The point is don't trust a man more just because he's a man.

[–]PrettyHateSmooshing 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

it sounds like the dude is going to try to make some money off hooking this guy up. he might not even be actually escorting, just finding other guys that he can pimp.

[–]sjswander94[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Na he’s escorting I know for a fact. Family friends so I know some details of what he’s been up to through his father. Basically he cut off relations with him bc of the fact he is a male escort.

[–]fanartaltmanfartsalt 1 points [recovered]  (5 children) | Copy

If something sounds too good to be true - it usually fucking is.

[–]LethalShade 8 points9 points  (4 children) | Copy

Would you do it for 2k a night? It could be worth it.

[–]fanartaltmanfartsalt 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

Have you ever fucked an older woman that you're not attracted to before?

It's awful. They're desperate, and want validation from you. They really just serve to show how little game women in general have (ie - if I flash my tits he'll want to fuck me! if I scream like a banshee when he touches my knee, he'll know I'm horny!) and everything about them is worse: drier mouth, tits/ass feel half deflated, smell worse, taste worse, just worse.

Of course, maybe you're into that and more power to you if so. But for the majority of guys, it's not a good experience once they get too old.

[–]LethalShade 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yikes, thank you for the description. No, I have not.

[–]flying-backflip 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Dude, for 2k its worth. Just take a shower with them before. You're not there to have the best fuck of your life lol, you're there to entertain them.

[–]ReformSociety 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Haven't you seen, "Get Out"?

Your friend isn't your friend. A 78 year-old is living in his body.

You're next.

[–]thrwy75479 38 points39 points  (9 children) | Copy

Women don't have to pay for sex, or to "muscle worship" men. Also, male escorts don't get paid much, you can check this on escort sites.

This means, if it does happen, the money is for something else, perhaps to keep your mouth shut, and maybe to do extra weird shit. Maybe they'll force you to fuck other guys in front of them, or some other freaky "Eyes Wide Shut" bullshit.

Sounds like it would be fun as a try anything once thing. Your life, your call.

[–]sjswander94[S] 24 points25 points  (5 children) | Copy

Lmao eyes wide shut. I’d be fucking terrified if I walked into a satanic ritual or some wild shit like that. I realize that normal woman don’t have to pa. But let’s be honest here we aren’t talking about your average hot chick using these services. In my head I’m picturing Barbra front the shark tank minus the celeb status. Old wrinkly and rich.

[–]sehns 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Mate, honestly from reading your comments you seem a bit too young/skittish/nervous for this gig. I'm not trying to be a cunt, honestly.. but it goes without saying you need to have a pretty solid mindset and attitude to do this. But try it, it might harden your attitude up a bit.

[–]EnemyAsmodeus 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

A satanic ritual is preferable to getting your organs taken or being forced to be a drug mule or some other worse things I won't say out loud.

Sometimes things can be more disappointing and scary than fucking old obese ladies... And if so, you should report it to the FBI.

[–]unamedasha 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Dude barb can get it wtf, youre in for much worse

[–]sjswander94[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Dude barb is a fossil! Lauri can get it!

[–]unamedasha 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Greaterbird 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Eyes wide shut is pretty tame by modern standards

[–]0010110101102011 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

i fucking love that movie

[–]sjswander94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

OP got an offer to be a hooker from a pimp. Lol, op you're a "gentleman of the night"

Do it.

[–]BrodinsOats 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

OP is the midnight cowboy


[–]lukesterboi1 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

... if this was in Vegas it would be semi-believable but even then I'd be careful dude, escorting is a shady business regardless of sex. Don't get drugged, kidnapped, or murdered

[–]sjswander94[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Actually he says that if I want to make the most I’d have to take trips to Vegas. I live in NYC so it’s not like I’m in some town in the middle of bumble fuck Nebraska. Yea that’s obv not what I want to happen. I know that he’s doing this. I know he’s making money. What I don’t know is how much and what does he have to do. I’m not willing to fuck 70 year old dried up snatch.

[–]failingtheturingtest 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

"this will totally help my confidence" - every woman who ever got into stripping, porn, prostitution. That's why prostitutes, strippers and pornstars are known for their confidence and high self worth.

Do not do this to improve confidence. Do it only if you have an over-abundance of confidence.

[–]aDrunkenWhaler 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Do it only if you have an over-abundance of confidence.

If he would have this, he wouldn't even consider doing this shit.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

Does anyone have experience with this? Is it worth it? Are those prices accurate? Is he lying about not having to fuck his clients?

What have you got to lose? They're not going to ass rape you. And if they do, charge them double.

I think this could skyrocket my confidence to the stratosphere

It won't.

[–]sjswander94[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

I was hoping being “worshipped” might give me new perspective. Who knows...

[–]ArnoldT1000 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Old ugly women worshipping you isn’t that much of a confidence booster.

[–]sjswander94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yea I guess your right. None the less it’s cool that woman would pay me just because I’m yolked lol.

[–]ac714 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like an episode of It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia.

I say do it. Don’t be a bitch

[–]MR_SKINNYPENIS69 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hell yes take it. Men take risks, take this one.

At the very least you'll have a decent story to tell.

[–]ZeppKfw 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I sometimes do this with my small business and just offer some acquaintances/friends a gig or something. You can't do everything yourself and he's probably getting a lot of money anyways. I'd say give it a shot as long as you don't position yourself where you invest too much.

Tell us how it goes man. Gl on that.

[–]sjswander94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks appreciate the input!

[–]aDrunkenWhaler 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

2k per night and 6k per weekend... that's 16k per week, roughly 70k per month. Let's say he takes several days off, and only earns 50k per month. That's 600k per year. Is your friend a millionaire? Does he have a huge house, paied up front? Does he drive a Porsche? Does he wear a Rolex and designer clothes? Does he have investments, stocks, side businesses, multiple appartments for rent etc? He could have all that in less that 2 years of work, maybe even in 1. If he doesn't, he's full of shit.

[–]sjswander94[S] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

He doesn’t get that much work he does 2 weekends a month if he can. He told me 6k from fri-sun night.thats 12k a month and yes he does actually have a nice car and a nice apartment.

[–]aDrunkenWhaler 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fair enough. He's still fucking grannies for money though, and that will stick with him forever. To each his own.

[–]ntkstudy44 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Personally I wouldn’t advise going down this route. Just because of the fact that if you get caught your professional career is gone. Having prostitution on your record isn’t something you can talk out of with an employer.

I’d rather focus on building my career for the long term, this is an example of settling for an instant dopamine release.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy

2K a night is too much,unless you do like 4 clients i dont see how. also These jobs usually also involve offers from married wealthy women and i know some people who have ended up dead or really fucked up mentally and physically. Dont imo.

[–]sjswander94[S] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

If I was to go through with it I would do it at public place only. I’ll see what price I get. I was told one night can be 3-6 hours and range from 200-350$ an hour. So it could be as low as 750$ and as high as 2k.

[–]PrettyHateSmooshing 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't think it's as dangerous as these blokes are trying to portend. You meet in a public place and you go with your gut from there. It's going to be hard for one of them to overpower you.

here's the real rub -- it's easy for most women to get dick. these women are going to be hideous and they are going to want to fuck. fyi.

[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points  (1 child) | Copy

its as if you are keen on getting shot by their husbands of something weird.

[–]sjswander94[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yea dude that’s what I’m looking for. To be shot dead. The reality is that male escorts do exist. Yes it’s shady yes I should be weary. I’m not meeting in a dark ally somewhere. Hell I wouldn’t even go to a hotel only lublic venues.

[–]sjswander94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Damn thanks

[–]ChadTheWaiter100 5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

I have trouble believing he gets paid 2k a night when there are so many men who would fuck for free, even juice heads.

[–]sjswander94[S] 5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

He does the full weekends only books 2x a month. Bro he’s not smashing hot chicks here. Who the fuck is fucking a granny for free?

[–]Nergaal 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

tell your bro to show you pics of a typical booking

[–]ChadTheWaiter100 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Understandable. I also understand that most men would fuck anything. So again I don’t understand why anyone would pay BUT I do believe you. Believing, was not the proper word to use initially.

[–]Diabolo_Advocato 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

There’s your problem... the way you are thinking about how this works...

  1. A muscled dude who normally wouldn’t have trouble landing an 8+ will not normally be willing to entertain a post-wall 50+ year old that pulls a 6 while trying.

  2. The men that will “jump anything” are not the quality or pedigree these rich women want to show off as arm candy.

  3. These rich women don’t want or even have the time to find the attractive men who would entertain them. So they hire someone to find the guys for them.

  4. It’s entertainment, a prostitute and an escort offer only similar services but are distinctly different in the roles they play. One offers the boyfriend/girlfriend experience while the other is just a living Sex toy, as such prices are much different.

Anyone can fuck, it takes certain skills and assets to entertain.

[–]DerpJungler 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

It's actually legit but depends where you live. Wealthy men and women pay big cash for muscle worship/strip tease/oil and touch etc.

Be aware tho, you might end up in a g4p (gay 4 pay) business and before you know, you are getting pounded and recorded for a pornsite film. (see: Artemus Dolgin or smth)

Learn more about it and make sure that friend of yours aint a talker. You'd be surprised.

I also know a guy from r(slash)bodybuilding that does striptease and pole dancing in rich clubs and he makes a bank out of it.

[–]sjswander94[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Solid! G4p is the thing i was most worried about. That ain’t happening idc how much they offer.

[–]RiseAndGrind7 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Watch your drinks, or you might not have a choice...

[–]sjswander94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Good point. I’ll be weary.

[–]Savior1666 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

I'd try it, if it doesn'T work you can get clients yourself. Make a few business cards, go to high end hotel bars and meet lonely ladies there, chat them up, tell them you're a male escort, give them your card with your prices and go from there. Had a friend tell me about doing thisl

[–]sjswander94[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Only thing about going solo is you legit have no backup. I could easily get myself into a shitty predicament no matter how cautious I am.

[–]Savior1666 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'd be more afraid of your friend fucking you over than a 110lb woman.

The woman is supposed to pay upfront and pay for all expenses on the date. If she's willing to do that why would she waste all that time to hire someone to steal it back?

Your SMV has to be high enough to pull this off anyway. Meaning you're physically muscular and attractive.

I mean, honesty, women sell their pussy and them blow all their money on B.S., That's why pimps are always in high demand, so they can lead and direct the hoes(that's a different post but still) Women have all kinds of needs, Escorts give women a need that they can't get usually (not sexual at the start.) You're basically giving women a date. Sex doesn't usually even happen the first time(that's not what she's really paying you for). Sometimes it does though, but a bad escort is pretty much someone who chases the sex instead of pleasing the woman(i.e. making her "FEEL").

[–]sjswander94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Right that’s what I was hoping. I really don’t have any problem showing a girls genuinely good time. & Yes my SMV is high enough to do this I’m chiseled have mass with a good looking face.

[–]comu_nacho 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

First of all, be sire you don't get an STD, don't impregnate anyone. I don't believe the amount offered, unless you have a 30 cm dick and do men also.

My dad had 2 friends in the 80's with sugar mommies, and their group of friends told stories (decades later) how ugly and old were the women, and the embarasing shit they had to do. It was more about the boosting their egos than the sex, feeling seduced. They had to pretend to be big shots with deep pockets and take them to upscale places (that's how their friends found out). They were decadent places, as there was curfew in the country, so the places closed for the night. Lots of drugs. The worst was they ended up in the same places tha the political police's agents (a big no-no). I never knew them, only know stories about them.

They kept their kidneys, lost street cred.

[–]sjswander94[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ok good anecdote. I’m not worried about my street cred, and I have no problem saying no at the risk of not getting paid.

[–]lord_ah 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nothing wrong with giving it a shot...

[–]SeasonedRP 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I strongly suspect that male clients are part of the deal. That's primarily whom male escorts service. When I've heard about "muscle worship" (or bears), it is in the context of gay men. The notion that there are all these wealthy women who hire young male escorts is largely fictional. It happens, but there isn't a huge demand for it. Women aren't like gay men and don't react to the same stimuli.

[–]NoFaithInThisSub 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

what was the old saying that most gynecologists become gay?

You gonna see the worst of the worst ways, and it will warp you.

I wouldn't do it ever.

[–]sjswander94[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I think it’s safe to say that I’m not going to be turning to dick regardless of what happens. Never even considered that fuck. Good point. Could totally give me some fucked up trauma if I’m not cautious.

[–]NoFaithInThisSub 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

not saying you are mate, but why expose your self to the worst, we already know what they are like. My recommendation is never do that. Ultimately your choice, but a big 110% no from me.

Mental health is as important as physical health.

[–]sjswander94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fair enough good point to consider!

[–]bestsparkyalive 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Fuck man sounds like an experience and a half. Just stay safe . Make sure someone you trust knows what you’re up to and your whereabouts. A good friend who won’t judge you.

[–]sjswander94[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Sound advice. Yea I already let 2 of my boys know, if I go through with it they’ll have my location on my phone and will be nearby if I need them.

[–]bestsparkyalive 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Right on man I wish you the best. We’d love to hear back about your adventures.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (12 children) | Copy

Having a joke at your expense. Don't be so gullible lol.

[–]sjswander94[S] 2 points3 points  (11 children) | Copy

Listen if it is as some rando I’d be like gtfo. But I’ve known this dude since I’m 10 years old. And he’s already doing it. Maybe I’m gullible maybe it’s legit.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (10 children) | Copy

If something sounds too good to be true, it usually is.

[–]sjswander94[S] 1 point2 points  (9 children) | Copy

I agree 100%. If it was hot chicks paying for play I’d call bullshit. It doesn’t seem far fetched that a wealthy divorced middle aged woman wants a young jacked dude to hangout with. I guess I’ll have to find out myself. Either way I’ll be cautious.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (8 children) | Copy

I seriously doubt you'll do this but good luck. You never know.

[–]sjswander94[S] 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy

We will see. I’m weighing my options thinking I’ll try it 1 time to verify. Like you said, you never know.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

May as well dude.

[–]CSauceHockey 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

Old friend or not, these are exactly the situations where you find your old friend wants to cut you up into pieces and scatter you over town.

[–]sjswander94[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

But I mean. Male escorts do exist it is a real thing. I’m very cautious . You guys are making me second think this.

[–]CSauceHockey 3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

They exist through agencies, not an old friend telling you to go somewhere and get easy money. Why doesn’t he go himself to get that money?

[–]sjswander94[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

It is an agency....

[–]flatox 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well i guess this is all about what kibd of man you are.. or aren't.

Personally, i'd never go that low but hey, you do you.

[–]Irtotallynotrobot 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy


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