What are your top 3 red pill truths?

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Title What are your top 3 red pill truths?
Author MichaelLifeLessons
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Date 12 November 2019 04:36 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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Link https://theredarchive.com/post/294899
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[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (4 children) | Copy

  • Status is king

  • It's just your turn

  • Focus on yourself

All of the above feed into 1) Lift and 2) Focusing on building your empire. Making yourself your mission rather than chasing women pays monumental dividends both immediately and later in life. But it takes work and a lot of people are lazy and won't follow through (eg Blue Pill and losers who played at being Red Pill but threw in the towel one way or another).

IF you stick to your guns and achieve your goals, then you'll set up a legacy that nobody can take away from you AND women will seek your attention instead of the other way around.

Additionally, you'll never run out of women who want to be with you, however briefly they stick around, and you'll have access to much hotter and younger women than what you'd be able to get with otherwise. See also: Hugh Hefner and Gianluca Vacchi.


  • They may not like it, but they will share you with other women if you follow the above
  • Women of all ages are The Most Responsible Teenager in the House
  • They'll never love you the way you want to be loved

[–]FattiesMakeMeGag402 points403 points  (6 children) | Copy

She’s not yours it’s just your turn.

She will never love you like you want her to.

Never show weakness.

[–]ForeverImproving135 points136 points  (4 children) | Copy

Nah mate, I'm not hers, it's just her turn.

[–]Bobolink91179 points80 points  (0 children) | Copy

Cause you're the mothafuckin prize homie

[–]Inyox30 points31 points  (0 children) | Copy

Keep slaying king

[–]_DonDraper_2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This tbh. But I kinda feel bad for them, whenever a girl thinks she "snatched" me, I eventually get bored and I drop her. :(

[–]1Red_Pill_Brotherhood0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Saved comment. Nice.

[–]1Red_Pill_Brotherhood31 points32 points  (0 children) | Copy

Excellent 3.

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[–]trancedj34 points35 points  (4 children) | Copy

Solid. Fucking. Gold.

“Breathe, and be content with what is, and let things pass when they don't go your way. That is the path to strong frame.”

I believe this is also the path to happiness. Being grateful for everything while practicing non-attachment literally changed my life. It’s easier said than done, being grateful for the corvette sitting in my garage is easy. Being grateful for the woman who nearly destroyed my life is a whole other level. And once I learned to be grateful for it all, my world shifted. It’s much easier to maintain a solid frame and find happiness when you take responsibility for everything in your life.

Great post.

[–]aiberdeen2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Can you recommend any further reading on the topic of being grateful? I think this is something I maybe lack

[–]holyrasta0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Did anybody save the post? I diddent read it.

[–]marcon125911 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

[–]holyrasta0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thx bro

[–]Radinax8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Probably the best comment I have read this year. Thank you

[–]kdnthedon5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm glad I took the time to read this, very insightful my friend. I appreciate you for explaining this all to us!

[–]SirWrangsAlot9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Such a good write-up it deserves its own post. Solid info here.

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[–]decoide2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks for taking the time to post this.

[–]ArnoldT10004 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I shed a manly tear after reading this.

[–]jackandjill222 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I like #2.

[–]deleteriousAnimal2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]unn4med1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you for writing the most balanced response on TRP I’ve ever seen. Good stuff man.

[–]Snowboard181 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Think is could be the best comment I’ve read on this sub.

[–]marcon12591 point2 points  (15 children) | Copy


[–]Szechuan_Nugget4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Anyone has a screenshot or something? The archive link doesn't work

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[–]i-am-the-prize3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Here it is: http://archive.is/wtILj now

[–]holyrasta0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Dude I need this. Can't open .

[–]marcon12591 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Gotcha. In that case, screenshotted

[–]holyrasta0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

So you have this comment screenshotted? I would like to read it.

[–]TheBunk_TB0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

It is unfortunate that we have surfed into this these days.

[–]nixon9930 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Do you have screenshot of the comment its deleted

[–]TheBunk_TB0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Im not completely sure. I feel like I am in a memory hole. I am hoping that someone has a link to the erased reddit or whatever its called these days.

[–]PirateWave0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Been taking red pills for a year. Read and watch so much content. Eyes open wider then the Atlantic. And yet I would struggled to find anything that encapsulates trp more than this comment.

[–]Wobblewobblegobble0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The greatest comment I’ve seen on Reddit

[–]E9er122 points123 points  (13 children) | Copy

1) it’s just your turn with her at the moment. 2) personality will make pick up easier 3) women want sex too, don’t feel bad asking for it

[–]philltered26 points27 points  (2 children) | Copy

Point 3 - but they gotta gatekeep it for the best mate they can find, so no point literally asking. Make yourself attractive enough and they won't mind opening the gates for you.

And trp is much more than women and pickuo. YOU are the most important one in this strategy. Focus on your growth.

[–]E9er11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

they gatekeep it from losers, betas, orbiters! let’s be real! not from everyone in the planet! or just me perfect! if you have game or can play her right! SHE WILL GIVE YOUUUUU HER PUSSY! regardless of her principles!!! let’s not be confused about this! they don’t just throw it out at everyone (even if they’re craving cock) because no girl wants to be seen or feel or labeled as slut!! even if she is! so she pretends her shit is off limit! only for the best!! but it’s not it’s available to the one willing to come after it and put work in! you just gotta know how to bypass and open her up! with game/personality/kino! no matter how holy she thinks she is and her pussy been of rarest thing! she will give it up when you do it right! not just best mate! that’s an illusion you and they think exist “ the perfect mate” or “ the one “ nah it’s the first one that has the game to open her up! it could even be you! no girl will throw it at you you have to go get it. (all this disregarding actual sluts who throw it freely) so don’t feel like she is impossible although there will always be those who think their shit don’t smell so you will never hit 100% no guy is perfect! but perfecting your game through TRP tactics will raise your percent higher and higher! and been attractive remember is subjective!!!! not just been full of muscles! i HIGHLY believe personality and who you are is more important and the real attractive! it’s why you see guys who are not in shape get pussy too! they brake the whole been good looking theory!!

goodluck man!! remember girls are humans too not godly creatures unapproachable better higher than you! NAHHH most or some are below you waiting for you to come conquer them and give them a hell of a time!! (this is known as confident)

[–]send_it_for_the_boys0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

“it’s not about being mr. right.....it’s about being mr. right now”

[–]mickey__1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

personality will make pick up easier

what made you write this? Did you learn it on the hard way? And what did you mean by it? I have that problem

[–]E9er17 points18 points  (2 children) | Copy

i saw this was the biggest key to getting girls. yeah kinda learned it late. i was getting in shape had some money to go out. could say hi to girls but would choke and didn’t know what to say after how to carry a convo. i thought just looking good was enough. like here i am give me pussy. but nah. then i saw person X, he was a stud too in shape except i always saw girls laughing with him always mesmerized like the fuck. then his friend too except he was short and not as in shape yet had a nice big booty gf, like the fuck... got pissed and started giving up. got chubby but focused on work. started reading trp and misc. and found out girls are addicted to their emotions. whoever controls their emotions will control her. even if you don’t look as good you will mostly get a bypass. controlling her emotions meant how you make her feel and by that means MAKE HER FEEL GOOD! if you’re the one doing it she will relate good times WITH YOU! then kino it up and she’s yours!!! I remembered person X and his friend how the girls always laughed with them. lightbulb came on like woah wait what? this fact clicked! so i stared reading up on how to carry a convo, how to have some humor, how to be sarcastic (base for flirting) how to pass their shit tests, how to be in frame and how to tease them. how to punish and reward. interesting stories of things i did (hobbies, trips, family) rolled it into one big thing called personality and started using it on them. i begin by saying hi, then start caring a convo (finding common interest) and bond, then start treating them like they are not on a pedastool but i’m above them by (teasing them treating them like shit) give them small orders to follow. throw out sexual innuendos and if they reciprocate KINO HARD! at this point you should go for a number, or a date, or the KiSS! and guess what i found out so many guys are pussies they haven’t figured this out so most girls let’s call it meter on happy emotions are low so they are craving for a guy to come a refill their happy meter AKA YOUU!! (rule #3). so started doing it with 1, 2, 3 and quickly this gave me a mentality i don’t need just one i can have my pick which just thickened and solidified my game! this yielding higher results! then started catching feelings on my first conquest but realized like gravity what goes up comes down and saw other guys who could pull game/personality could have her too saw her laughing with him been googly and realized she wasn’t mine! she was mine at the moment i had her (rule #1). so i just went neutral and enjoy the conquest! now i’m starting to work out again get some muscles adding it to the equation and it’s just going UP! but i feel getting muscles is just for show to get their initial attention to make them turn heads, but the personality is what’s closing my game! I’m now in person X radars trying to talk to me because he knows i’m competition now! some of his girls come talk to me now! so i can see him trying to build an alliance! which if you do you end up becoming the cool kids and can start your circle to run whatever location aka in my situation our works social club! but nah maybe later! i’m just having fun building me! (rule # 2)

TL:TR: if you will take one thing is treat girls like they’re below you! this mindset will look like you’re confident in their eyes (instead of you worshipping them on a pedastool) i now treat day 1, or supervisors, or 8/9, young or old women. THE SAME! not one is above me and it will work wonders!


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[–]Carboneraser8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not true. Good lookin loser all through highschool. Had girls approach me but I couldn't hold a conversation and just acted like a complete dick to them.

Something clicked around the age of 17 (I got addicted to heroin which gave me a plethora of life experience and made me familiar with all types of different people, also realized that women are just people too when you see them at their lowest and how pretty they used to be). I got worse looking but suddenly I was a Casanova when it came to women. No anxiety, no awkwardness,

I'm so damn cool now and it's just cause life threw something at me that built my character like a brick shithouse.

Im 1 year clean on the 22nd, now I don't look like an addict, I've got a great job and I'm killin it on the field.

[–]nzx106 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Looks are good enough for initial attraction, your personality will make things much easier with escalating and not getting women turned off.

[–]LSDparade0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'll give you a helpful tip that aligns with this. Find your passion. Be competent at something and be better at it than anyone else.

In social group dynamics everyone puts in a type of energy into the group that everyone benifits from. A skill/personality. Whether it be the comedian of the group, the cook, the musician, etc. It gives you plenty to talk about and your confidence will be backed by the skill and passion. very attractive.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

What about couples that DO stay together forever? Doesn't that eliminate number one 1 from always being the case?

[–]E9er0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

i figured you’d ask yeah that’s a different story! all this i mentioned above i feel is just to pick up and initiate game. BUT long term is a different strategy! keep teasing and never forget why you got with her! the minute you get bored of her someone else won’t and done deal! but even then remember girls can promise loyalty but except they aren’t controlled by logic and rational like we are. they are emotional bound driven so if you lose that you lost her!

[–]_DonDraper_-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

"Ask" is not the right word though. Make them want you enough, then they don't mind you "taking" it.

[–]E9er-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

yes sir! i stand corrected! this is more accurate! these broads want to give it to you. smart bro

[–][deleted] 61 points62 points  (2 children) | Copy

Men are always loved conditionally. Don't become complacent.

Women will have a much easier time getting over you than you think. Don't get blindsided by how fickle they are.

Nobody cares about your pain or your plans. Show them results.

(bonus number 4: the only exception to any of these is your mother. She is your first experience of humans and women and she will make you expect the same from other women, but don't be fooled. She is the only human being who genuinely cares about you. Don't ever expect it from any other human in life).

[–]Bone_Coat15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nobody cares about your pain or your plans. Show them results.

exactly this. women want a man that is well prepared & ready for the world, you may have potential but if you're just starting your path of life, women will not appreciate that, they can't because it's in their nature.

even if you are poor today but become millionare in 5 years in the future, they want that abundance from a man RIGHT NOW, so you're not in the map.

[–]MotorsportEnthusiast159 points160 points  (32 children) | Copy

  1. AWALT.
  2. Get on your purpose ASAP.
  3. Looks matter way more than you think they do.

[–]asskisser6 points7 points  (5 children) | Copy

How do you find this fabled purpose

[–]philltered6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

By fumbling around many different purposes and seeing which one you naturally enjoy, are efficient, and most valued at.

That being said, the purpose is always YOU.

[–]i-am-the-prize0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

seems oddly obvious, but try stuff.

i found mine, professionally, when I actually left a lucrative job in a field I didn't like and I went white collar to blue collar and went back to school. That field wasn't for me in the end, but for the first time in my life, I chose vs. being chosen. It started a cascade of choices, by me, for me. Some were 'wrong' but they didn't stress me out, I was relieved as I "crossed things off my list" happy I was narrowing the list down.

[–]asskisser0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

What did you end up with?

[–]i-am-the-prize1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Founding/Owning a consulting firm, in a different industry. But this first industry was my first vertical of clients. Not where I thought I'd end up, but trying/striving/effort was the key, not "guessing right the first time"

[–]asskisser1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you. Keep going my friend...

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (16 children) | Copy

Being attractive isn't something you do, it's something you are.

[–]beardestbird26 points27 points  (4 children) | Copy

Yeah so I can 545 lbs and be attractive?

[–]btrpb56 points57 points  (0 children) | Copy

You are a whale.

[–]1ForeverNandrolone5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yes if it’s 500# of muscle

[–]Solid-Sloth18 points19 points  (1 child) | Copy

Chief that ain't attractive or healthy lmao.

[–]thrwy754795 points6 points  (5 children) | Copy

It's both. There are unattractive behaviours as well.

An extreme example would be picking your nose at the dinner table, doubt any girl would go through with a date after seeing that.

[–][deleted] 26 points27 points  (4 children) | Copy

Idk man, If Brad Pitt publicly picked his nose I'm sure girls would still be lining up to fuck him

[–]NewReligionIsMySong10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy

True, but Brad Pitt also established himself, and has so much prior social proof that he can afford to make a great deal of mistakes.

If we could take someone as handsome a Brad Pitt, but completely unknown, and he picked his nose in a bar full of women who didn't know him, he would significantly drop his chances of fucking girls unless he played his game decently.

Women will overlook some degree of social flaws if other women keep telling her "he's attractive. he's attractive". That's easy to have happen if you're attractive and in a place where the only thing women know about you are your looks. If you keep fucking it up with social faux pas and enough women catch on, then sure, it might effect you.

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[–]i-am-the-prize2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

He just has 0.001% facial aesthetics,

and he had an 8pack/ABS and was cut/lean. people remember fight club... but i remember a girl i was dating and another i was fwb at work, when thelma and louise came out and they both said they'd gladly get scammed by someone that hot.

[–]thrwy754792 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It doesn't make the behaviour attractive. It only means they would excuse it in light of other desirable factors.

[–]Flux_74 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

You’re retarded lmao.

There are objectively attractive masculine features that if you lack, will make getting women MUCH harder.

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[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points  (2 children) | Copy

You're retarded.

Dont be bluepill delusional that a HB10 male is the same in SMV as a HB5. Sure confidence and not being socially autistic helps, but its not the be-all

[–]jrr6415sun5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

You sound like you’re in high school when you start arguments like that.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

and you sound like a chump if you are too stupid to understand what I mean by repeating Flux_7

[–]majani6 points7 points  (7 children) | Copy

The supreme importance of looks, while true, is more of blackpill than redpill. Redpillers are still quite delusional about this, just check this subreddit and see how the advice circulates around improving game to attract women.

[–]i-am-the-prize5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

the reasons it's posted about, are

1) because Game is more improvable, vs. facial looks/beauty which is more static

2) because you can lift and get muscular and lean, which does help a lot in both "before you open your mouth" and givng her tingles, it's been documented plenty that women rate men's looks as part of an overall package, not the sole/top thing (like we rank women with)

3) think of the audience size. if 5% of the men are the 'best facial looking' yet 100% of the men could improve Game regardless of their starting point, you have a wider audience/consumers of posts on how to improve your Game.

What can you do for your face other than:

  • getting leaner
  • healthy skin
  • better teeth/dental health
  • ? mewing ? or some esoteric stuff like that?

[–]Truedemocracy54 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Hair on your head and facial hair.

[–]i-am-the-prize0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

good catch

[–]majani1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

First of all, looks is a very deep subject if you want to get it right and worthy of multiple in depth discussions. Secondly, game does not attract, game determines the woman's behavior towards you AFTER she has selected you.

[–]i-am-the-prize2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

yup. i've posted about this before, maybe it was the Models book, but the author said: (paraphrasing) "...if she sees you approaching, within 1.5 seconds she's made up her mind if she's going to interact with you, before you open your mouth, based on how you look"

this is why i have "take up space / don't have head on a swivel" under "looks" and not "game" on my longer post on this page, so i'm with you, looks are pre-contact-selection traits, post contact, Game and Frame. If you're talking to her and she's actually interracting, you've passed the "good looking enough" test.

[–]Truedemocracy52 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

It’s the black pillers in delusion. Majority of Guys can become top 20% in looks by lifting

[–]i-am-the-prize0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

they can, 'bod wise', and getting below 15% BF. combine lean and strong/built and it's like catnip.

[–]Friendly-Casper85 points86 points  (5 children) | Copy

Women are Hypergamous and Men are Polygamous
80% of Men are unattractive to Women
Men are Idealists when it comes to love and Women are Opportunists when it comes to love.

[–]majani9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy

I honestly wonder whether 80% of men are unattractive on a genetic level, or whether most men are simply not trying. Honestly men are so oblivious to their looks, even red pilled men who think lifting is everything.

[–]catsdontsmile14 points15 points  (2 children) | Copy

It's 100% lack of trying. Being attractive as a man has little to do with genetics. Dress well, work out, get a peaky blinders haircut, wear glasses and cover half your face with a beard and there you go.

[–]PickUpScientist3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

every species has picky women. its not a bug, its a feature. but yeah, these days its pretty easy to get to the 80th percentile. shit, just being a healthy weight gets you to the 70th.

[–]WhoSweg1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Us balding lads have to keep it shaved/short though, so haircut is even more important in a sense.

[–]botanicalroots22 points23 points  (2 children) | Copy

never self deprecate

never chase the girl your emotions need to be unclear

women run on emotion not on logic

[–]Truedemocracy51 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Love the first one. I used to use self depreciation all the time as a form of humor. It is absolutely a sign of low self esteem unless used sparingly.

[–]botanicalroots0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This cost me rejectrion and disrespect of one of my crush, for wich i developed ONEITIS, i thought she was different, but I learnt unicorns dont exist, AWALT.... I had never lost frame like this time, which in turn got me insulted by ONEITIS, nonetheless I HARD NEXTED and ghosted in due time, but damage was already done, never to be undone...

[–]LordFa916 points17 points  (4 children) | Copy

Briffault's law is real

Hypergamy doesn't care

The world is a matriarchy and we who have a Y chromosome must learn to survive in a world where the odds are stacked against us from birth

Every other idea is just a derivative

UPDATE: #4: The hamster is the only truly unstoppable force in the world but the'res only room for 3

[–]jackandjill221 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

You have to be blind not to notice #1.

[–]LordFa91 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Naw some schmucks still think she likes them for them

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You have to be an idiot bro. It's crazy if you can't see how practical women are with their choices.

[–]1Red_Pill_Brotherhood36 points37 points  (0 children) | Copy

None of these are news to anyone but...

1)Women aren't inherently loyal.

2)The game is about YOU. Prioritize yourself and what you want.

3)Focus on your purpose.

[–]MichaelLifeLessons[S] 67 points68 points  (4 children) | Copy

Frame is everything: He who owns the frame owns the game. Frame is more important than almost anything else: money/looks/status etc.

Women aren't the prize/sex isn't either - you are - but you have to internalize this and actually believe/know it. Get women off the pedestal, it's not good for you psychologically, and (most) women don't want to be put on a pedestal either

Hot women (generally) aren't any more difficult to get than average women - but you might need to tailor your game/approach differently. Assume attraction always

[–]asskisser6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

There are varying definitions of frame, what would be yours?

[–]i-am-the-prize2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'll chime in. To me, at the tactical level Frame is established and held through:

  • assertiveness,
  • being your own mental point of origin, and
  • non-reactivity to others' comments/thoughts

at the strategic level, Frame is accomplished through:

  1. Mission focus
  2. Outcome independence, not giving a fuck attitude,
  3. True comfort with yourself, being fully Integrated, and
  4. Practicing Amused Mastery

[–]Megafayce5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

“You are”. Absolutely true to death. A woman can try get the upper hand by cooling it off or threatening to walk but 9/10 they will not do it

[–]Harambe4400 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

but you have to internalize this and actually believe/know it.

How do y go about doing this?

[–]frognads75 points76 points  (6 children) | Copy

  1. Lift
  2. Fuck
  3. Sleep

[–]DennisErectus18 points19 points  (4 children) | Copy

Earn Money

[–][deleted] 28 points29 points  (2 children) | Copy

Acquire currency

[–]revaforce12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

Indulge in financial gaining

[–]PickUpScientist8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

partake in monetary acquisition

[–]Bone_Coat2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

get money & fuck bitches

[–]iteal2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

3 over 2, but yeah.

[–]i-am-the-prize12 points13 points  (6 children) | Copy

A lot has been written on awalt/she's-not-yours/ and the gender dynamics, so I will focus on the self.

Be the Prize. Being an Alpha is one way to be the prize. The 3 things I've learned that make up my definition of Alpha are: (1) Game, (2) Frame, and (3) looks.

(1) Game:

  • always assume attraction
  • unless there is an overt NO, there is a tacit YES
  • be exciting, different, mysterious, sexual, because you are, not because you're faking it
  • isloate and escalate
  • polarize
  • read body queues
  • kino and touch early and often
  • flirt, and interact with a relaxed confidence - like you do this all the time - you'd rather they think you're a player they tame than a loser they put up with
  • start every day with the Nice Card (game theory)
  • 1000' of rope and your Time Attention and your Resources are your Gold, do not squander or give out like trinkets.

(2) Frame:

To me, at the tactical level Frame is established and held through:

  • assertiveness,
  • being your own mental point of origin, and
  • non-reactivity to others' comments/thoughts

at the strategic level, Frame is accomplished through:

  1. Mission focus
  2. Outcome independence, not giving a fuck attitude,
  3. True comfort with yourself, being fully Integrated
  4. Amused Mastery

(3) Looks

  • Be strong, look strong
  • Be lean, look healhty
  • Dress better, not worse, if unsure how an event's dress code
  • your clothes are probably too big, unfitted, fix that
  • hygene, hair, teeth, skin, nails, odor - they matter
  • Archetypes of attraction that resonate with females:
    • broad shoulders, narrow waist
    • [upper body] size compared to them
    • eye contact during speaking
    • talk slower, from the diaphragm, not quickly and whiny from the throat
  • take up space
  • do not be a puppy with head on a swivel, you are the one to be looked at, not the one gawking over others.

[–]Truedemocracy50 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Question on lean and strong. How do you recommend getting both? Strength requires bulking and weight gain, which goes against being lean. What body fat do you work with?

[–]i-am-the-prize0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I found that consuming more calories than my base BMR while keeping sugars ultra llow works. i've been losing fat (BF% and gross amount) while putting on muscle. I eat 1G of protein per pound of 'projected' lean body mass (ie: what i want to reasonably be) then keep my carbs/sugars below 45G for the day (never more than 15G per sitting) and control calories by modulating fat intake.

i think the mutually exclusive 'gain/cut' is from a carb-eaters point of view, yes a lot of calories via carbs causes insulin spikes and glucose becoming fat.

[–]Truedemocracy50 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I struggle gaining strength and having energy without carbs. My carbs come from sweet potatoes and quinoa though - healthy foods

[–]i-am-the-prize0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

it can take some time to become 'fat adapted' don't think full keto either. look up "marks daily apple" (mark sisson) on slow carb and becoming fat adapted. unless you're really really rare, you don't need carbs like you think you do. humans can make them in the liver if needed (from protien). whereas we 'need' protien and fat.

some carbs on very high intensity days (days you dumped serious glycogen out of your muscles) can be nice boost. the items you mention are higher in fiber, so some of the 'carbs' are not counted as 'net carbs' but still figure their sugar content (not the fiber part) in your insulin generating calcs.


[–]power_cleaner-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

Always assuming attraction is how you get people to think you’re creepy or rapey

[–]i-am-the-prize1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

no. don't be a binary thinker. obviously i mean when speaking to an attractive female and it doesn't mean salivate and grope her. but it does convey a state of mind ("she's thinking about it")

you should be able to picture this without picturing yourself "creepy or rapey" or you're projecting your hangups, not ours.

[–]SemiLoquacious32 points33 points  (3 children) | Copy

  1. Girls would rather share an alpha over having a beta all to themselves

  2. Never apologize

  3. The best way to increase your value in anyone's eyes is to decrease your availability

[–]Hungboy69694205 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

1 and 3 especially. A woman would rather have that one guys partial attention than 100 thirsty losers full attention. 3 is true. My grandma is 88 and basically immobile at home. My uncle helps her several days a week with household things. I come by once or twice a year for an hour and she won't stop talking about it for weeks.

[–]sniper19056 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

I come by once or twice a year for an hour and she won't stop talking about it for weeks.

Visit her more. That's your grandma and in the state she's in with her age, she probably isn't going to be with us for much longer. Also, u/SemiLoquacious is most likely talking about with sexual relationships, business, personal friends, and family can even come to it, but with family, especially the ones that have little time left, visit them a little bit more man. Tell grandma that you love her too as well friend.

[–]jackandjill223 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]cdh100311 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. TRP is about inner change, not tactics. (Thus making it about much more about personal development, not just Game)

  2. I should be the prize. (Don't put women on a pedestal; increase my own SMV)

  3. We live in a Matriarchy, which preferences women (and whose core strategy is to constantly present women as oppressed, in order to impose controls on male behaviour.)

[–]mustache_ride_7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

  • Men are inherently evil monkeys. Given that, women can never truly love us without resentment.

  • You're not "conquering women" with your aggressive negging playa-shit, you're only validating their secret misandrism so they can mind-fuck you later without feeling remorse.

  • Want peace of mind? Get your nut off, then get a dog. Never buy the cow.

[–]jackandjill221 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If #2 is accurate then that means be more brutal.

[–]Megafayce7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. The world is not ours, nor the environment. We belong to the planet and it will continue without us easily. (This is why I don’t like when they say “the world is in crisis”. The planet is fine, it’s just humans that are fighting)
  2. We do not have separate lives nor are separate to what’s going on in any way. There is one life and we’re all sharing it and are completely interdependent. (Think about it, what use are your lungs without trees etc. to create the oxygen to breathe? How good is your medical doctorate without someone to grow and provide food for you?)
  3. Unconscious desire and a feudalism drives 90% (not exact percentage) of people and most spend their lives asleep, chasing the next thrill or thing and don’t realise we don’t need the majority of what we have. We are idle survivalists, still looking for something (it used to be food and shelter) and now we’re being fed bullshit because we don’t know that our instincts drive our species. We’re after sex, security and shelter, that is all. We’re still primates that think we’re special but we’re just other living organisms driven by fear and lust

[–]PhaedrusHunt17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

Being red pilled means looking at situations-- any situation-- as it is and without the clouded screeen of your conditioning.

We are animals. AWALT just means all women are female human primates. Same with men. AWALT just refers to the firmware we're running on.

Be the prize (No, not you ARE the prize... BE the prize). Or, live for your FUCKING self. Everything else must follow that. This is all intertwined with frame, mission, and being the best man you can.

[–]Endorsed Contributorleftajar26 points27 points  (7 children) | Copy

In order of depth down the rabbit-hole:

  1. Alpha fucks, beta bucks. Women conceal ovulation specifically to enable a cuckoldry mating strategy.

  2. Women are less competent and generally make poorer choices than men.

  3. The elites know that, and Women's Lib is a part of a larger plan to destroy the West.

[–]Protocol_Apollo6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

It comes down to one thing really- women are extremely emotional beings.

They think emotionally rather than logically and want to follow the herd much more than men which is why they are more left wing and believe in things like feminism, multiculturalism etc.

It’s more common for a man to think against the cultural norm than a woman.

[–]shubhidoobi0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Can you further explain point 1 after AFBB?

[–]jm513 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Can you further explain point 1 after AFBB?

I'm not who you asked but this may help:

As part of a BBC doc about sex, a married couple had sex every day and gave the beeb the condom.

The wifes job had her spend a week away on a training course. As that week approached, her cycle changed and she was ovulating while away. Not any conscious decision on her part, just her body doing what it's supposed to do.

[–]Endorsed Contributorleftajar1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Most primate species don't conceal ovulation, they advertise fertility through estrus, when their genitals swell and redden.

Humans are weird, in that we're one of the (very!) few mammals that don't indicate fertility. They don't go into heat and release pheromones, they don't go into estrus. Thus we say, they "conceal" ovulation.

There are many theories as to why this is the case, one of them is to enable a cuckoldry strategy, as the woman's beta mate cannot keep track of her fertility as easily.

Many religions try to counteract this, by having things like menstrual huts, where menstruating women are banished to for the duration of the bleeding. These cultural adaptations help men to stay on top of female fertility, and have been shown to increase paternity certainty within those groups.

Dang that was way more anthropology than I intended on writing. Well hope that makes sense.

[–]i-am-the-prize0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

humans are the only primates/great apes where the woman's vulva/backside doesn't show (via color change) when she's "in heat" and humans don't quite to into heat like other animals. ergo human females can't be guarded 24x7 for 30 days (mate guarding) and if the 'actual egg drop days' is not clear, more chance she can get a different sperm to inseminate her ovum.

the idea is that the added benefit of genetic diversity bred for better results. so this trait proliferated. animals thrive because they changed, they don't change to thrive.

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol I hope #3 isn't true. Otherwise we're fucked.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I think so too. A lot of young boys/men are told that they are trans or have dysmorphia, hormones in our drink and bottled water, women get empowered in whatever they do and people left and right are telling them that they have the power to change the world. If the most influential and strongest in society are women, it’s a lot easier to overthrow society. Especially if said women think there is never space for violence etc.

[–]Cleopatrus4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

  1. In 2019, Looks/race + confidence (low inhibition) >>> everything else

  2. AF/BB. It’s both sad and funny how oblivious most dudes are to this. Probably because they think they have no other way

  3. 80/20 is now 95/5 in any major US metropolitan area, due in major part to women having gotten fatter

[–]Hungboy69694201 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

3- younger generations having less sex too. Pussy is like money - either you have none and resent those with plenty , or you have so much you don't know what to do with it

[–]Cleopatrus1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

As much as I wanted to deny it, that’s pretty much on point. I’m in a city where competition is much harder than I thought it’d be, to the point that my tall, fit, good-looking white friends from my workplace even struggle. I’m having to choose my male friends carefully, and I’m trying to slightly redpill them here and there so that we can eventually start helping each other move up

Vast majority of guys in my cohort are getting nothing whatsoever, and they aren’t all ugly either. Many are fit, but not jacked and/or noticeably good-looking, which seems to be a hard requirement to have any decent options with females now

[–]Hungboy69694200 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Those guys are probably just shit with women. Plenty of good looking dudes out there that do not have the right mindset

[–]Cleopatrus1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Tbh they’re the kind of guys that shouldn’t need heavy game though. They aren’t weird or autistic when talking to girls. Just shows how rough it’s gotten

[–]PB003461 points62 points  (7 children) | Copy

  1. This sub is a joke most of the time.

  2. You’ll die alone and for the most part live alone too.

  3. 90% of people here don’t take action it’s all mental masturbation.

[–]Adem875 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Found the Mgtow.

[–]VaN__Darkholme5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ok doomer

[–]btrpb8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

I did lolz at number 1.

  1. True. I'm divorced, alone, drinking my morning brew right now. But I'm content: it's ok.

  2. Gym day.

[–]anicebigrodforyou7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

fuck off with your negative bullshit

[–]HotelMohelHolidayInn0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

most part

Unless you become a hedonistic loser and values vidya over having a family.

[–]sniper19050 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

90% of people here don’t take action it’s all mental masturbation.

Wonder how true this is.

[–]majani0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

  1. includes even some Endorsed Contributors and Vanguard guys who are so obviously full of shit.

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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Cause most red pillers don’t understand the very concept, that this is about being your own best version. Slaying sluts is obv. Fun but meaningless if you have no passions.

Like once I asked trp about mental issues and one guy told me that I should stop worry about such shit and just chase girls like pls pls pls kill yourself

[–]Hungboy69694200 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If anything mindlessly chasing puss will make you worse off mentally

[–]Crixusgannicus3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

1) I am number 1. ALWAYS

2)Keep moving forward.

3)NEVER listen to what a woman or man for that matter says. Watch what they do or don't do.

[–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil24 points25 points  (4 children) | Copy

If your looking for summaries you are looking for shortcuts which means long term you are fucked

[–]Apfeltee2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I feel like this is a trend... everything tends to be summarized but you need the full bandwidth of content to internalize it.

[–]mrrooftops2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy


[–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Gaylubeoil Ask TRP Method: Don't answer the question. Analize the questioner via the question he asked

[–]thenowhereman360 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Jesus I love this dude.

[–]mickenrorty3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

She not yours it’s just your turn.


If you want loyalty, get a dog

[–]DonBullDor1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]-ThePathIsTheGoal-3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. FRAME is everything.
  2. She can never love you the way you want her to.
  3. She’s not yours, it’s just your turn - “the glass of already broken”. Paradoxically, internalizing this principle has increased my relationships with women across the board. The healthy detachment on my end makes them constantly chase.

[–]vodkalimesoda14 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. Purpose
  2. Everything else

[–]paul_ernst2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. The quality of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts and actions.
  2. To that end: stop moralising. Stop thinking what others should think, say or do. It's the last moral lesson anyone needs to set himself free.
  3. Also to that end: engage yourself in the ecosystem around you. If you do the same gym routine since last month, your mind is not stimulated anymore. Lift, but more importantly, find at least one sport in which your can build skill and mastery. Stimulate your neural connections in every way possible (sport, music, academics, engineering... But also just don't take the same road too often). You don't have to be a master in everything. But enriching your basic skill set is setting yourself up for a life of quality.

[–]Whitefarmer2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Red pill is reality. The closer you are to it the better life will be. Lot of comments about women because that is where we are the farthest from reality. 1 truth 2 DGAF 3 AWALT

[–]Milk_moustache2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you have a partner be their rock but find your own support elsewhere

Prettier the woman the more you’ll have to take Instagram shots

Being ugly is fixable by being strong

[–]TigerXtrm2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

  • Agree & amplify is something I get to use on an almost daily basis. It's done so incredibly much for my social standing with men and women, co-workers and friends alike. It turns a potential awkward situation into a light hearted joke and turns the tables on people making fun of you.

  • Every day interactions with women, both first and second hand (hearing the stories on radio and TV, etc.) clearly show how much they care about status over good intentions. Nice guys finish last, always. You have to bring something else to the table other than your nice guy attitude. I don't believe in AWALT as a literal thing, there are exceptions to every rule and TRP deals with a very specific kind of woman. But in general there's definite truth there.

  • Don't give a fuck. Live for yourself, please yourself before you try to please others.

[–]SpinPlates13 points14 points  (12 children) | Copy

  1. She's not yours, it's just your turn.
  2. Women value looks more so than men do/Physically appearance is 70% of game.
  3. You can't fake confidence. It must be built organically.

[–]iteal7 points8 points  (6 children) | Copy

Women value looks more so than men do

Definitely not. Hot women go for ugly ass rich guys all the time, when is the last time you saw a hot dude with a stanky ass rich girl?

[–]majani2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Settling for beta buxx is also a thing, remember?

[–]iteal0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes exactly. If you provide enough financial stability they will suck your cock.

[–]SpinPlates3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Definitely not. Hot women go for ugly ass rich guys all the time,

Mhmmm and she still cheats on him with the tall jacked guy. Jesus this place has been filled with morons in the last year or so.

[–]iteal-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

Mhmmm and she still cheats on him with the tall jacked guy. Jesus this place has been filled with morons in the last year or so.

And what about cheating contradicts my statement, that women will suck your dick if the $$ is on point?

[–]SpinPlates1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

And what about cheating contradicts my statement, that women will suck your dick if the $$ is on point?

They are both RP truths dumbass. Alpha fucks, beta bucks. This is day one shit.

[–]iteal-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Okay buddy, let me try to dumb it down for you a little bit. The starting statement was "Women care more about looks than men".

I said, no, they don't care more about looks. Women will suck your teenie weenie if you provide them with enough financial stability, social status, which are both NOT physical traits. You can run your face 10 times in a meat grinder and provide those things and bonus points if you run good game and she WILL let you use her wet hole. Your business, your social status, your game are not how you look. Ask Steve Buscemi how many women he fucked. So I guess I established that women don't care that much about how you look. *They care about how you make them look. *

On the other hand you will not see men who are top 1% attractive, settle with low 5s. Men know how much they are worth and they don't care that much about social status and financial stability because they don't need a women for it. They provide it themselves.

[–]sd_ta3-1 points0 points  (4 children) | Copy

2 is bullshit and so is 3.

This thread is about redpill truths, not soyboy fantasies.

[–]SpinPlates2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

not soyboy fantasies.

LOL. That's exactly what you're doing. Telling yourself that women do not value looks and that you can just magically fake confidence without the SMV to back it up.

That's what every fat, ugly, reddit soyboy "nice guy" loser tells himself. "Women do not mind that I'm unattractive. I can just be funny and nice and still get laid once a year"

Meanwhile the tall, muscular handsome men are fucking a new girl every week.

[–]Hungboy6969420-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

Looks matter but moreso for men when judging a woman. Don't think this is really that debatable

[–]SpinPlates0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Looks matter but moreso for men when judging a woman.

Actually no. 80/20 rule is slowly becoming the 90/10 rule. Most guys are just happy to have a girl regardless of what she looks like. The average looking skinny dude is stoked to be banging a landwhale these days. Stop and think about which gender is the chooser.

Women sit at the finish line and fuck the winners. It's not a movie. They want tall, handsome, muscular men. Just like we want youthful, full bodied, beautiful women. Except women are bombarded by so many suitors, they can actually be picky and have what they want.

Women only go for ugly men whenever they have money.

Check out this book called "Sex at dawn" by Dr Chris Ryan. It breaks down sexual evolutionary biology in humans to the point where it destroys everything you thought you knew about relationships and sex.

To put it in short. Men love romantically. Women love conditionally. And it's been that way for 100,000 years. You must supply her with resources. Either money or genetics.

[–]Hungboy6969420-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've read sex at dawn. Yes looks matter and women want the best , but that best isnt typically necessarily 95% looks as much as it is for men

[–]Nomfwic3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy


Its just your turn


[–]2INNASKILLZ2K181 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

What are yours?

[–]pragmaticminimalist1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

These are tenants I embrace at work and in life-

My TRP truths in my own speak:

The ego is not your amigo

In an uncontrolable environment, control what you CAN control

There is no safety, just less dangerous decisions/choices available to us.

Bonus- mother nature bats last- there's no extra innings and she's often fond of hitting a walk off in the bottom of the ninth....operate accordingly.

[–]Bone_Coat1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

mission is first

always assume attraction

never be needy

*bonus: she only loves you rigth now

[–]PickUpScientist1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. embrace your narcis... be confident, well-groomed/dressed. LIFT!
  2. master machiav... be ambitious, successful, a leader of men
  3. find your inner psychopa... risk-taker. be spontaneous. demonstrate high "emotional intelligence"

[–]bojack_horsemam1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm reading "The laws of human nature" by Robert Greene. Definitely recommend to everyone in this sub.

So far, my 3 favorite truths:

1- People make decisions based on their mood and current emotions. We're not as rational as we like to think.

2- Even when we make a rational decision, it's mostly based on our own experience of past situations and whether or not we learned from it.

3- Technology and social media has only fed other narcissistic impulses. People we know serve to feed us that hit of dopamine by liking our pictures, posts etc. We don't go out and "really" socialize as much as our ancestors did.

[–]mrrooftops2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. Read
  2. The
  3. Sidebar

[–]sukhera950 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Where do I find these truths?

[–]TFWnoLTR0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

1) Its your own responsibility to motivate yourself.

2) Nice guys really do finish last.

3) Never flinch.

[–]boy_named_su0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Looks uber alles
Don't try to please her
Talk to everybody

[–]Truedemocracy50 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

My 3 were some of the toughest to swallow for me but also the most important. Many are counter-intuitive, but have been proven correct time and time again based on my experience

  1. AWALT - common critique of TRP is it only works on damaged women. I’ve used it to sleep with feminists, church girls with low n counts (or so they claim), college athletes, former models, doctors, college cheerleaders, lawyers etc. It applies to everyone.

  2. Men love women, women love children, children love puppies. Basically encompasses that love flows downward respect goes upward. You will love her like she loves a child. She comes home in tears from a hard day you’ll hold her and support her. You come home in tears from a hard day she will look for a new man. Similarly, if a mom came home to her kid crying the kid would be disturbed as well

  3. Shit tests, and how to pass them. In the age of women’s rights and feminism recognizing that all of it is just a shit test to filter out weak men is key.

[–]XT3M30 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

  • dont argue with women.

this helped me alot since i used to always try to come out on top and get mad and frustrated over women trying to bicker with me. since i stopped giving them that pointless attention , my life has improved alot . seriously. when you argue, only she wins. there is no reasoning with someone who feels shes right.

  • live for you ( dont set your self on fire to warm up others)

this is one point alot of nice giys need to hear since these dudes be out there sacrificing theyre happiness for others trying to appease them but not themselves.

  • shes not yours , its just your turn.

dont get so attached. shes in it for now. even your unicorn can go thru this

[–]HellSpeed0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy



Enjoy your existence

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Never settle. Never apologize. Never give a fuck

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[–]Ohmyqueef0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

All women are whores.

Stay on your purpose.

Enjoy your turn.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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