So... my Tinder date changed her profile description after her date with me

RedHeimdall · 2015-04-17T07:19:24+00:00

She was fatter than her profile led on

Slow down... the room is spinning...

magicalbird · 2015-04-17T06:00:16+00:00

A good portion of girls prefer validation over anything sexual.

_whistler · 2015-04-17T00:55:20+00:00

"I deserve positive male attention because [hamster]."

Feminine solipsism. AWALT, attractive or not.

happyhorse_g · 2015-04-17T01:07:54+00:00

Bringing social justice issues to a date is out right bad manners.

But more than this, a lot of dates these days have no sense that you are judging them as they are, you. They view you sort of as an item they are buying, from the list of those that applied. Tinder promotes this shallowness I think.

Don't look at this as wasted time, but as a lesson learned.

nomorelulu · 2015-04-17T02:20:33+00:00

Sounds like your average Tumblr queen.

68461674897051454980 · 2015-04-17T04:56:31+00:00

Social Justice Warrior (literally using those words)

lol... wtf

I don't even know what my reaction to someone saying that to my face would be.

johnchapel · 2015-04-17T15:21:12+00:00

I don't generally post in redpill, but I will say this: Anyone into social justice, particularly females, you might as well red flag and sever immediately. SJW's are simply not fun people, and are never, ever worth your time. They might as well be fat, or suffer severe molestation issues, or be liars, or be cheating, or whatever because they are always always always a culmination of every red flag that exists. ALWAYS.

exit_sandman · 2015-04-17T13:40:47+00:00

I liked her a lot better with the profile description on the left, but wouldn't touch her with a 10 ft-pole with the second status. So yeah, if that change was caused by you, you did others a huge favor.

herewehoagain · 2015-04-17T00:49:30+00:00

You denied her. She hamstered that you didn't like her SJW status. It's no different than if she asked if you were gay. Good eye on seeing the change.

Exactly_what_I_think · 2015-04-17T04:28:29+00:00

Respect yourself enough to walk out on the fat liars.

PlanB_pedofile · 2015-04-17T13:31:25+00:00

and from then on no-one swiped right

hahahahaha Oh who am I kidding, Guys swipe right all the time.

akolyteofthecentury · 2015-04-17T01:17:45+00:00

These type of girls are on Tinder for two things: AF / BB ; Waiting for another clueless guy to shower her in attention, looking for the hawt, educated, well hung, 6' 5" stud to put a ring on her finger and cure her of her babyrabies. Poor thing, really.

Philhelm · 2015-04-17T15:09:59+00:00

Cheesy pick up lines are my favorite! Netflix is the real MVP. College is my hobby, it's sad. I read too many books. Let's go on an adventure!

See Spot run. See Spot play. It's disgusting that people are semi-literate today.

crazydave1979 · 2015-04-17T12:39:55+00:00

She will eventually take that part off. After she stops getting matches.

musicvita25 · 2015-04-17T13:38:54+00:00

Tinder is window shopping. Its how I've gotten laid for past 6 months or so. Actually got a solid few plates from there.

If a girl has bothered to write her bio out on tinder, shes already odd. Not for you to know that obviously.

mr_throwz · 2015-04-17T21:14:16+00:00

She's looking for validation and free stuff without any sexual obligation.

Nothing to see here, who cares, don't get hung up on it, move along, her fate is hers.

pl231 · 2015-04-18T07:30:27+00:00

" I don't want the D"

why the fuck are you on tinder then

PeteMullersKeyboard · 2015-04-18T21:46:27+00:00

You think this is bad? Just go on a casual browse once and look at all the profiles where you see someone who is in a relationship, their profile is all pics with their significant other, some even married (!), and with big bold letters "I AM NOT HERE TO GO ON DATES!"

It's all about validation. That's all. They clearly want the attention, it makes them feel powerful to be able to reject the beta orbiters that they'll pick up via the app.

LadyLumen · 2015-04-17T16:04:56+00:00

You got lucky. You found out about her SJW before it was too late.

garlicextract · 2015-04-17T16:41:11+00:00

Social Justice Warrior (literally using those words)

hahahhaa. That's a rock solid 'bail' criteria. I don't mean being that way (a lot of people are nowadays) but actually saying those words specifically.

Absolute_Devil · 2015-04-17T06:15:13+00:00

Lol geez what did you tell her?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2015-04-17T14:55:25+00:00

She was fatter than her profile led on. ...near the end of the date she mentioned she was a Social Justice Warrior (literally using those words). At that point I was fine with hightailing myself and my dick out of there.

Unless you and your dick were hightailing it once you saw she lied about her fatness, you never should have gotten to the "I'm an SJW!" part, unless she was shouting it at you as you left.

Willyam2010 · 2015-04-17T15:37:03+00:00

Wouldn't you think that's the opposite? An Alpha would not care what she "thinks", he would pump and dump - setting the fat liar aspect aside.

I'm not an alpha, i guess that makes me a beta, and when i see the words m'quality, justice, social something, it's a hard NEXT!

CisWhiteMaelstrom · 2015-04-17T16:19:59+00:00

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaa!

Onemanwolfpack23 · 2015-04-17T19:05:38+00:00

I had a similar thing happen. Didn't even meet up with this girl. Kept having really on/off interest via text to meet up. Finally just said (honestly) that I was too broke to date, SHE suggests "want to just hookup". Still never able to meet up. Then she changes her profile from whatever the fuck it says to something like "Classy Gal...looking for relationship, etc.".

AWALT

Dark-Ulfberht · 2015-04-17T15:36:07+00:00

I got married before mobile social media really took off.

But, God damn, when I see shit like Tinder I think of how much easier ~~dating~~ trolling for bar chicks must be than it was even five years ago. A huge part of the process used to be guessing whether someone was interested and then making an approach. It was a skill that we all get better at over time, but if we're all honest with ourselves, it failed plenty of times. In my case, I just assumed that a woman was interested and rolled with the approach regardless. If she wasn't, oh well, who gives a fuck. Some people are snipers, others machine gunners. I was the latter.

But fuck, with Tinder, you know she's into it before hand. Holy fuck, how easy is that! Now, all you have to do is close.

The only downside I see is if you're not particularly attractive. Women are going to screen the shit out of dudes on that app. However, it's not like having Tinder disallows you from approaching; it just gives you one more outlet to exploit.

pcadrian · 2015-04-17T19:52:04+00:00

If she used those exact words, she is fully aware of the red pill :)

nzgs · 2015-04-17T14:52:12+00:00

She's no different to the passive-aggressive male virgins and neckbeards who rant about how women should accept their love of manga and star wars collections. Feminists are really the gender-equivalents of male virgin losers; they all feel entitled to something rather than improving themselves to earn it.

yumyumgivemesome · 2015-04-17T21:08:11+00:00

TRP knowledge allowed me to preempt a SJW's soapbox monologue. She was already not quite vibing with me, and she finally said something about being a feminist and asked whether I was one too (probably in order for her to put the nail in the coffin as a guy she would never fuck). I quickly said that I cannot support what modern feminism has become. I laid out some of the hypocrisy, and I did it in a way that I assumed that this girl was not one of the hypocritical feminists. For example, I said something like, "A lot of feminists out there nowadays focus on the female issues while ignoring how men or boys are affected just as badly in analogous ways..." It made her have to consider whether she was a hypocritical feminist and suddenly my words were meaningful to her. And I fully credit that TRP knowledge for turning that night around into the beginning of an unforgettable weekend.

KarmaEnthusiast · 2015-04-18T03:13:08+00:00

I personally don't understand going on Tinder anymore. Maybe it's just my own abundance mentality but there are so many girls just wandering around without boyfriends who are 6+ on the scale.

No special angles or old photos can be used when you're actually looking at someone. What you see is what you get (mostly, except when the clothes come off, some girl described it as "Nature's underwear"!)

RedPill4LYF · 2015-04-18T01:32:05+00:00

This reminds me of someone I met online not long ago. I simply cannot give too much detail, but the jist of it is that she turned out to be a completely irrational social justice cunt that accused me of supporting rape culture for essentially holding her accountable to her own damn words. Thank god I never met her in person. I wish I could post the entire rundown of events and the actual walls of text she sent me because honestly it was sublime watching her lose her fucking mind trying to shame me into submission.

My biggest mistake was letting things go on as long as they did and not nexting her sooner. As funny as finally watching her brain implode on itself was, she wasted a lot of my time. She dropped a few red flags that I was willing to ignore at first because she was hot. That was my failing. Learn from me. If your gut tells you she's a hypocritical feminist thundercunt, listen to it and next that bitch immediately. You don't need to give an explanation, you don't need to waste time verifying the accuracy of your suspicions, just walk away. If she is really interested she will try that much harder to gain your approval anyway.

Maaahoney · 2015-04-17T01:11:52+00:00

So do you always screenshot your tinder before dates?

Title	So... my Tinder date changed her profile description after her date with me
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Date	April 17, 2015 12:42 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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